Queer Your Wedding Wardrobe: For Shorties And Butch Bridesmaids
How to decide who wear heels when neither of you is The Tall One and break the news that you won’t be wearing a dress.
Oh Gay Cupid! Your New Best Friend Awaits
The first installment in Autostraddle’s OkCupid Series! Take a chance, meet some people who simply want more queers in their lives.
Queer Your Wedding Wardrobe: Last-Minute Grooms, Center of Center, Boi-Girls & Classy Cocktail Dresses
In the last installment on out queer survival guide to weddings, we’ve got a tale of two disasters, a guide on finding your balance and advice on giving the right kind of fucks.
Queer Your Wedding Wardrobe: Finding Your MOC-Style & Dressing in Dresses
On being brave when all you feel is panic and bringing out your inner superhero when your sig oth starts freaking out.
Queer Your Wedding Wardrobe: The Fashion Doctor Is In
Our three wonderstylists will have you feeling good, looking gorgeous.
Queer Your Wedding Wardrobe: Real dapperQ East Coast Wedding Style
In which we kick off our four part wedding series with a little inspiration from DapperQ.
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Likes Your Hair
This week on NSFW Sunday: lesbian cougars, Edith Wharton erotica, pixel smut, constant orgasms, and epic pole dancing.
The Stranger Helps You Be a Gay Person
Malaika’s Team Pick: “Let’s face it: this being a person thing is pretty challenging, and unfortunately being a gay person further complicates things.”
NY Mag Sex Diary Stars Lesbian Couple Getting Kinky in Provincetown
“She is often horny after working out. I’m often horny after drinking while she is working out, so we are a perfect match.”
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday is Spending the Day in Bed
This week on NSFW Sunday: a periodic table of feminist porn, period sex, and skinny dipping etiquette.
Run Anyway: Real Talk About Abusive Lesbian Relationships
“The further away I got, the clearer it became. She had been my first serious girlfriend after a succession of boyfriends, and I was more in love than I had ever been before. But the relationship stretched and accommodated behavior I likely would have never taken from a man.”
CDC Warns That Oral Sex Is Still Risky: How Queers Who Like Vaginas Can Keep Them Safe
Safer oral sex is healthier, sexier, and is likely to improve the quality of your life in general.
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Thinking About Sex, Duh
This week on NSFW Sunday: porn and pleasure, period sex, and writing smut.
Family Business: How To Break Up With Your Ex’s Family, Too
You were never just dating a cute woman. You were dating a cute woman who is also someone’s daughter, granddaughter, bubeleh, mija, etc.
All NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Wants is You
This week on NSFW Sunday: race and BDSM, geeks and sexuality, Dita Von Teese, and the key to having sex dreams.
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Has A Crush on Velvet Nest And A Desire Project
This week on NSFW Sunday: oral sex, summer, desire, and a femme strap-on harness review.
You Need Help: How To Navigate a Social Event with Your Ex
You and your ex are going to the same social event? You should probs read this first.
In Which This Queer Sex Blogger Feels Up New York Magazine’s “Sex Issue”
There is a “New York Magazine” issue dedicated entirely to boning. Did you know? And guess what? It’s not entirely about heterosexuals in missionary position–there are so many more perspectives than that.
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday is Getting Digital, Physical
This week on NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday: skype sex, sexting, the digital graveyard of your relationship, and lesbian bed death.
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday is 50 Shades of Ridiculous
This week on NSFW Sunday: lingerie, cunnilingus, thinking kink and a guide to writing erotica.