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Queer Your Wedding Wardrobe: Real dapperQ East Coast Wedding Style

In which we kick off our four part wedding series with a little inspiration from DapperQ.

dapperq September 5, 2012 8 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Likes Your Hair

This week on NSFW Sunday: lesbian cougars, Edith Wharton erotica, pixel smut, constant orgasms, and epic pole dancing.

Ryan Yates September 1, 2012 22 Comments
Love + Sex

The Stranger Helps You Be a Gay Person

Malaika’s Team Pick: “Let’s face it: this being a person thing is pretty challenging, and unfortunately being a gay person further complicates things.”

Malaika August 30, 2012 28 Comments
Sex

NY Mag Sex Diary Stars Lesbian Couple Getting Kinky in Provincetown

“She is often horny after working out. I’m often horny after drinking while she is working out, so we are a perfect match.”

Riese August 28, 2012 17 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday is Spending the Day in Bed

This week on NSFW Sunday: a periodic table of feminist porn, period sex, and skinny dipping etiquette.

Ryan Yates August 26, 2012 11 Comments
Relationships

Run Anyway: Real Talk About Abusive Lesbian Relationships

“The further away I got, the clearer it became. She had been my first serious girlfriend after a succession of boyfriends, and I was more in love than I had ever been before. But the relationship stretched and accommodated behavior I likely would have never taken from a man.”

Gabrielle Korn August 21, 2012 95 Comments
Sex

CDC Warns That Oral Sex Is Still Risky: How Queers Who Like Vaginas Can Keep Them Safe

Safer oral sex is healthier, sexier, and is likely to improve the quality of your life in general.

Gabrielle Korn August 20, 2012 48 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Thinking About Sex, Duh

This week on NSFW Sunday: porn and pleasure, period sex, and writing smut.

Ryan Yates August 19, 2012 16 Comments
Breakups

Family Business: How To Break Up With Your Ex’s Family, Too

You were never just dating a cute woman. You were dating a cute woman who is also someone’s daughter, granddaughter, bubeleh, mija, etc.

fonseca August 15, 2012 42 Comments
NSFW Sunday

All NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Wants is You

This week on NSFW Sunday: race and BDSM, geeks and sexuality, Dita Von Teese, and the key to having sex dreams.

Ryan Yates August 12, 2012 26 Comments
Sex Toys

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Has A Crush on Velvet Nest And A Desire Project

This week on NSFW Sunday: oral sex, summer, desire, and a femme strap-on harness review.

Guest August 5, 2012 23 Comments
Breakups

You Need Help: How To Navigate a Social Event with Your Ex

You and your ex are going to the same social event? You should probs read this first.

Tully August 1, 2012 54 Comments
Sex

In Which This Queer Sex Blogger Feels Up New York Magazine’s “Sex Issue”

There is a “New York Magazine” issue dedicated entirely to boning. Did you know? And guess what? It’s not entirely about heterosexuals in missionary position–there are so many more perspectives than that.

A.E. Osworth July 30, 2012 18 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday is Getting Digital, Physical

This week on NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday: skype sex, sexting, the digital graveyard of your relationship, and lesbian bed death.

Ryan Yates July 29, 2012 20 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday is 50 Shades of Ridiculous

This week on NSFW Sunday: lingerie, cunnilingus, thinking kink and a guide to writing erotica.

Guest July 22, 2012 18 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Wants You In A Quite Simple Desperate Human Way

This week on NSFW Sunday: lesbian love letters, sex and punishment, surveys, and cyclists.

Guest July 15, 2012 15 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Sending You Signals

This week on NSFW Sunday: erotic hand signalling, outdated traditions, sexy indie rock girls, and the “Trans Women Safer Sex Guide.”

Guest July 8, 2012 13 Comments
Friendship

You Need Help: You Don’t Know What To Say

In which we discuss if and when you need to tell a partner about your eating disorder.

Rachel July 5, 2012 14 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Doing It In The Road

This week on NSFW Sunday: dating yourself, couch surfing, and tastes and sex. I know, sex! Crazy.

Guest July 1, 2012 25 Comments
Love + Sex

Formspring Friday Didn’t Know You Could Jump So High

This week you’re helping out with a variety of mom-related issues, girlfriend feelings, touchy feely straight girls, coming out as trans* and a possible stone butch, among other things. Maybe our best FS Friday ever.

Laneia June 29, 2012 67 Comments
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