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Love + Sex

You’re Not a Piece of Shit

“You feel broken or like you’ve done something wrong but you haven’t. Wanting to not feel bad isn’t wrong.”

Brittani June 16, 2015 74 Comments
Dating

A Guide To Great First Dates for Gals Seeking Pals

Let’s help each other find love, or at least have a decent time with another human for 2-5 hours!

Adrian June 16, 2015 60 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Tastes Like Apricots

Making better porn at home, whether it’s okay to have sex when you’re staying on someone’s couch, queer non-monogamy, the history of polyamory and more.

Ryan Yates June 14, 2015 6 Comments
Sex

Here’s The Salacious Sex Statistics On Queer Women In Non-monogamous vs. Monogamous Relationships

Everything you ever wanted to know about the sex lives of the monogamous, non-monogamous, and those preferring various sub-styles of relationship. SO MANY THINGS. IT’S ALL HERE.

Riese June 9, 2015 11 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Wants To Spend All Day In Bed With You

Learning to masturbate as a trans woman, a dildo shaped like a gun, the Girl Sex 101 book, a field trip to a sex shop and more.

Ryan Yates June 7, 2015 8 Comments
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Sex Toys

Anonymous Sex Toy Review: The Fusion

I have never wanted to love a dildo as hard as I wanted to love the Fusion. (But I didn’t.)

Guest June 5, 2015 9 Comments
Dating

You’re Normal It’s Normal You’re Going To Be Okay

Here is what to do.

Ryan Yates June 3, 2015 27 Comments
Crafts & DIY Projects Sex Toys

How To Make Your Own Flogger in About 15 Minutes

Make your own cheap, easy PVC flogger!

Ryan Yates June 2, 2015 9 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Will Fuck You In A Bathroom At A-Camp

I’m on the mountain this week, so please enjoy the following smut.

Ryan Yates May 31, 2015 3 Comments
Relationships

You Need Help: You Want Different Things

You are in love with someone who wants different things. What do you do?

Ryan Yates May 29, 2015 27 Comments
the sasha harness
Sex Toys

Anonymous Sex Toy Review: The Super Femme Sasha Harness

This is the best strap-on harness I have ever worn.

Guest May 28, 2015 20 Comments
Lesbian Weddings

Nicolette Mason Just Had the Cutest Gay Wedding

Blogger, stylish human and businesswoman extraordinaire Nicolette Mason wed her longtime partner Ali Talan at Wythe Hotel in NYC this weekend in what just might be the cutest gay wedding ever.

Lydia O May 27, 2015 10 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Thinking About You

Anal sex, erotica, squirting, why the number of people you’ve slept with is not relevant and more.

Ryan Yates May 24, 2015 7 Comments
Relationships

No White Tears: A Non-Guide on Dealing with Microaggressions from Your White Partner

This is not a how-to guide; there’s no right way to navigate these situations. Let’s share instances of microaggressions and some ways to deal in the hopes we’ll all be able to make it out alive, looking sexy and loving our hardest.

gabby May 21, 2015 180 Comments
Comedy Dating

B is Hilarious: What She’s Doing When She’s Not Texting You Back

They should make up a sixth love language that’s just Texting Back in a Polite Amount of Time.

Brittani May 20, 2015 117 Comments
Sex

When Did You Do It For The First Time and How Many People Have You Done It With, Huh?

Oh you know, just the answers to everybody’s favorite two questions ever.

Riese May 19, 2015 47 Comments
Lesbian Weddings

You Need Help: Negotiating A Queer Bachelorette Party

You want to have a bachelorette party together, but your girlfriend loves the spotlight and you don’t. Here’s how you navigate that.

Mari Brighe May 18, 2015 14 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Being Inappropriate In A Hardware Store

Buying lube, being submissive, tweeting porn, (not) blaming your bad relationship with a person on your good relationship with your phone and more.

Ryan Yates May 17, 2015 2 Comments
Sex

Women’s Best Bet For A Synced-Up Sex Schedule Is Lesbianism

A new survey finds that men and women like having sex at totally different times of day — how do their numbers compare to ours about when queer women like having sex?

Riese May 12, 2015 12 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Covered In Lube

Getting comfortable talking about sex, being able to defend your relationship, a conversation about BDSM and play and more.

Ryan Yates May 10, 2015 3 Comments
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