NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Pantsless
What’s up with your Venus, what happens in couples’ therapy, what to wear to break up with your partner and more!
Reimagining Intimacy: Queer People on Touch and Closeness Outside Romance and Sex
We don’t ever grow out of our need for touch, though as we mature, that kind of intimacy tends to only be expressed sexually. But sexual intimacy isn’t the only type of intimacy there is.
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Up All Night
The damage of the war on sex work, vintage period booklets, when your head is aroused but your body isn’t (or vice versa) and more.
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Not Overthinking It
Stop appropriating sex worker aesthetics, actually dating from dating apps, separation anxiety and more.
Queer Sex Coven: A Relationship Format Tarot Spread
Pull a card to see which relationship format is right for you.
“I’m Not Missing Anything in My Relationship”: Bi Women and Nonbinary People on the Challenges and Joys of Dating
Bi people’s dating experiences are often complicated by biphobia and sometimes, a feeling of isolation from both queer and straight monosexual people.
The Elusive Three-Way Relationship: How to Avoid F*cking It Up
A how-to guide to your first polyamorous adventure, from someone who made all the mistakes so you don’t have to.
The Rituals of Love in Everyday Life
Having settled into sweet solitary contentment, I wasn’t looking for love. It found me anyway. Meeting an old friend, I was struck by Cupid’s arrow when I realized she was single.
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Has An Elaborate Sex Spreadsheet
Keeping a sex spreadsheet, using different sex toys in different ways, the deal with yes/no/maybe lists, what to do if you feel lonely and more.
YES NO MAYBE: Is That a Drumstick or Are You Just Happy to See Me
As turned off as I am by *gestures wildly* this, I am 100% gonna put my vulva all up in it.
8 Discreet Sex Toys for Having the Time of Your Life but Like, Quietly
It’s autumn, a time of transition — a time of maybe sharing a dorm room, of beginning to plan visits home for the holidays, of your roommate and you both being home all the fucking time because it’s getting cold and depressing out. Will you ever be able to masturbate and/or have sex without worrying about someone hearing every moment of it? With these toys and a little discretion on your part, yes!
Why It’s Actually Healthy Not to Tell Your Crush Your Feelings
Pop culture makes it easy to believe that having feelings for someone means you need to act on it. We explore why it can actually be healthy to have feelings for people without being attached to a specific outcome, or needing to tell them, and have you can process it on your own.
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Doesn’t Want To Sleep Over
How to muff, why not to sleep in the same bed as a partner, why to talk to strangers, whether friendly-feeling BDSM is the same BDSM as ever and more.
Perfect Dates For Every Stage Of Your Gay Relationship
A lot has been written about first dates — but what about the second date? The third? Beyond?
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday: Welcome To The Sex Panic
Decriminalize sex work. Plus, dating through Facebook, why vaginal wellness is a scam, what happens in sex therapy and more.
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Saying “Vagina”
Dating as a queer single mom, setting adult performers’ doxxed info literally on fire, weird rules around saying the word “vagina” in advertising and more.
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Too Sweaty For This
Living apart together, having kids when you’re poly, when PMS and anxiety ask you for a threesome and more.
Anonymous Sex Toy Review: The BumpHer
If you love the soft silicone base of the Mustang Royale, you might find yourself wishing every dick you use has one — which is where the BumpHer comes in.
Finding Friendship Between Past and Present
She is living her best life. I am living mine. It is as though we released each other.
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Totally F*cking Natural
Why D/s is not abuse, astrological compatibility is a scam, it’s hard to find casual queer sex in rural places and more.