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Book Features The L Word

Leisha Hailey and Kate Moennig Go Deep Into The L Word’s Most Legendary Sex Scenes

“It was our way of subverting expectation, showing that lesbians are different kinds of people with their own relationship dynamics, even in the bedroom.”

Kate & Leisha June 4, 2025 2 Comments
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Book Features

The Right Isn’t the Only Side We Need To Fight When It Comes to Trans Sports Inclusion

We all know that this sports issue has nothing to do with sports, and it has nothing to do with protecting female athletes. This topic has been a roundabout way to erode rights for transgender people.

Stef Rubino May 27, 2025 4 Comments
Author photo of Charlie Claire Burgess next to the cover of their book Queer Devotion
Book Features

Charlie Claire Burgess Understands Why You Might Hate Religion

In their new book Queer Devotion, Charlie Claire Burgess joins a robust tradition of queer and trans people reclaiming religious symbolism for ourselves.

Emma Cieslik May 22, 2025 3 Comments
A close up of Alison Bechdel next to the cover her for new novel Spent
Book Features

Alison Bechdel Never Thought She’d Be This Successful

Alison Bechdel talks fame, privilege, and returning to old characters for her new work of autofiction.

Drew Burnett Gregory May 20, 2025 9 Comments
LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA - SEPTEMBER 26: Taylor Jenkins Reid attends TheRetaility.com x September Letter dinner in collaboration with TOMS at Adrianna Costa's Los Angeles Home on September 26, 2023 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by Emma McIntyre/Getty Images for TheRetaility.com)
Book Features Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

Author Taylor Jenkins Reid Comes Out As Bisexual, Just Like Evelyn Hugo

Taylor Jenkins Reid’s “Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo” is one of the most successful sapphic novels of all time — and with her queer space thriller “Atmosphere” debuting this June, Reid has come out as bisexual.

Riese May 19, 2025 9 Comments
photos from behind the scenes of The L Word, taken by Jennifer Beals
Book Features

Jennifer Beals Is Letting You Into Her Massive ‘The L Word’ Archive

Jennifer Beals has put together the ultimate walk down sapphic memory lane with the release of The L Word: A Photographic Journal, a gay tome featuring over 400 candid photographs taken by Beals on the set and behind the scenes.

Sa'iyda Shabazz May 19, 2025 4 Comments
Carrie Fisher and Meg Ryan in When Harry Met Sally
Book Features

It’s Independent Bookstore Day, So Go Buy Some Gay Books

This year, Independent Bookstore Day feels especially important and fraught, as mega-retailer Amazon decided to throw one of its book sales at the same time.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya April 26, 2025 4 Comments
Jenny Owen Youngs and Kristin Russo and their joint memoir Slayers Every One of Us
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How Podcasters Kristin Russo and Jenny Owen Youngs Navigated Their Big Divorce Announcement

Read an exclusive excerpt about Kristin and Jenny’s divorce, followed by a clip from the audiobook.

Kristin April 9, 2025 3 Comments
Straight influencer Tinx next to the cover of her fiction debut Hotter in the Hamptons ghostwritten by Gabrielle Korn
Book Features

The Ghostwriting Drama Surrounding Straight Influencer Tinx’s Lesbian Romance Novel, Explained

Many have wondered why straight influencer Tinx wrote lesbian romance novel, Hotter in the Hamptons. But did she even write it?

Drew Burnett Gregory April 8, 2025 10 Comments
Cinema Her Way Marya E Gates interview: side by side author photo and book cover
Book Features Movie Features

The Greatest Women Filmmakers Are Mad for a Reason

In her gorgeous new book, Cinema Her Way, writer and film critic Marya E. Gates interviews 19 female filmmakers — including Cheryl Dunye, Karyn Kusama, and Isabel Sandoval — about their work, and their experiences in the film industry.

Stef Rubino April 8, 2025 2 Comments
Bob the Drag Queen Harriet Tubman Live in Concert: a photo of Bob next to a photo of the book cover
Book Features

Bob the Drag Queen’s New Novel ‘Harriet Tubman: Live in Concert’ Is More Than a Joke

“The truth is people who fight for you to have liberty, they fight for you to be a goofy bitch, too.”

Elyssa Maxx Goodman March 26, 2025 3 Comments
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Book Features

Clowning Around With Kristen Arnett

“How many scenes have had people work something out at a diner? Can’t that happen at an Olive Garden?”

Drew Burnett Gregory March 11, 2025 3 Comments
THE SHUTOUTS by Gabrielle Korn
Book Features

Maybe Gabrielle Korn Set Her Queer Dystopian Climate Novel ‘The Shutouts’ Too Far in the Future

“I tried not to do that. I tried to keep the most important thing the story and the storytelling, because I think it gets annoying when you have an agenda. I would do anything to not be annoying.”

Riese February 17, 2025
Broughtupsy by Christina Cooke
Book Features

Read an Excerpt From ‘Broughtupsy’, a Queer Jamaican Diaspora Novel

Chirp of tree frogs floating sonorous, each piercing chirrup rising on the wane of the last. I’m in my childhood home.

Christina Cooke January 28, 2025
Slapping Leather Queer Cowfolx at the Rodeo
Book Features LGBT History

A New History of Gay Rodeos Explores How Cowboys Have Always Been Queer

Slapping Leather addresses how the idealized white masculine cowboy has always been a myth.

Lauren Herold January 9, 2025 8 Comments
Kristen Arnett holding copies of her book Stop Me If You've Heard This One on a Florida bookstore road trip
Book Features Travel

We Took a Gay Literary Road Trip Through Central Florida, and You Should Too!

As Florida now leads the nation in book bans, putting together a little Florida road trip travel guide oriented around independent bookstores feels meaningful. There’s more to this place than theme parks and beaches. Adding a Florida bookstore road trip to your next vacation in the sunshine state will let you see parts of this place in a deeper way.

Kristen Arnett January 7, 2025 6 Comments
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Book Features

Kate Moennig and Leisha Hailey Want To Read Books and Eat Snacks With You

We talked to Leisha Hailey and Kate Moennig about Allstora’s PANTS Pod book club and its mission to uplift queer authors, connect with pod listeners and read some really good lesbian books.

Riese December 20, 2024 3 Comments
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Book Features

20 Dorothy Allison Quotes I Think About All The Time

“Two or three things I know, but this is the one I am not supposed to talk about, how it comes together — sex and violence, love and hatred.”

Riese November 16, 2024 7 Comments
Dorothy Allison
Book Features

Dorothy Allison, Lesbian and Feminist Writer and Activist, Has Died. We Must Keep Learning From Her Life’s Work and ‘Remake the World’

Dorothy Allison died at the age of 75 from cancer earlier this week. Some of my favorite teachers in the world are people I’ve never shared a classroom with, and Allison is undoubtedly one of them.

Stef Rubino November 9, 2024 6 Comments
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Things I Read That I Love #339: Nerd Clusters, Love Is Blind, Competitive Cheerleading, the Free Returns Industry and More

Topics include “border theater” in Texas, the rise of Nerds Clusters, the WNBA, regional McDonalds’ cuisine, behind the scenes at Love is Blind, how the Fentanyl crisis is harming teens, the collapse of self-worth in the digital age, the competitive cheerleading monopoly and more!

Riese November 1, 2024 4 Comments
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