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Queer Fashion

Holigay Gift Guide: Picking the Perfect Lingerie for the Babe in Your Life

Let’s be real: shopping for other people is already daunting. Shopping for lingerie and underthings? Holy eff. Here are some of the essentials to know when it comes to lingerie gift giving.

Jeanna December 13, 2018 10 Comments
Food and Drink Queer Fashion

Merry Butchmas: Cozy Holiday Cocktails and the Hot Butch Looks to Sip Them In

Are you wearing a festive yet alluring butch outfit while reclining in front of a fireplace with a delicious wintertime cocktail? Hm. Well, we can help fix that.

M December 4, 2018 34 Comments
Queer Fashion

Find Your Fit: The Non-binary Queer Ready to Be a Femme Daddy

“A lot of what I’m trying to evoke can be represented in the hosts of The Weakest Link around the world. Powerful take-no-shit femmes in suits, oh my.”

M December 4, 2018 19 Comments
Issues Queer Fashion

Monday Roundtable: The Jewelry We Wear Every Day

“My favorite thing in the world is when people ask if it’s a mood ring so I can say yes.”

the team December 3, 2018 37 Comments
Queer Fashion

Holigay Gift Guide: Seasonal Butch Accessories For Staying Warm, Looking Hot

Some of you might be here because the weather changed and you need warm things, some of you are like me and can’t wait to buy shit for every season, and some of you just want to look cute and don’t know where to start.

M November 29, 2018 12 Comments
Queer Fashion

Find Your Fit: The Former Pinup Moving to Minimalism

“I want to be SEEN by that hot dyke in the bus, ya know? And also to feel at home in this fat, queer body that I haven’t felt good about for too long and that I love now but don’t know how to show off?”

M November 20, 2018 12 Comments
Issues Queer Fashion

Monday Roundtable: The First Queer People Who Pinged Our Gaydars With Their Style

“I’d actually never even seen a woman in a blazer before. Like a men’s cut blazer. It really was like Fun Home. Inside I really did feel like I KNOW YOU!”

the team November 19, 2018 25 Comments
Issues Queer Fashion

Nancy Meyers But Make It Gay: Wearing a Chunky Beach Sweater When Your Life Is Falling Apart

Sometimes you just have to let out your inner Connecticut divorcée on a beach.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya November 13, 2018 25 Comments
Queer Fashion

Find Your Fit: The Edgy Lesbian Who’s “Femme, Not Frail”

“I’m a psych major with a love for writing poetry and making traditionally masculine and also lesbian things — style or otherwise — edgy and feminine. One of my many mottos is “femme ain’t frail” and I would hope the way I present represents that.”

M November 6, 2018 12 Comments
Issues Queer Fashion

Monday Roundtable: The Lesbian Style Clichés We’ll Never Give Up

“One time my coworker asked if I could dress any dykier and you know what? I don’t know. It’s pretty gay.”

the team November 5, 2018 74 Comments
Queer Fashion

Find Your Fit: The Accountant Who Wants to Accessorize

“I can’t stand wearing high heels, and I have no idea how to accessorize — but I want to get out of my comfort zone a bit.”

M October 23, 2018 6 Comments
Queer Fashion

PHOTOESSAY: All The Queers Were Equally Hot at Los Angeles’ First “Equality Fashion Week”

Los Angeles’ first “Equality Fashion Week” featured incredible queer and trans designers on the rooftop of a fancy hotel and we had fun!

Riese October 9, 2018 9 Comments
Queer Fashion

Find Your Fit: The Non-Binary Student Ready to Evolve Past Jeans & T-Shirts

I’m a Taurus sun, Sagittarius moon non-binary person from France, who recently discovered that they feel much more at home in the men’s section of the stores.

M October 9, 2018 13 Comments
Queer Fashion Straddleverse

Call for Submissions: But Make It Fashion

Submissions are now open for our next quarterly theme issue: But Make It Fashion.

The Editors October 4, 2018 10 Comments
Lesbian Weddings Queer Fashion

La Boda Jota #3: What’s a Fat Tomboy Femme to Wear on Her Wedding Day?

The first question people asked me when I got engaged was what I was going to wear to the wedding. My impulse reaction was to blurt out, “how the fuck should I know?”

Yvonne September 26, 2018 21 Comments
Queer Fashion

Find Your Fit: The Lesbian Robot Who Needs Class, not Formality

“Until recently I’ve lived in boot-cut blue jeans and snarky t-shirts, and my usual fall/winter wardrobe is that plus a flannel and tennis shoes. I’d like to class it up a little bit without having to take ages to get dressed in the morning, but somehow long-sleeve button-fronts just seem so formal!”

M September 25, 2018 12 Comments
Queer Fashion

An Ode to Fat Tomboy Femmes: Effortlessly Cool Plus-Size Outfits

I’m still defining “tomboy femme” style for myself but it gets exponentially harder to find inspiration when all I see is fashion for white, thin bodies. I’m a fat tomboy femme of color and I deserve cute outfits!

Yvonne September 24, 2018 26 Comments
Queer Fashion

Find Your Fit: The Construction Worker Who Wants Style That’s Practical and Hot

“At the moment I wear jeans and a t-shirt with a pair of boots… but I have to meet big deal bosses/clients and I get the vibe I look too unprofessional.”

M September 11, 2018 7 Comments
Queer Fashion

PHOTOESSAY: dapperQ’s “Dress Code” Made Your Queer Dreams Come True at New York Fashion Week

In its 5th year, dapperQ continued to throw the most inclusive New York Fashion Week runway event, and it was amazing.

Molly September 10, 2018 7 Comments
LGBT Book Reviews Queer Fashion

“In Intimate Detail” Is the Singular Guide to Lingerie – and It’s Queer-Inclusive

“I’ve had conversations with brands where they’ve been very explicit about who their customers weren’t. They weren’t plus size people. They weren’t queer people. They weren’t people of color. And those attitudes affect me as well as a black, queer woman.”

Jeanna September 4, 2018 3 Comments
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