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Sex

You Need Help (ON VIDEO!): You Want to Want Her But You Don’t

Haviland Stillwell and Riese answer your wanting to want sex with her question on video, with special guests Marni & Ashley!

Riese October 3, 2011 16 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday is Sex-Positive and Body-Positive and Will Show You Hers

Baby you were born this [whatever].

Riese October 2, 2011 21 Comments
Love + Sex

You Need Help ON VIDEO: You Don’t Need Help

Haviland & Riese are answering your “You Need Help” questions ON VIDEO. How special!

Riese September 27, 2011 24 Comments
Sex

You Need Help: Fake Orgasms and Potato Soup, Sorta

How to stop faking orgasms and start being honest about how you like your damn soup.

Laneia September 27, 2011 37 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Sunday: A Lesbosexy History Lesson

Because knowledge is sexy. And so are vintage lesbians.

Guest September 25, 2011 25 Comments
Sex Toys

The RodeOH Harness Will Start a Revolution in Your Bed

Forget everything you knew about harnesses, this is way better than all those things.

Guest September 25, 2011 49 Comments
Comedy Dating

DeAnne Smith and The Dating Game

“Why are my arms so skinny? People can be friendly. Fuck, she’s so cute. Am I getting enough iron?”

DeAnne September 22, 2011 49 Comments
Dating

You Need Help: Requisite Crush on a Barista

How do you successfully flirt with that adorable barista?

Laneia September 19, 2011 82 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Thinking Ahead

“Pink Visual is planning to build a massive sex bunker to protect their staff from the end of the world.”

Guest September 18, 2011 11 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday is Naked

Everyone in this post is completely naked, except for one girl in cutoffs.

Guest September 11, 2011 46 Comments
NSFW Sunday

100 Lesbian Kissing Scenes From 100 Movies

100 hot girl-on-girl lesbian kisses from 100 different movies from all over space and time. Also, a REALLY exciting Anonymous Sex Toy Review.

Riese September 4, 2011 41 Comments
Sex

Ethics of Lust: Autostraddle is Legally Sexy

“This week’s topic is a smorgasbord of the law and sexuality inspired by Autostraddle!”

Queerie Bradshaw September 3, 2011 12 Comments
Dating

You Need Help: Falling in Love In One (Digital) Dimension

Can you fall in love and have a successful relationship with somebody you’ve never met?

Riese August 31, 2011 62 Comments
Sex

You Need Help: Being a Chick Who Wants to Bang Her Co-Worker

Advice about dating your co-worker.

Laneia August 29, 2011 32 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Sunday Likes Lace and Fishnets

This week on NSFW Sunday, lesbians can wear lace and fishnets, vibrators can help backup your hard drive, and sex when you’re older will still be a thing.

Guest August 28, 2011 35 Comments
Sex

Ethics of Lust: On the Legality of Stripping and Burlesque

This week we focus on scantily clad people inside strip clubs and burlesque halls.

Queerie Bradshaw August 28, 2011 15 Comments
Sex

How I Learned to Talk (In Bed): Why This Queer Woman Cares About Consent

I had already committed, in my mind, to taking on consent activism for the rest of my life. Then I came out of the closet.

Carmen August 26, 2011 66 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday: So Many Things to Discover!

Clitoris, masturbation, asexuals, having sex vs. being sexual, A to Z sex, jane fonda’s sex secret, taboos, and some breaking news about gay insect sex.

Riese August 21, 2011 23 Comments
Sex

Ethics of Lust: All About Scantily Clad Women

“The laws surrounding what you can and cannot show of your own body in public are so complex and convoluted that I could not even begin to cover them all in a single blog post.”

Queerie Bradshaw August 21, 2011 55 Comments
Dating

OKCupid: We Read Your Profile

On a typical Friday night you are: “Finding a place to put all these dead bodies.”

Laneia August 21, 2011 124 Comments
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