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Sex Toys

Our Bodies, Our Sex Toys: 6 Accessible Sex Toys

“Queercrip sex has the potential to boldly shape alternative erotic environments for fucking, loving and pleasuring that shake up notions of who and what is sexy, what is sexual and what counts as “sex” at all.”

Tovah January 5, 2016 22 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Will Pay For Your Cab In The Morning

How to put toys in your butt, a map of feminist sex shops, UK porn censorship, keeping your sex toys warm when it’s cold and more.

Ryan Yates January 3, 2016 4 Comments
Sex Toys

You Need Help: Old Sex Toys, New Partners

“So I’ve met someone new. And I’m wondering about my toys. I’ve heard it’s taboo to use the same toys on a new partner.”

A.E. Osworth December 29, 2015 26 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Sunday Is Reading With A Vibrator

It’s cold(ish) outside; warm up with this selection of queer erotica.

Ryan Yates December 27, 2015 7 Comments
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Sex Toys

Anonymous Sex Toy Review: The Lily 2, A Scented Vibrator

The Lily 2 is the first-ever scented vibrator. Other than that, it’s excellent.

Guest December 23, 2015 5 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Will Kiss You In The Snow

Sex toys are getting increasingly non-representational, sex workers’ rights, Dr. Seuss’s book of nudes, no one is sexting enough, and more.

Ryan Yates December 20, 2015 9 Comments
Dating Queer Fashion

You Need Help: Cat Whistling Your Queerness To Other Closeted Queer Ladies

Need help flirting “in a way that’s subtle enough to fly over a straight girl’s head, but be picked up on by LBPQ woman?” Read on!

Laura Mandanas December 16, 2015 67 Comments
Lesbian Weddings

Top 10 Gay Lady Weddings That Made Us Melt in 2015

It was a great year for gay marriage, especially if you were invited to one of these fabulous, totally sweet lesbian weddings.

Carmen December 15, 2015 26 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Packing Under Her Skirt

A card deck illustrated with lesbian sex, putting all your crushes in a secret Facebook group, invisible labor at Kink.com, talking with your actual mouth and more.

Ryan Yates December 13, 2015 8 Comments
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Sex Toys

Anonymous Sex Toy Review: The Bi Stronic Fusion

The Bi Stronic Fusion is a rabbit that vibrates and thrusts. What more could you want?

Guest December 10, 2015 6 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Has A Hand On Your Thigh Under The Table

Vagina art, lust as a top, systematic discrimination against the sex industry, Melissa Gira Grant on Stoya and more.

Ryan Yates December 6, 2015 11 Comments
Sex

10 Ideas From “The Ultimate Guide To Kink” That Even Vanilla People Will Be Into

If you want an overview of everything kinky and don’t know where to start, this is where.

Ryan Yates November 30, 2015 4 Comments
Sex Toys

NSFW Sunday Special: The 7 Best Sex Toys of 2015

Some sex toys are just better than others.

Ryan Yates November 29, 2015 20 Comments
Love + Sex

Homosexuals and Heterosexuals Exist, Says Groundbreaking Study

You have no idea how long it took me to figure out that this was the only definitive takeaway from this particular data analysis.

Riese November 25, 2015 34 Comments
Sex

14 Lesbian Sexual Fantasies Submitted By Anonymous Women To 1973’s “My Secret Garden”

“I had slight lesbian tendencies before going into the convent…”

Ryan Yates November 23, 2015 23 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Can’t Stop Squirming

Being solo poly, pick-up strategies for queer sex, vulva emojis, when more sex does and doesn’t lead to more happiness (and an important caveat), and more

Ryan Yates November 22, 2015 17 Comments
Breakups

You Need Help: You & the Ex Are Friends — But Fight Like You’re Still Together

You broke up a long time ago and you’re cool with each other, but still fight just like you did when you were together. Is that, uh, normal?

Rachel November 17, 2015 19 Comments
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Sex Toys

Anonymous Sex Toy Review: The Mustang Royale

The Mustang Royale is your favorite VixSkin dildo, with an upgrade.

Guest November 17, 2015 13 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Wants To Dehydrate You Slightly

Sexual overtures from an alien, coming out like a porn star, changes to your Tinder profile, virtual reality porn and more.

Ryan Yates November 15, 2015 29 Comments
Relationships

Interview With My Actual Girlfriend: Stacy

“We would have totally fallen in love as Hogwarts professors.”

Heather Hogan November 12, 2015 37 Comments
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