Settling, sending “we need to talk” with no context and texting your ghosts are all boring. Plus: how sex workers are leading the fight against mass surveillance, anal sex stats, a new trans dating app and more.
This is how we do it, it’s Sunday night and I’m feeling right, the party is here on the Lez Side.
Something that will feel hefty and firm in my cunt and look gorgeous on my altar? Come to Mommi.
You may have to drop some cash for a toy that will last for more than one thrust.
Horny people lie more, stop calling sex shops sleazy, how to dump someone you love and more.
“@ me when people start doing this with fists”
“I was curious how the Kink Kit planned on elevating this particular activity which I’ve almost always done with just a bare hand (and occasionally a paddle).”
Possibly your trauma history is being triggered out of context in this relationship – but maybe it’s not. YOU are the expert, no matter what your trauma history is.
How I found my queer identity online, romantically connected with my partner, and how you can too in six easy steps!
“How can I help her feel confident and in the mood again without sacrificing any more of myself?”
A play party is just like any other party — if it’s a good party, it’s probably a loud party, and if it’s a great party, it ends in an orgasm.
Why censoring sex works impacts everyone, life in Tinder purgatory, supporting a partner with sexual trauma and more.
Much like how everyone told us “OMG you’re both Geminis? This will never work,” we were also told “OMG you’re both bottoms? This will never work.” Joke’s on everyone else; the healthiest relationship and the best sex of my life has been with another bottom.
Today three different Autostraddle writers review and compare their takes on Princette Puppypus, a vibrator from Cute Little Fuckers, a gender-inclusive toy company with a mission to make exploring sex, sexuality, and gender a lighthearted, affirming, and exciting experience for all human bodies.
Rising STI rates, what you need to know about at-home testing kits, the best way to tell a partner you have an STI, why supplements won’t work and more.
There is no chill in Scorpio season, so let’s braid you into a relationship.
Let’s rebrand fall as Sex With Friends Season rather than Cuffing Season, yeah?
NEVER AGAIN.
‘Tis the season for black bats, black cats, and maybe a few adventures designed to give you goosebumps. Enjoy these all black everything offerings from Eve’s and let them keep you up through the witching hour and beyond!
Why scary moves make you horny, how to get candle wax (from play or ambiance) out of anything, strategies for (not) sending regrettable texts and more.