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Relationships

16 Ways to Grow Closer to Your Boo Without Actually Moving in Together

“Whatever, it’s fine. Give them your kidney. Then take one of their kidneys. It’s a kidney swap.”

Kim Wong-Shing June 20, 2019 21 Comments
Love + Sex

5 Relationship Lessons from Queer Films Past and Present

We have more movies about lesbian and bisexual women than ever before; they’re not necessarily always realistic, but can still bring us meaningful and constructive relationship truths, regardless of how far removed from our real lives their plots are, or how many falcons they contain.

Rachel June 18, 2019 11 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Knows Clit Numbness Is Temporary

What to do with your hearing aid during sex, how to use astrology to improve your relationships and more.

Ryan Yates June 16, 2019 9 Comments
Relationships

You Need Help: What Does a Healthy Relationship Look Like?

What is it you are unlearning? What are the narratives about yourself that you are unraveling from your heart like so much tangled yarn? And can you be gentle through the unraveling?

Christina Tesoro June 13, 2019 9 Comments
Daisy Ducati and Ella Nova
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Sunday Is So Sunburned

Sweaty summer sex, a few ways of looking at asexuality, a bot that will help with your sexting game and more.

Ryan Yates June 9, 2019 2 Comments
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5 Ways to Send the First Tinder Message That Aren’t Just Saying “Hey There”

Much like how a bio should be written with the goal of giving a hottie something to react to, a first message should be easy to reply to and easy to move the conversation forward from! What does one say to “hey” aside from “hey,” or on a sunny day, “hey!” I ask of you.

Rachel June 4, 2019 12 Comments
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NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Masturbating Every Morning

Morning masturbation for anxiety (and fun!), dating in a new city, summer flings, algorithmic harassment and more.

Ryan Yates June 2, 2019 8 Comments
Sex Toys

YES NO MAYBE: Intergalactic Aliens and Magical Dildos

140 FUCKIN’ THRUSTS PER MINUTE

Archie May 30, 2019 14 Comments
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Sex Toys

Anonymous Sex Toy Review: Womanizer Premium

Almost everyone I have spoken to who has tried the Womanizer Premium agrees on two things: the name is fucking awful and the device is fucking fantastic. I would agree.

Guest May 29, 2019 17 Comments
Dating

Chill or Be Chilled: 10 First Date Ideas for When You Want to Keep It Casual

Coffee and drinks are easy, but why stick to what’s easy? Get creative, but not so elaborate that your date thinks you’re madly in love with them and about to propose.

Courtney May 28, 2019 19 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Practicing French Kissing

A French kissing refresher, censored queer sex ed, ballon fetishes, masturbating without using your hands and more.

Ryan Yates May 26, 2019 3 Comments
Breakups

50 Ways to Leave Your (Lesbian) Lover

12. Sometimes Love Doesn’t Win, Quinn

Rachel May 21, 2019 30 Comments
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Sex Toys

Anonymous Sex Toy Review: Geode Dildo

I wish this Aggro Crag were maybe just a smidgen less aggro.

Guest May 21, 2019 6 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Doesn’t Think Sex Will Save The Planet But It Seems Fun To Try

Ecosexuality and fucking to save the planet, the logistics of sharing a bed for actual sleep, sex with 30 people in 30 days and more.

Ryan Yates May 19, 2019 7 Comments
Relationships

Articles Published on The Toast That I Later Learned Were About Me, a Partial List

“Looking back the flirtation was sort of obvious? Danny characterized the general tone as ‘I wanted you to know I didn’t speak French, but that I was still smart.'”

Grace Lavery May 15, 2019 34 Comments
Dating

10 Cute Daytime Dates for Spring and Beyond

In defense of daytime dates: they rule.

Vanessa May 14, 2019 31 Comments
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Breakups

For Your Consideration: 30 Slightly Unhinged Post-Breakup Activities That Aren’t Actually That Bad

Embrace a little chaos without getting in trouble with your therapist.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya May 14, 2019 139 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Loves Tiny Moments of Mutual Recognition

The importance of small weak everyday social ties, the difference between the narrative you build about a relationship and its truth, why PornHub buying Tumblr won’t save it and more.

Ryan Yates May 12, 2019 1 Comment
Dating

A Rose by Any Other Name: The Arguments for Dating Someone with the Same Name as You

“Honestly I love myself, and I think I’m super hot.”

Rachel May 7, 2019 31 Comments
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NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Trying To Be In A Body

Sometimes it’s hard to focus on being in your body, how to get into impact play, PornHub might acquire NSFW Tumblr and more.

Ryan Yates May 5, 2019 5 Comments
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