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No Filter: Hayley Kiyoko Is Writing Another Book!

And more IG updates from Chappell Roan, Megan Thee Stallion, Keke Palmer, and more!

Christina Tucker August 28, 2024
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Sports

28 LGBTQ+ Women and Trans People Competing in the 2024 Paralympics

The 2024 Paralympics in Tokyo kick off this week, and we’ve found all the queer and trans athletes to watch — including the first trans woman to compete and the married lesbian couple on the same wheelchair basketball team!

Natalie and Riese
August 28, 2024 3 Comments
THE CIRCLE reality show
First Person Issues

I’ve Always Loved Deception

As I begin my career as a therapist, I have to hide parts of myself.

Em Win August 28, 2024 5 Comments
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AF+ Mini Crossword Has a Point

You’ll just have to solve the puzzle to find out what it is!

Kate Hawkins August 28, 2024
Julia Fox
Movie News & Trailers

Julia Fox Will Play a Pregnant Woman in an Age Gap Sapphic Romance in Upcoming Film Appropriately Titled ‘Perfect’

Fox will play a wealthy pregnant woman in a fraught relationship with a younger woman.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya August 27, 2024 2 Comments
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TV Feature

Vote Now in the 7th Annual Autostraddle TV Awards!

Fewer gay shows are being produced and the ones that do slip through are often canceled. But that makes it all the more important to celebrate the work that does get made!

The TV Team August 27, 2024
"Should I settle for dating someone even if it doesn't feel the same way it did before with my ex?"
Dating

‘I Haven’t Felt a Spark With Anyone Since My Ex’

“is it leading someone on to keep repeatedly seeing them and going on dates if I’m unsure about them?”

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya August 27, 2024 2 Comments
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Pop Culture Fix

Chappell Roan Isn’t Alone in Wanting More Boundaries With Fans

Support for Chappell Roan’s discussion about fan boundaries, an upcoming “queer crime musical,” Drag Race’s Detox coming out as trans, and more!

Valerie Anne August 26, 2024 1 Comment
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Sports

You Have Texas Queers To Thank for Roller Derby

“The adrenaline rush from the sport is addictive in nature, but it’s the community that keeps you coming back.”

Gabrielle Grace Hogan August 26, 2024 7 Comments
7 across / 5 letters / "But, baby, ___ flirting, a lover by my side/ Can't be a good, good girl, even if I tried" ("After Midnight" lyrics)
Puzzles

Mini Crossword Has Some Strong Opinions

And it’s not going to apologize for that.

Emet Ozar August 26, 2024 1 Comment
WHICH QUEER ACTION HEROINE ARE YOU?
Quizzes

Quiz: Which Queer Action Heroine Are You?

Finally, you can imagine yourself kicking ass in The Matrix or the MCU or in space or wherever you prefer to kick ass in this hypothetical situation where you’re a hot, queer, strong, and confident action hero.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya August 25, 2024 2 Comments
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TV Reviews

Queer Tennis Thriller Series ‘Fifteen-Love’ Should Be Your Next Obsession

In these first two episodes, Fifteen-Love is masterful in its storytelling about abuse, power, trauma, and sports.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya August 24, 2024 1 Comment
1 across / 3 letters / One who might travel hours to see a Chappell Roan concert
AF+ Puzzles

AF+ Crossword Is Obviously a Villain

Evil mastermind cruciverbalist seeks word-loving wicked henchpeople.

Darby Ratliff August 24, 2024
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Music

Sabrina Carpenter and Jenna Ortega Make Out, Do Knifeplay in ‘Taste’ Music Video

A gay music video that ends with an ex-boyfriend dying seems like a great way to begin a post-break up awakening.

Drew Burnett Gregory August 23, 2024 2 Comments
Hands are shown collaged over each other, insinuating monogamy on one hand and polyamory on the other.
AF+

I’m Monogamous, They’re Polyamorous, Can We Make It Work?

You don’t want to lose them or change them, but you sure do wish you could make them be monogamous! Also: advice on breaking the rejection cycle.

the team August 23, 2024
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Movie Reviews

‘Stress Positions’ Is a Queer Farce With Bite and Depth

Whether literally or figuratively, everyone in this film is better at writing than they are at living.

Drew Burnett Gregory August 23, 2024 3 Comments
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Movie Reviews

Is Peacock’s ‘The Killer’ a Bad Movie or Just a Bad Remake?

Perhaps both.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya August 23, 2024 2 Comments
A Bánh Mì for Two by Trinity Nguyen
LGBT Book Reviews

‘A Bánh Mì for Two’ Is a Swoony Sapphic Romance Between Two Foodies

The story combines two of my favorite things: girls falling in love, and finding connection through food!

Sa'iyda Shabazz August 23, 2024
2 down / 5 letters / Herbaceous green pasta sauce
AF+ Puzzles

AF+ Mini Crossword Can Maneuver a Subaru With the Best of Them

Vroom vroom!

Emet Ozar August 23, 2024
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Gender

Always the Daddy, Never the Dad

It might seem ridiculous to you, reader, to hear a man compare queer kink to biological fatherhood, but I’m trepidatiously taking the stand in defense of duality.

Milo Longenecker August 22, 2024 79 Comments
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