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Breakups First Person

Courting Loneliness

It was like saving a seat on the bus for someone who routinely happened to never show up. It was like setting the table for someone who decided to eat an hour before coming over for dinner.

Kamala Puligandla March 5, 2020 7 Comments
First Person

A Rent-Stabilized Room of Her Own

In many ways, the deluge of hilarious, shitty, and hilariously shitty roommates I survived all offered the same thing: an excuse to not have to face myself.

Jehan March 5, 2020 2 Comments
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Breakups

Breakups and Being Alone 101: The Autostraddle Guide To Life After Love

We’ve got advice on breakups and exes, playlists to see you through, unhinged behavior we highly recommend and so much more from the annals of Autostraddle’s achy breaky hearts.

Riese March 4, 2020 9 Comments
Geekery Shopping

Dice for Every Kind of Queer Dungeons & Dragons Player

Friend, you deserve some gorgeous dice to roll when you’re storming the castle, arguing with a dragon, or flirting with that drow chick that your DM refuses to rank on a scale of hotness (but you’re confident is an 11).

meg March 4, 2020 22 Comments
TV Reviews

“Love Is Blind” Is Basically a Lesbian Reality Show for Straight People — and I Can’t Get Enough of It

This show forces straights to do what lesbians do all the time — talk about their deepest fears and feelings, endlessly.

kate ryan March 4, 2020 6 Comments
Politics + Activism

Super Tuesday Breakdown: Biden’s Swift Rise Really Doesn’t Have to Be the End

Yes, there’s Biden and Bernie and Elizabeth Warren, but also what about the smaller races you didn’t even know you cared about — like Georgette Gomez vying to become the first out queer Latina in Congress!

Natalie March 4, 2020 32 Comments
Breakups

How Social Media Fucked Up Lesbian Breakup Culture

Breakups are so often garbage and hard, and managing the social media that surrounds it is just another gross layer that makes them even more garbage and even harder.

Rachel March 4, 2020 2 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: One Day at a Time’s First Look Season 4 Photos are Here and Queer!

Also, Lena Waithe’s Twenties lands tonight on BET, Rachel Maddow also thinks Super Tuesday is bananas, a mermaid war is on the way, Jodie Comer on Villanelle’s vulnerable side, and more!

Heather Hogan March 4, 2020 4 Comments
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No Filter: USWNT Are The Best Aunties Imaginable, Will They Be Mine?

Also! Trace Lysette looks like a million bucks, Samira Wiley votes, Gaby Dunn wears the gay woman uniform and Kristen Kish loves art.

Christina Tucker March 4, 2020 4 Comments
TV Reviews

“Gentefied” Will Drop Brown Queer Love Bombs All Over Your Netflix Queue

Put quite simply, it feels damn good to see two Latina lesbians fully themselves, accepted by their loved ones, and at no point expected to leave their queerness at the door.

Carmen Phillips March 4, 2020 4 Comments
LGBT Book Reviews

Yao Xiao’s “Everything Is Beautiful, And I’m Not Afraid” Is as Queer and Hopeful as The Comic You Already Love

Everything Is Beautiful is one part beloved comics, one part brand new material, and all parts trademark Yao Xiao — warm colors, probing questions, deeply personal reflections, and an endless exploration of the binaries Yao has spent her life trying to navigate.

Heather Hogan March 3, 2020 6 Comments
Book Lists

Lesbian Romance Novels to Read When You’re Perpetually Single

I’ve been single for most of my life, but romance novels have been my constant partner.

Christina Tucker March 3, 2020 19 Comments
Issues

What Would the Decriminalization of Sex Work Look Like?

As Vermont became the second state to introduce a bill to decriminalize sex work, the real possibility of decrim future is on our horizon. But how would decrim take shape in the United States? Would the police still arrest sex workers? Will sex workers get labor rights? And what about human trafficking?

Reese Piper March 3, 2020 3 Comments
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: After 14 Years the Dixie Chicks Are Back, Update Your Misandrist Playlists!

The Dixie Chicks are back baby, black-owned queer fashion companies to support with your coin, and political links to make you go “hmmmm” (but NOT stress out) this Super Tuesday!

Carmen Phillips March 3, 2020 8 Comments
Dating

Dealing With Rejection as a Single Woman

It’s so easy to take a “no” personal and use it as justification to question your worth. However, there are a number of ways to intervene before this happens, and they’re all relatively simple.

danijanae March 3, 2020 12 Comments
Breakups

How Does It Feel to Be Young and Gay Divorced?

When we legally and symbolically bind ourselves together, we’re exchanging some of that fluidity for commitment. Once we marry, breaking up is hard — I mean, really hard — to do.

Ro White March 2, 2020 9 Comments
Politics + Activism

I Care But I’m Restless, I’m Here But I’m Really Gone: A 2020 Presidential Election Roundtable

The 2020 presidential election is a classic Alanis Morissette one hand preparing our dystopian bunker, the other one playing the piano, situation. Our writers and editors tell us about their greatest concerns and how they’re approaching their votes.

the team March 2, 2020 16 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: “Portrait of a Lady on Fire” Team Protest Polanski’s César Award Win With a Walkout

Adèle Haenel and Céline Sciamma walked out of the French César awards, Clifford the Big Red Dog has two lesbian moms now, Stephanie Beatriz on bi erasure, a Wynonna Earp favorites marathon, Janet Mock and Ryan Murphy are tag-teaming again, Marla Gibbs joins ODAAT, and more!

Heather Hogan March 2, 2020 10 Comments
Podcasts The L Word

“To L and Back” L Word Podcast Episode 310: Losing the Light and Also Our Damn Minds

LAUGH THRU THE PAIN

Riese March 2, 2020 3 Comments
Society + Culture

Sunday Funday’s Reflection Shows Who We Are Inside

It’s March and we’ve got Mulan news, IG book accounts, These Thems, trans olympians, and more! Happy Sunday!

Ari March 1, 2020 7 Comments
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