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The first question people asked me when I got engaged was what I was going to wear to the wedding. My impulse reaction was to blurt out, “how the fuck should I know?”

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Lesbian Weddings Queer Fashion

Best Day Ever: 3 Lesbians Share How They Rocked a Suit to Their Weddings

Three brides who opted for suits explain how their choice of attire ensured that their wedding was the best day of their lives.

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Lesbian Weddings Queer Fashion Shopping

Wedding Looks for Andro-Femme Leaning Folks

A reader asked for some wedding looks for a person with an androgynous/femme aesthetic that they could wear to a straight family member’s wedding and I immediately asked to make a style guide because getting fancy for grandma while still feeling like myself is one of my favorite things to do.

Ari August 22, 2017 43 Comments
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You Need Help: How to Break In Your New Wedding Shoes

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Lesbian Weddings Queer Fashion

You Need Help: Wedding Fashion For Queers Just a Few Centimeters Femme of Center

I’m a tear-filled romantic who loves parties, so I love weddings, and I’m obsessed with dress-code-based fashion, so I love weddings even more. I’m also pretty obsessed with the idea of androgynous dresses, so I’m excited to talk about them.

Mey March 29, 2017 32 Comments
Lesbian Weddings Queer Fashion

GIVEAWAY: Wildfang Wants to Make Your Wedding The Most Fashionable Ever!

Live happily ever after in the wedding suit of your dreams thanks to Wildfang.

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Lesbian Weddings Queer Fashion

4 Outfits to Get Married In That Aren’t White Wedding Dresses

Not feeling the traditional white wedding dress? No worries, we’ve got you covered.

Kate Schaefer July 13, 2015 109 Comments
Lesbian Weddings Queer Fashion

Queer Your Wedding Wardrobe: For Shorties And Butch Bridesmaids

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the team September 8, 2012 41 Comments
Lesbian Weddings Queer Fashion

Queer Your Wedding Wardrobe: Last-Minute Grooms, Center of Center, Boi-Girls & Classy Cocktail Dresses

In the last installment on out queer survival guide to weddings, we’ve got a tale of two disasters, a guide on finding your balance and advice on giving the right kind of fucks.

the team September 7, 2012 17 Comments
Lesbian Weddings Queer Fashion

Queer Your Wedding Wardrobe: Finding Your MOC-Style & Dressing in Dresses

On being brave when all you feel is panic and bringing out your inner superhero when your sig oth starts freaking out.

the team September 6, 2012 24 Comments
Lesbian Weddings Queer Fashion

Queer Your Wedding Wardrobe: The Fashion Doctor Is In

Our three wonderstylists will have you feeling good, looking gorgeous.

the team September 5, 2012 76 Comments
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Queer Your Wedding Wardrobe: Real dapperQ East Coast Wedding Style

In which we kick off our four part wedding series with a little inspiration from DapperQ.

dapperq September 5, 2012 8 Comments

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