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Dating

You Need Help: You Like Her But She Keeps Bringing Up Boys

Your focus shouldn’t be ‘Is she straight or gay?’. Wondering about that leads to madness, drunk phone calls and other forms of hot messery.

gabby May 15, 2012 44 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Going Down in History

This week on NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday: historical gayness, porn, and non-monogamy.

Guest May 13, 2012 59 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Wants to Show and Tell

Topics include beautiful labias, posing nude while feminist, handling bad sex, naked celebrities, a ‘zine about sex with trans women and so much more!

Riese May 6, 2012 51 Comments
Love + Sex

Shit White Parents Have Said to Me

“Minority youths are really just more violent than white ones. Seriously, you can’t argue with the news.”

gabby April 30, 2012 181 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Sunday Is At Camp: 50 Girls Outside

Here are some pretty people in the outdoors.

Ryan Yates April 29, 2012 26 Comments
Love + Sex Poetry and Fiction

A Poem: kiss, kiss, bang, bang

This is a poem about kissing.

gabby April 28, 2012 25 Comments
Dating

Why Chasing Straight Women is for Amateurs (or Not All Lesbians Creep on Straight Girls)

Staceyann Chin’s got some explaining to do.

gabby April 24, 2012 152 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Likes Taking April Showers With You

This week on NSFW Sunday: lots of discussion about queer porn, sexting, and a “Say Please” excerpt.

Guest April 22, 2012 15 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Certain That Her G-Spot Exists

This week on NSFW Sunday: orgasms, g-spots, porn, pheromone parties, pregnancy fetishes, more from “Curvy Girls” and climate change erotica.

Guest April 15, 2012 22 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Thinks You Look Good in Those Underpants

This week on NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday: feminist porn, knife play, kissing girls, why queer porn is better than other kinds of porn and “Curvy Girls”

Guest April 8, 2012 18 Comments
Book Features NSFW Sunday

Sinclair Sexsmith on “Say Please: Lesbian BDSM Erotica”: The Autostraddle Interview

“The questions quickly became, what is BDSM? And what is lesbian? I’m not sure I know the answer in general, but I figured out a context for this anthology to be born into, some parameters about kinks and fetishes and gender.”

Ryan Yates April 8, 2012 26 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Likes Orgasms and Open Relationships

This week on NSFW Sunday: vibrators and orgasms, your mind and orgasms, open relationships, and more!

Guest April 1, 2012 26 Comments
Breakups First Person

How To Leave Your Husband (Because You’re a Lesbian)

Once upon a time I married a man, had kids, and realized I was a lesbian. Here’s what happened and what I wish somebody had told me at the time.

Laneia March 29, 2012 409 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday: Lesbians Have The Best Sex, It’s Official

This week on NSFW Sunday: Lesbian sex (and queer sex) has been proven to be the best. Also, sex at your parents’ house, orgasms and exercise, and the Map of Human Sexuality.

Guest March 25, 2012 29 Comments
Love + Sex

Formspring Friday Can’t Sleep Without You

How will she come out to her sister? Is she a booty call? How can she make her friend feel better? ONLY YOU KNOW.

Laneia March 23, 2012 87 Comments
Breakups

You Need Help: Closure Is Your Friend

You live in a world with a person who once treated you like crap, but that doesn’t mean you can’t be super happy! With special guest: a raccoon.

Laneia March 20, 2012 27 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Sunday Wants to Spend the Day in Bed With Charts, Curvy Girls and Awards

This week on NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday: the Feminist Porn Awards, the ‘Curvy Girls’ erotica anthology, porn and e-readers, sexuality and online dating, and more!

Guest March 18, 2012 29 Comments
Sex

Public Sex is My Radical Sex

Lesbian sex in bathrooms brought to you by heterosexism.

Isabelle Nastasia March 11, 2012 274 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday’s Porn Star Name is Lesliabosexy

This week on NSFW Sunday: orgasms, porn, and sexual expression.

Guest March 11, 2012 10 Comments
Love + Sex

Formspring Friday Wanted A Pony

Should a girl get breast reduction? Should another girl date a butch even though she usually likes femmes? A meddling mother, a slutty reputation, emotionally vacant gfs and much more!

Laneia March 9, 2012 55 Comments
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