NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Solo Poly
More queers use dating apps compared to straights; disclose your strep as well as your STI before hooking up; bussy; sex stains; and more.
Queer Sex Coven: A Love Healing Spell
Every couple fights. But when you’re a witch you have secret powers to make it all better.
What’s In Our Bags for Hot First Dates
Dating is an adventure for the daring and intrepid, often requiring resources like self-awareness, a group chat, clean jeans, and therapy. Sometimes it requires even more concrete things to throw into our bags before we leave the house!
You Need Help: Why Do I Miss My Terrible Ex?
When relationships end, we might feel angry or wistful or hurt. Giving ourselves space for all of those feelings is how we bust through the pain and turn it into growth.
Valentine’s Day Date Ideas I’ve Had Since My Wife Left Me Six Months Ago
Hear me out.
Anonymous Sex Toy Review: The Stronic Surf
Fun Factory’s Surf, the latest in their line of pulsators, lets you ride the wave of deep massaging ridges as far as they’ll take you.
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Among The Ashes
TikTok and porn aesthetics, the fisting emoji obvs, how to initiate sex without feeling awkward and more.
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Responsive and Spontaneous
What it means to have a sex drive, why the widespread idea of how the vibrator was invented is rooted in patriarchy (also, wrong), the story of LA’s trans-inclusive strip club night and more.
A+ Roundtable: The Sex That Taught Us What We Really, Really Like
“I don’t know how to explain what that did to my guts, unless you know exactly what I mean in which case youknowwhatImean. It was so mind-blowing.”
11 Multifunction Couple’s Toys for Making Your Own Fun this Valentine’s Day
We grow closer to people by figuring things out together. The best bonding experience is both of you creating it yourselves, and this Valentine’s Day you can do just that with these multi-function, flexible toys.
You Need Help: Why Am I So Tempted to Cheat?
Cheating is a form of escape from our current situation; it allows us to momentarily be with someone else, maybe even be someone else, for a night. Honesty has consequences. Cheating, if we don’t get caught, does not.
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Accessing Desire
Vintage lesbian porn, conviction as a way to access desire, the dating apps selling your data to third parties and more.
Grace Lavery and Daniel M. Lavery’s Wedding Photos Are Pure Queer Joy
All the best weddings have an important thing in common: they manage to capture the spirit of the couple; they paint everyone who loves and cares for them in the softest, most generous light possible.
28 Sex Toys for Food-Free Food Play
Love to get off on a super sexy cake sitting but get a sympathetic yeast infection almost immediately? These food-shaped sex toys are for you.
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Has Questions About The Vagina Candle
I don’t know what to tell you, there’s a candle that smells like vagina. Plus, what snacks to bring for a threesome, how to fuck in acrylics, and more.
You Need Help: So Your Best Friend Is a SWERF
If you are out to your friend, or are thinking of coming out to her, and she still holds fast to her SWERF-y beliefs even after you explain how it hurts you, then you have one final choice to make: Stay, or go.
Queer Sex Coven: Bad Thoughts Bad Thoughts Go Away
Resolutions imply giving up something, like sugar (no), or problematic crushes (pry them from my cold dead hands). Goals, on the other hand, are positive can-do mantras, such as “I will start a band this year,” or “I will find my dream femme top.”
Take It From Us: Relationship Myths We’d Like to Bust
“We can still be together while I talk shit about your fucking cat.”
Revisiting the Sex-Ed Revolution: On Documenting Sex Ed in Queer Bodies
What might we be able to do if we more carefully record, preserve, and distribute our accumulated queer sex-ed, and not just pass knowledge through the intimate, sometimes deeply guarded connections formed through sexual and romantic relationships? More than 30 years later, Party Safe and Latex and Lace contain clues to becoming allies to our own queer bodies.
You Need Help: My Partner Can’t Have an Orgasm
“Release yourself from responsibility. You are not the keeper of your partner’s orgasms. You’re a supporting character. Your partner should play the protagonist in their Great Orgasm Quest.”