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Queer Fashion

Why Are Straight Christian Modesty Influencers Claiming “Tomboy Femme” Like It’s a New Fashion Trend?

“As quickly as the tomboy femme has risen to the heights of wlw stardom, however, she’s also grabbed the attention of an unexpected internet subculture: Christian influencers.”

Atlanta Tsiaoukkas July 14, 2025 7 Comments
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Celebrities (Vapid Fluff) Queer Fashion

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Queer Fashion

Zach Stafford on the Met Gala, Black Dandyism, and André Leon Talley

Ahead of the Met Gala, Zach Stafford reflects on the history of The Black Dandy, the legacy of André Leon Talley, and what it means to cover the Oscars of Fashion.

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Queer Fashion Shopping

Depressioncore but Make It Bright: What To Wear in Late Winter When You’re Sick of Neutrals

Consider this your guide to finding some color and cheer in these trying times — you deserve it!

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Music Queer Fashion

Power Ranking Chappell Roan’s Most Iconic Queer Looks

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Introducing The Best Gay Underwear Of All Time

Introducing our first line of gay underwear: dyke briefs, dolls tangas, bottom boxers and so much more

Riese August 13, 2024 7 Comments
Unsuitable
Book Features Queer Fashion

‘Unsuitable’ Looks at the Dynamic History of Lesbian Fashion

From Sappho’s violets to monocles to bandanas in your back pocket, queer women have long used fashion as a signal to find their community.

Sa'iyda Shabazz June 27, 2024
YOU NEED HELP: a lesbian in a Hawaiian shirt
Queer Fashion

I Want To Dress Like Lesbian Jimmy Buffett

“The problem is I’m having a hard time adapting his boat lovin’, chill dude style to my tits and ass.”

Em Win June 25, 2024 5 Comments
Chappell Roan
Queer Fashion

The Queer Legacy Behind Chappell Roan’s Fashion Choices

Known for her queer pop anthems as much as for her drag-inspired looks, this past year has seen Chappell Roan evolve her style with a decidedly 80s twang.

Freya Robinson May 30, 2024 3 Comments
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Queer Fashion

Who To Follow on TikTok for Queer Masc Fashion Inspiration

I hope to help all my masculine friends out there in finding new content to inspire them.

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Queer Fashion

How To Dress in Gay Tenniscore After Seeing ‘Challengers’

The goal with queer Tenniscore is to look like you could seamlessly transition from being courtside to being at the gay club/party.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya May 7, 2024 1 Comment
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Met Gala 2024: Who’s All Gay Here? The Best in This Year’s Queer Fashion

It’s the Met! And you know what that means! It’s time to look upon hot queers, poke a some fun at celebrity culture, and give flowers the designers, culture workers, and glam teams that make this topsy-turvy fashion world go ’round. 

Carmen Phillips May 7, 2024 3 Comments
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Queer Fashion

This Femme Started Wearing Cargo Shorts, and You Can Too

Most days I just go full dyke and wear them with a tee shirt and Toms, but I will also pair them with a cute floral top and ballet flats.

Sa'iyda Shabazz May 4, 2024 1 Comment
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Movie Features Queer Fashion

Style Thief: How To Harness the Texan Lesthario Style of Drive-Away Dolls’ Jamie

Invest in a big-buckled belt and get ready to break some hearts!

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya March 4, 2024 4 Comments
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Movie Features Queer Fashion

Style Thief: How To Button Up Like Marian in Drive-Away Dolls

Channel the late-90s/early-2000s lesbian looks of Drive-Away Dolls!

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Queer Fashion Style

Your Guide to Divorcee-Core Style

The vibe we’re going for here is Angela Bassett lighting her ex husband’s belongings on fire in a driveway.

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Queer Fashion

19 Disabled LGBT Fashion Icons Defying Stereotypes

This collection of style icons isn’t just about showcasing people with disabilities; it’s about challenging preconceived notions. It’s about celebrating those who blend their queer and disabled identities with unapologetic authenticity.

Katie November 26, 2023 6 Comments
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Queer Fashion Shopping

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Listen, beanies are functional, but sometimes you want something with a bit more swagger.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya November 4, 2023 4 Comments
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Queer Fashion Shopping

19 Gay-as-Hell Winter Coats to Keep You Warm Inside and Out

Maybe you are ready to feel toasty and gay and drink hot chocolate and be gay and feel that pleasant nip on your nose and ear tips while you run around at the pet rescue and again most importantly BE GAY.

Carmen Phillips November 2, 2023 2 Comments
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Queer Fashion Shopping

25 Denim Jackets Worth Adding to Your Closet to Casually Up the Gay

We’ve approached peak fall. Let’s make sure your annual denim jacket is appropriately gay coded.

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