Carly and Robin’s Wedding Was, In Fact, Too Adorable For Words

Carmen’s (and everyone’s) Team Pick:

The only love story that literally gets me every time is the one between Carly and Robin.


Carly and Robin’s wedding took place on November 18, 2012 and was romantic as all hell. Their wedding was so fucking perfect it crashed the world wide web, or at least my Twitter feed. I responded as I typically do to news about and/or Instagram photographs shared widely on the Internet of Carly and Robin in their natural state as everyone’s favorite couple: I melted and then I reshared.

In the spirit of all that, and in the deep hopes I’m not the only one deeply moved by this photographic material, I’d like to share with you the wedding album of one much-beloved Carly / DJ Carlytron Usdin and Photographer-to-the-Stars Robin Roemer, co-starring Arthur the amazingly statuesque dog. Or at least some of the greatest hits.





All photos were taken by Kelly Kollar. You can see the rest at her website.


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Carmen spent six years with Autostraddle, most recently as Community Director, Feminism Editor and Social Media Co-Director. She is now the Managing Digital Editor at Ms. , host of Bitch Media's POPAGANDA podcast and Contributing Editor and co-founder of Argot magazine. Her words have also been published by BuzzFeed, ElixHER, Everyday Feminism, Girlboss, Mic, MEL, and Feministing, among others. Her successful work over the last decade in digital feminism—as a writer, social media maven and activist leader—has earned her the titles of "digital native," "intimidating to some," and "vapid and uninteresting." Everything else you need to know about her you can find out at

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  1. well okay the problem(s) is (are):

    1. i will live the rest of my life being really anxious that my future wedding photos will NEVER be as fucking cute as these are

    2. these photos forced me to create a wedding pinterest board and i’m super embarrassed about it so i titled it “god this is embarrassing” but like, how could i not pin every single image?!?!?!

    but for real, these are the best. THE BEST. thank you for indicating that it’s really everyone’s team pick, carm.

    mazel tov, robin & carly!

    this comment is so disjointed. i’m having a lot of feelings. i love everyone. isn’t love beautiful?

  2. wow, not studying for my exams has never been cuter. those pictures are so adorable, they brought tears to my eyes. i hope i can find someone to share even half as much love as those two clearly do

  3. Squeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!!

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