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A collage over a pink sparkle background: Weird Barbie played by Kate McKinnon as both the rebel leader at the end of the Barbie movie and as the Birkenstock guide early in the movie. Then also, left to right: an Asian woman in a pink leather jacket, pink Birkenstocks, a Black woman in a pink dress, pink and orange patterned sweatpants, and black Birkenstocks.
Movie Features Queer Fashion

Style Thief: How to Dress Like Weird Barbie, the Most Lesbian of Barbies

How much pink is too much pink for one outfit, you may ask? Infinity.

Carmen Phillips October 1, 2023 10 Comments
an off white and black oversized open flannel, a slouchy black, white, and red open flannel, and a purple and red buttoned up flannel
Queer Fashion Shopping

Enter Sapphic Fall Mode With These Fresh Flannels

It’s about time for our annual family trip to go apple and pumpkin picking, so I have flannel on the brain.

Sa'iyda Shabazz September 26, 2023 4 Comments
Janelle Monae collaged in front of fashionable concert goers in front of a sunset gradient.
Music Queer Fashion

What Are We Wearing to the Janelle Monaé Concert, Bestie?

Age of Pleasure has the aesthetics of summer heat and sweaty queer bodies, but the tour covers September and October! And “fall queer beach party” aesthetic is just so f*cking hard!

Carmen Phillips September 15, 2023 6 Comments
collage of Hazel in Bottoms
Movie Features Queer Fashion

Style Thief: The Cute Tomboy Grandpa Style of Hazel from “Bottoms”

Do you want to be Hazel or do you want to date Hazel? The only way to find out is to dress exactly like Hazel from “Bottoms” in your everyday life or as a Halloween costume.

Riese September 10, 2023 4 Comments
josie in a rugby shirt, PJ in overalls and a tee, josie in an atari tee, PJ as dutch boy
Movie Features Queer Fashion

Style Thief: Dress Like Josie and PJ From “Bottoms”

It’s your turn to look like our favorite untalented gays and Little Dutch Boys.

Riese September 9, 2023 2 Comments
A collage of the author, shea wesley martin, in four different pair of Chino pants, each in a gold picture frame. shea is a fat black nonbinary person with glasses and a fade haircut.
First Person Queer Fashion

Porkchop’s Odyssey: On Fatness, Transness, and Pants

This snapshot sits on a shelf in the back of my mind. I keep it in an album called “euphoria.” It includes moments – me in my first bowtie at my college graduation, me on my wedding day, me in the mountains with my first jean jacket. In each, I am myself.

shea wesley martin June 14, 2023 22 Comments
the cover of the DapperQ coffee table book, repeated three times over. The cover includes portraits of eight different queer people posing in gorgeous and unique outfits. On a black banner background in the center, white texts reads: DapperQ Style, Ungendering Fashion
Book Features Queer Fashion

In “dapperQ Style: Ungendering Fashion,” Queer Style Is Centered and Celebrated

Our bodies deserve exuberant fabrics and innovative design and can highlight beautiful parts of what society typically erases.

dapperq May 23, 2023 7 Comments
The Target Pride 2023 collection in a downward angle: a shirt that says "its' not a phase" featuring the moon in different phases, a Jenifer Prince shirt that reads "Thinking about girls," and an aquamarine tank top that says "queer joy"
LGBT Pride Queer Fashion Shopping

I May Just Be a Target Stan, but I Love All Their Pride Themed Merch

Unfortunately, the “live, laugh, lesbian” tee is sold out online, so I will be stalking all of the stores in my area to find it.

Sa'iyda Shabazz May 10, 2023 11 Comments
LGBT Attendees of the Met Galla, left to right and top to bottom: Janelle Monae, Brittney Griner and her wife Cherelle Griner, Bella Ramsey, Keke Palmer, Kristen Stewart, and Ariana DeBose.
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff) Queer Fashion

Every Scrap of Queer Fashion from the 2023 Met Gala

Yesterday was the First Monday in May, and if you’re anything even remotely close to a fashion gay — you know that means.

