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You Need Help: Your Girlfriend is Permanently Unemployed, Maybe

What to do when a temporary situation starts looking like a permanent personality trait.

Riese February 13, 2012 60 Comments
Sex

Writing Dirty With Rachel Kramer Bussel: The Autostraddle Interview

As part of NSFW Sunday’s All-Tied-Up Month, Autostraddle talks with ridiculously prolific bisexual erotica author and editor Rachel Kramer Bussel on writing, editing, and BDSM.

Ryan Yates February 12, 2012 5 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Sunday Wants To Tie You Up 100 Times

Today on NSFW Sunday: 100 girls in bondage and related lesbian erotica!

Ryan Yates February 12, 2012 34 Comments
Relationships

Mind The (Age) Gap: How to Do a May/December Lesbian Relationship

May-December (or even May-October) romances can present occasional challenges, they can also be awesome.

Butch Wonders February 8, 2012 144 Comments
NSFW Sunday

Bondage 101: A Lesbian Sexy NSFW Sunday Special

We’re getting a little kinky this week with an intro to bondage! There’s a lot to learn, ladies, and we’ll be going deeper all month.

Ryan Yates February 5, 2012 45 Comments
NSFW Sunday Valentine's Day

Gift Guide: 10 Lesbosexy Valentine’s Day Things For Weirdos

Superman underpants, Rachel Maddow soap, spanking powder, boob-shaped pans and other very very very sexy Valentine’s Day themed objects.

Guest February 4, 2012 27 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Will Never Use Bacon Lube

This week in NSFW lesbosexyness: orgasms, online dating, top feminist porn films, and, um, bacon lube.

Guest January 29, 2012 50 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Hiding Her Screen In Starbucks

This week on NSFW Sunday: lesbian erotica, the G-spot, corsets, and the Lingerie Bowl.

Guest January 22, 2012 32 Comments
Love + Sex

Formspring Friday: More Than A Feeling

Someone out there needs your help with revealing gayness to parents, disagreements with an activity partner, loaning friends money and other fun things!

Laneia January 18, 2012 52 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday is Caught Red-Handed

This week on NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday: porn, sex toys, and the winner of Embarrassing Lesbian Sex Story-Fest 2012!

Guest January 15, 2012 19 Comments
Love + Sex

You Need Help: We’re All Just People

Advice for people who have HPV, boobs and a lack of autonomy. This one’s kinda long so you may need to grab a snack. THAT’S WHAT SHE SAID.

Laneia January 11, 2012 56 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Sunday Will Seduce You With Your Really Embarrassing Lesbian Sex Stories!

“My girlfriend, having turned in to six feet of pure femme rage by this time, got up and chased him the fuck out of the house, naked.”

Ryan Yates January 8, 2012 53 Comments
Relationships

You Need Help: Your Girlfriend Is Jealous Of Hypothetical Boys

In which you need your girlfriend to know you’re not about to leave her for a dude.

Rachel January 3, 2012 147 Comments
Relationships

You Need Help: When Your Girlfriend is Abusive

“Two or three things I know, two or three things I know for sure, and one of them is that if we are not beautiful to each other, we cannot know beauty in any form.”

Riese January 2, 2012 63 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Sunday Wants To Give You Sex Toys, Hear Your Stories and Kiss You All Year Long

Who wants to win a party in their pants? We have a big sex toy giveaway, mortifying sex stories, and so much more!

Ryan Yates December 31, 2011 28 Comments
Breakups

The Hardest Part of Breaking Up Is Getting Rid of Your Stuff

Rachel’s Team Pick: Finally, something to do with all your ex’s stuff.

Rachel December 29, 2011 32 Comments
Sex

You Need Help: Four Special Questions

Straight BFF wins Straight Girl of the Year Award, we discuss vulvas, strap-ons and your girlfriend’s flaws. With special bonus feelings from MKO and Riese!

Laneia December 27, 2011 38 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Sunday Wants to Kiss You Under the Mistletoe, Next to the Menorah

Welcome to NSFW Lesbosexy Holiday Sunday! Merry Christmas, Happy Hanukkah, and Happy Weekend!

Guest December 25, 2011 24 Comments
Sex

How Many Girls Want Girl-on-Girl Action?: A Sophisticated Statistical Analysis

Remember that time we told you 60% of heterosexual women were attracted to other women? Yeah that’s not true and it’s one of many numbers/statistics we’ll be discussing today!!

Riese December 22, 2011 34 Comments
Friendship

You Need Help: Your Friend’s a Tool But Your Other Friend’s Ex Isn’t, Also: Jealousy

Your straight friend is predictable, jealousy is a bitch and there’s this girl you’re seeing who used to be seeing this other girl who happens to be a friend of yours. Let’s process!

Laneia December 21, 2011 22 Comments
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