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Movie Features

Did You Know Julianne Moore and Amanda Seyfried Have a Full-On Sex Scene In “Chloe” (2009)??

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First Person

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TV Show Recaps

“Couple to Throuple” Continues With Relationship Musical Chairs and More Queer Make Outs

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Gabe Dunn February 22, 2024 5 Comments
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Movie Reviews

“Drive-Away Dolls” Is a Raunchy Caper About Lesbians and the Men Who Fear Us

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Pop Culture Fix

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