Carmen Phillips May 2, 2023 14 Comments
a blue travel accessory bag, a brown leather pouch, a pink laptop case, a clear pouch, a pink pouch, and a purse organizer
Queer Fashion Shopping

Spring Edit: You Know What Your Main Bag Needs? A Smaller Bag Inside It

In which I gently boss you into cleaning out your bag and putting in things you’ll actually use.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya April 22, 2023 10 Comments
A green canvas backpack, a sun-shaped throw pillow, a picnic basket that is open, a set of gingham cloth napkins, led string lights shaped like flowers, and a cooler with built-in speakers
Queer Fashion Shopping

Spring Edit: Must-Have Accessories for Your Next Queer Picnic

Welcome to Spring Edit, a new miniseries all about giving your life a little refresh for warmer weather.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya April 3, 2023 11 Comments
Queer Fashion

Style Thief: Steal M3GAN’s Killer Looks

A multi-hyphenate legend! Companion, parental figure, AND murderer! There is nothing M3GAN cannot do!

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya January 19, 2023 9 Comments
A collage of Analyssa in four different outfits, that are in a range of tomboy femme to dress up dresses and make up. Analyssa is a light skin Latina with dark hair.
Queer Fashion Shopping

This Clothing Rental Service Changed My Life, Now I Don’t Have to Stress My Aesthetic

If I want to lean into a more femme style this month, or if I want to try a bunch of different new jumpsuits, or if I want to test the new trendy style of jeans in a bunch of different washes: these are now all options for me! 

Analyssa December 22, 2022 8 Comments
1. A red velvet wrap dress. 2. A gold glitter dress. 3. A black leather look mini dress. 4. A dark blue velvet dress.
Holigays Queer Fashion

So You Want To Go to a Holiday Party

We’re gonna close out the year and wrap up our new romcom protagonists, all in one!

Christina Tucker December 16, 2022 6 Comments
Holigays Queer Fashion

Five Outfits for Being a Kitchen Top This Holiday Season

Practical and stylish, all you’ll have to do is take off your apron and reveal your fit for the evening.

danijanae November 28, 2022 16 Comments
An image of a lavender bra sitting on a wooden table. More bras in various colors are rolled up in a blue and white basket beside it.
Queer Fashion

This Wire-Free Bra for Larger Chests Changed My Life

It’s seamless under t-shirts, it stays compressive over the course of the day, and I can use it as an impromptu swim top or keep it on overnight when I’m camping. It’s absolute magic.

Darcy November 16, 2022 40 Comments
A blue Oxford, gray tapered dress slacks, high-waisted tapered black slacks, and a black turtleneck
Queer Fashion

So You Want To Dress Like Tár

Tár’s impeccable wardrobe is probably the only unqualified good thing about her.

Christina Tucker November 11, 2022 8 Comments
A close up of Black New Balance gym shoes with a grey N across the sides and white laces. It's a casual suede shoe.
Queer Fashion

New Balance 237s Changed My Life, Welcomed My Mid-30s by Correcting My Stride and Attitude

I’m four years into my 30s and all the bones in my body were finally going creaky. And of course, it just had to begin in my knees.

Stef Rubino October 21, 2022 19 Comments
A black shearling jacket, a black long blazer coat, a black and white striped cardigan dress, and a brown leather motojacket
Queer Fashion

So You Want To Have Some Fall Whimsy

It’s time to bring back our romance novel slash Hallmark movie protagonists for some whimsical fall adventures!

Christina Tucker October 14, 2022 8 Comments
A black faux fur sweater dress, a pair of high waisted denim jeans, a black low cut jumpsuit, and a black moto jacket.
Halloween Queer Fashion

Five Outfits To Wear for Halloweekend

If you’re looking to go out during Halloweekend but are not interested in putting together a costume, there are some looks you can put together that will stop the show while also being comfortable enough to dance in.

danijanae October 12, 2022 7 Comments
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