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Breakups

Y’All Need Help #2: You Can’t Avoid Your Ex Forever

Quick and dirty advice for a brand new lesbian in Chicago, a small town bird who’s ready to be in the same room with her ex, and someone who’s tired of being The Gay One. Get in here!

Laneia October 7, 2015 53 Comments
Relationships

82 Silly Household Things You Fought About With Your Girlfriend

“I locked myself in the bathroom because she kept telling me I wasn’t cleaning the toilet the right way”

Riese October 6, 2015 93 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Wants To Eat You Like A Cupcake

A smutty comic, top/bottom/switch definitions, everybody’s still looking for “lesbian” porn, travelling with sex toys and more!

Ryan Yates October 4, 2015 3 Comments
Relationships

43 Of The Gayest Things You’ve Fought About With Your Girlfriend

“Whether or not selfie culture upholds or demolishes the patriarchy”

Riese October 2, 2015 74 Comments
Love + Sex

Y’All Need Help: Quick and Unprofessional Advice for Queers Who Need It

Quick and loving advice for three queers who need our help! A home wrecker (but not really) in a sticky situation, a bisexual who’s feeling torn, and a closeted queer in the South who’s staying that way. Get in here!

Laneia September 30, 2015 37 Comments
Relationships

Take This Survey About Fighting In Your Lesbian Relationship

We’re interested in finding out more about your relationship — specifically, the hard parts. If you’re a woman of any sexual orientation in a relationship with another woman (or multiple women), you should fill this out! It’ll take 10-15 minutes, max.

The Editors September 29, 2015 20 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Will Meet You Out Back In Five

A not terrible sex tape, fat people in porn, whether your summer fling will last and more.

Ryan Yates September 27, 2015 5 Comments
Breakups Music

Breaking Up and Making Out With Julia Nunes’ “Some Feelings”

“Your heart breaks or you realize it’s been broken all along. All this time!”

Riese September 23, 2015 26 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Wants To Be All Over You

What to do at your first orgy; horny cognitive dissonance; how to spank; how many people you’ve really had sex with; and more.

Ryan Yates September 20, 2015 8 Comments
Sex

You Need Help: You’re Vanilla And Your Partner Is Kinky

How to explore kinky sex with a kinky partner when you have no experience whatsoever.

Sinclair Sexsmith September 15, 2015 17 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Feels Radiant And Wild

The truth about sex frequency, packing, having sex despite a significant height difference and many more lesbosexy things!

Ryan Yates September 13, 2015 5 Comments
Sex

10 Lesbian Sex Scenes I Wrote Before I Had Lesbian Sex

“Elizabeth kissed her back, passionately and crazily! It felt like being beat by ocean waves — but in a good way.”

Heather Hogan September 8, 2015 101 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Will Love You Always Forever

How to initiate sex, dry humping, an argument in defence of vanilla sex and more.

Ryan Yates September 6, 2015 25 Comments
AF+ Lesbian Weddings

Love & Canada: Whatever Happens, This Wedding Is Happening

“This week has involved a lot of needing to let go of all the things I can’t have total control over and I’m not good at that and I don’t like it but also maybe that’s okay.”

Ryan Yates September 4, 2015 25 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Wants To Play

How to squirt, how to sext like it’s 1615, the Magic Wand throughout art history and so much more!

Ryan Yates August 30, 2015 8 Comments
AF+ Lesbian Weddings

Love & Canada: How Is This Wedding In A Week?!?

“Fuck flowers. Fuck everything. We’re ordering about a hundred LED twinkling lights and I’m gonna stick gold washi tape on ’em and sprinkle them everywhere and call it a night.”

Ryan Yates August 28, 2015 16 Comments
Relationships

You Need Help: Is She “The One”?

HOW WILL YOU EVER KNOW?

Ryan Yates August 24, 2015 33 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Will Make Out With You Forever

Sharing your fantasies, causal sex apps, making your own dental dams, How To Make Me Come and more.

Ryan Yates August 23, 2015 12 Comments
Dating

Dating Women: The Most Enticing Romantic Possibility Life Ever Threw Her Way

This week’s New York Magazine Sex Diarist is going on a date with a woman for the first time and it’s totally no big deal.

Riese August 20, 2015 45 Comments
AF+ Lesbian Weddings

Love & Canada: Immigration Station

“I’ve never had a move that felt so little like being jolted from one space to another and so much like something clicking into place.”

Ryan Yates August 20, 2015 36 Comments
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