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Sex

Bottoms Up: That Time I Told My Boifriend I Liked Being Told What to Do

How do you tell someone, “Hey, I’d love it if you’d slap me around and tell me what to do”?
Turns out, you tell them just like that.

Ari February 9, 2016 47 Comments
Sex

Is Period Sex The Ultimate Lesbian Sexual Indicator?

People who want to have period sex have more and varied sex more often and report higher sexual satisfaction than anyone else, a survey finds.

Ryan Yates February 8, 2016 40 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Will Use You Like A Space Heater

Queer feelings, being a rope bottom/being a translator, cheap dates that don’t feel cheap, multiple orgasms and more.

Ryan Yates February 7, 2016 2 Comments
Sex

“I Sit on Her Face All Day”: A Conversation on Sex and Wheelchairs

Exploring the erotic significance of wheelchairs is an opportunity to refuse the limited choices available for sexual narration.

Tovah February 4, 2016 19 Comments
Sex

View From The Top: I Started As A Bottom

Started as a bottom, now I’m here.

Sinclair Sexsmith February 2, 2016 78 Comments
Friendship

You Need Help: You Don’t Agree With Your Best Friend’s Advice

I think she’s being the most supportive—and she’s exactly what you want in a best friend, because she’s in your corner and she’s supporting you as a whole person. She’s giving you some solid advice here—this is a bad idea. It is. Darling, this is a terrible idea.

A.E. Osworth February 1, 2016 49 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Will Tell The Story Of Tonight

Porn alternatives, how to actually exercise your kegels, a lesbian adult coloring book, butts, pervertables, ways to describe orgasms and more.

Ryan Yates January 31, 2016 13 Comments
Love + Sex

3 Things I’ve Learned About Dealing with Life from Giving Advice on the Internet

What years of telling strangers what to do about their problems has taught me about dealing with my own.

Rachel January 28, 2016 24 Comments
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Sex Toys

Anonymous Sex Toy Review: The Minna Limon

I want more sex toys like the Minna Limon please.

Guest January 27, 2016 9 Comments
Dating

To Unicorns, From an Ex-Unicorn

Here are some things to look out for when you are a bisexual polyamorous woman looking to start a relationship with an established couple.

Chelsey Dagger January 25, 2016 51 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Reliable With The Ladies

How we talk about sex, how kink was declassified as a mental illness, physical therapy and your sex life and more.

Ryan Yates January 24, 2016 9 Comments
Sex Toys

You Can Now Take A College-Level Course in Sex Toy Design

RMIT Melbourne’s Future Sex Studio trains Industrial Design students in bringing innovation into the adult industry.

Creatrix Tiara January 21, 2016 9 Comments
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Sex Toys

Anonymous Sex Toy Review: Je Joue Ami Balls

The silicone Je Joue Ami Balls will help you kill your kegels.

Guest January 20, 2016 1 Comment
Sex

Love Non-Orgasmically: She’s Not Coming But We’re Still Here

“I came. You didn’t. I’d kind of expected it to happen because of our connection – hoped egotistically anyway. I was disappointed but figured I’d give it time.”

Guest January 19, 2016 56 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Will Never Be Satisfied

The only good reason to move in together, vibrators are cool now, flirting with plausible deniability, a new way to learn about sexual pleasure and more.

Ryan Yates January 17, 2016 19 Comments
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Sex Toys

Anonymous Sex Toy Review: The Ceramix No. 10

The Ceramix No. 10 vibrator is the worst sex toy I have ever tried. At least it’s pretty.

Guest January 13, 2016 13 Comments
Quizzes Sex Toys Sponsored

Quiz: What Sex Toy Are You?

Welcome to the new Myers-Briggs.

Ryan Yates January 11, 2016 23 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Can’t Say No To This

In this NSFW Sunday: the New York Library’s extensive erotica collection, poly OkCupid updates, a vibrator that syncs with your smut and more.

Ryan Yates January 10, 2016 18 Comments
Friendship

The Gay Community Recalls The Word “Girlfriend” To Describe Platonic Friendships

“Gays exposed to the word ‘girlfriend’ to describe an innocent friendship often experience paranoia, heart palpitations, dizziness, an inadvertent rolling back of the eyes, and mental exhaustion related to figuring out what this person’s deal is.”

Erin January 7, 2016 97 Comments
Lesbian Weddings

You Need Help: You’re Getting Married, Grandma Doesn’t Know

So you’re gay and you’re getting married and, oh yeah, you’ve never come out to your grandmother. Do you invite her? How?

A.E. Osworth January 6, 2016 44 Comments
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