A Lazy Femme Guide To Staying Cute With Minimal Effort
I’m all about products and routines that work with my busy schedule. I’m obviously not lazy, but if lazy femme is the antithesis to high femme, I’m very much that.
So You Want To Go To Work
One of the most popular requests I have gotten for this column is “What do I wear to work?” And I get it! You have to get dressed for work, and the kinds of clothes that are typically deemed “workplace appropriate” are absolutely racist, classist, ableist, transphobic, homophobic and sexist. Not to mention, no two workplaces are the same!
Spaces & Places: A Roundup of 30 Queer-Owned Houseware Shops
Whether you’re in the market for furniture, art, candles, planters, kitchenware, organizers, textiles, or little tchotchkes, these queer-owned shops have got you covered.
11 Places to Buy Merch Supporting Queer and Trans BIPOC People Instead of Corporate Greed
Here are 11 collections directly supporting LGBTQ BIPOC creators and organizations!
So You Want to Dress Like the Main Character
Is pretending I am the protagonist in romance novel a fun way to tamp down some of my nerves about being back out in the world? Yes!
So You Want to Wear Shorts This Summer
We covered the return of the 90s and the 70s in our last edition, and you can expect to see that trend continuing here! The 90s influence is especially strong in the athletic short space — think Princess Diana and her iconic bike shorts. The 70s vibes are coming in hot with prints and patterns, which I personally am digging!
So You Want to Remember What Clothes Are? Here’s a Guide to Updated Basics
Have you recently found yourself staring into the vast abyss that is your closet or dresser or (let us be honest) floor, wondering what on earth clothes are? How do they go on a body? Why do they go on a body? Have no fear, the “So You Want To…” column is here!
15 Robes for Gay Divorcées
Although not everyone is lucky enough to be a hot gay divorceé (yet! Life is long, stay positive!) everyone can get into the staple of the gay divorceé wardrobe: the robe.
The Lesbian Bar Project Raises Over $100,000 to Protect 15 of Our Last Lesbian Bars
Lesbian bars across the country are closing at an alarming rate. The filmmakers and activists of the Lesbian Bar Project teamed up with Jägermeister to save the fifteen that remain.
NEW MERCH ALERT: Tees! Sweatshirts! Stickers! Face Masks! QUEER! MAGNETIC! POETRY!
Buy something for you, your pod friends, your girlfriend, your ex girlfriend, your mom who’s secretly gay, your best friend who you’re secretly gay for, and your polycule.
It’s Black Friday and The Categories Are Sweatpants, Skincare, Sneakers and Sex Toys
It’s Black Friday: time to treat yourself to swetpants, sneakers, skincare and sex toys! Or I guess hypothetically you could get a present for somebody else.
The Impulse Quarantine Purchases We’d 100% Buy Again
While there are certainly other (and arguably healthier) coping mechanisms besides stress shopping, I don’t think we should totally rule out any options just yet. And sometimes impulse buys work out really well! We’re here to tell you which emotionally compromised quarantine purchases we heartily stand by and would enthusiastically recommend.
6 Queer-Owned Sex Shops You’ll Vibe With
As we stock up on toys and lube for winter, we can put our queer money back into queer-owned sex shops!
Can Queer Businesses Survive COVID-19? Here’s How Some Are Trying
With gay bars all but indefinitely closed, and other businesses slowly reopening, how are queer businesses surviving & supporting their community amidst a pandemic?
Boyshorts and Girltrunks 101: Your Queer Underwear Guide
Boyshorts/Girltrunks 101: Including 78 boyshorts, girltrunks and boxer-brief suggestions for weirdos.
Top 10 Lesbian Chapsticks for Chapstick Lesbians
Don’t you want some chapstick to go with those socks?
25 Soft Pants for Loungewearing All Over The House
Let’s keep it casual.
10 Simple Kitchen Items I Invested in Now That I Have to Cook Three Meals a Day
I’m not trying to work up a sweat here, I’m trying to eat a fucking potato.
Small Queer Businesses To Support During COVID-19
We’re not suggesting that if you’d just shop queer, all will well, but if you’re burning some cash on retail therapy anyway, you might as well support queer folks running these small businesses!
Our Favorite Hand Lotions For Soothing Your Extra-Dry Hands
Who’s got dry hands WE’VE ALL GOT DRY HANDS