On Sobriety, Recovery and the Art of Not Dating
“My sobriety buddies warned me that if I violated the ban on dating before I was ready, I might be pushed into a relapse. Instead, I’ve just been pushed into never wanting to date again.”
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Thinking More About Sex
The week on NSFW Sunday: self-esteem, transforming representations in porn and Best Lesbian Erotica 2013.
Idol Worship: Two Idols Are Better Than One, Especially When Those Two Idols Are Together
Valentine’s Day Edition! A collection of lady-loving-ladies I love loving a lady I also love in a somewhat official manner.
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Sleeps Nude
So much sex-related material, including porn milestones, having sex in a canoe, your first time, sexual quality improvement and erotica-writing.
Am I On A Date Or Are We Just Two Pretty Girls Hanging Out?
“There was so much fucking estrogen and so many ladies who fist other ladies in that building, my ovaries tried to reproduce asexually.”
28 Super Lesbosexy Valentine’s Day Gift Ideas
From floggers to legwarmers to boyshorts to candles to lip venom to strap-ons to so much more — 28 ideas for your special queer someone this Valentine’s Day Season.
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Guilty As Charged
This week on NSFW Sunday: lingerie, the best vintage sci-fi porn (now with lesbian dominatrixes) and nation-wide sexual health rankings.
You Need Help: Real Talk About Your First Strap-On
“Help! I just got a strap-on and it turns out I’m not so skilled at using it (yet). How do I learn?”
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Will Be A Shock To Your System
This week on NSFW Sunday: ex sex, explaining what lesbians do in bed, a smut writing manifesto, talking about porn in relationships and more.
New App Helps Overthinkers Get A Date
Four questions. You can handle four questions. Especially when one of them is, “What’s your name?”
You Need Help: No One’s An Expert on Orgasms Right Away
“I’ve been hanging out/ hooking up with this girl for about a month. I have her pretty figured out physically and can get her off fairly quick, but the same can’t be said about her. I don’t have a problem with it, but it’s starting to make her upset. Help.”
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Wants To Hold Your Hand
This week on NSFW Sunday: killer femmes, modern love, orgasm-free casual sex, nonsexual touching, “The Barbie” and a lesbian porn party.
Formspring Friday: These Queers Desperately Need Your Advice Because We’re Stumped
Boys creating problems, exes who won’t own up to stuff, flirty best friends, and how to start checking your own privilege in the name love. It’s time to give advice to anonymous strangers on the internet!
What We Talk About When We Talk About Flogging
Gather ’round, queers, and let me tell you the tale of The Christmas Flogger. It is a tale of how my girlfriend and I negotiated, bought and learned to use our very first flogger.
The Guardian Impressively Talks About Gay Sex By Not Talking About It
In a recent Guardian article, British journalist and author Nick Cohen put on his whimsical ally cap and attempted to tackle an age-old question: Why are straight people so darned invested in what gays do in bed?
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Shameless
This week on NSFW Sunday: being a mistress, sleeping naked, sexual history curation and a queer feminist porn review.
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Using Both Hands
This week on NSFW Sunday: Hitachi magic wands, new lesbian porn, how yoga helps your sex life, kinky fairy tales and more.
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Making Out At Midnight
This week on NSFW Sunday: writing about sex, car sex, g-spots, the most provocative books of 2012 and more.
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Will Think More About Sex
This week on NSFW Sunday: 2012 in sex, dream girls, open relationship interviews, dildos on airplanes and buying your first vibrator.
I Seek, You Seek, SheSeek: Esther Zinn and her Girl-on-Girl Culture App
Meet Esther Zinn, the creator of the iPhone app that lets you find clubs, bars, events and even news for queer ladies anywhere you go.