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A prismatic background of crumpled paper lies below photos of the senior team at 13. Laniea is wearing a baseball cap in a family photo, Anya is dressed up as Mrs. Cratchet for a school paly, Nicole is glaring at the camera in black and white, dressed in all black, Kayla is wearing a Pirates of the Caribbean necklace and sitting in the back of a van, Heather is wearing a Teddy Bear sweater and smiling wiht her sister, Riese is wearing a polo in her school photo, and Carmen is stretched out on her bed holding a book wearing coveralls and a red sweater.
AF+ Meet-Ups / Events

The Autostraddle Senior Team Hang on Our A+ Pop-Up Discord is NOW!

Help us close out our 13th Birthday celebration and the pop-up discord server with our senior team!

Nico March 21, 2022
TV Show Recaps

“Killing Eve” 404 Recap: Eve and Hélène Share a Bath, Some Soup, and Spit

Villanelle and Carolyn have some fun in Havana! Pam outmaneuvers Konstantin! Hélène and Eve are basically dating now if you ask me!

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya March 21, 2022 16 Comments
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Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Meet The TikTok Twins Playing Tegan and Sara on Their New TV Show

Also! What really happened to Netflix’s Baby-Sitter’s Club, the final Derry Girls trailer, and Stacey Abrams on Star Trek (finally!).

Heather Hogan March 21, 2022 10 Comments
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AF+

A+ Roundtable: The Keepsakes We Just Can’t Let Go Of

What keepsake do you hold onto that nobody else would understand?

the team March 21, 2022 5 Comments
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TV Feature

The Essay I Wrote About Santana Lopez When I Was 19 and Closeted, Annotated by My Present Self

Read the 700-word essay I wrote for a zine in college about queer representation on Glee even though at the time I identified as STRAIGHT.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya March 21, 2022 16 Comments
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Charting Celesbian Breakup Albums: “Cheap Queen” and “Valentine”

Queer celebrity breakup albums are just the next phase of evolution from reading into celebrity post-breakup tweets. Because after all, what is a breakup album if not just a really long subtweet? 

Analyssa March 21, 2022 11 Comments
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Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

Queer Tarotscopes for Aries Season 2022: Which Dreams Are You Going to Protect?

Think of Aries season as an opportunity to get your shit together.

meg March 21, 2022 2 Comments
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Quizzes

Quiz: Which Misplaced Item in Dani Janae’s Bed Are You?

There are many things you’ll find in a femme’s bed.

danijanae March 20, 2022 19 Comments
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Food Lists

It’s Time To Get Into Jerky

Sure, you know about beef jerky, but what about non-Slim Jim meat sticks, fish jerky, and gamey jerky options? Let’s talk about dehydrated snacks!

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya March 20, 2022 14 Comments
YOU DID IT!!! 317 new members and $17,424 raised
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You Gave Us The Best 13th Birthday Gift We Could Ask For!

You got us WELL PAST OUR GOALS! Thank you, thank you! We hope you’re proud of what you’ve accomplished these past two weeks!

Nico March 19, 2022 2 Comments
A large discord icon sits in the center of an image featuring a number doodles along the 13th birthday theme. There are two stock photos within polaroid frames. One is of two queer individuals hanging out and having a coffee together. The other is of a teenager typing on a laptop while wearing converse sneakers. There is an A+ logo in the upper corner.
AF+ Meet-Ups / Events

Join Us on the 13th Birthday A+ Pop-Up Discord Server!

It’s finally time!

Nico March 19, 2022 1 Comment
Drag Race recap 1411: In the foreground Lady Camden with big pink hair and a pink star earring is out of focus, in the background Bosco in black leather clenches her fist while belting
TV Show Recaps

“RuPaul’s Drag Race” Episode 1411 Recap: I’m Horny but Daya Is Hornier

“Backstage, tipsy Daya says that she’s a lesbian for Camden right now.”

Drew Burnett Gregory March 19, 2022 5 Comments
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Webcomics

Reine #32: Different Fonts

Same person, different fonts. It’s just a side effect of queers having style I guess.

Ren Strapp March 19, 2022 7 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

Boobs on Your Tube: Amelia and Hot Doctor Kai Had One of the Hottest Dates in Grey’s History

Plus updates on A Million Little Things, All American, Astrid and Lily Save the World, and Charmed!

Natalie and Valerie Anne
March 18, 2022 7 Comments
The #1 Overall Seeds for the Better Halves March Madness Tournament: Gigi and Dani, Casey and Izzie, Sue and Emily and Ryan and Sophie
TV Feature

Autostraddle March Madness: Fill Out Your Better Halves Brackets Now!

I’ve wondered how someone chooses between two halves of a ship, how do you pick your favorite?And that’s how we got to this year’s March Madness theme: Better Halves. Voting begins next week, but you can fill out your bracket now!

Natalie March 18, 2022 8 Comments
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Literature

Things I Read That I Loved #325: Like a Hippie Van Collided With a Paint Factory

Topics include TED Talks, murder, Morrissey, a horrific party limousine crash, infertility, the Atlanta Spa Shootings, Super Bowl Halftime Shows, a legendary Massachusetts roadside restaurant and more.

Riese March 18, 2022 2 Comments
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TV Reviews

Real Housewives of Miami Is a Strong Argument Against Having Straight Friends

Julia’s dynamic with Adriana doesn’t look much different from the myriad co-dependent and somewhat romantic friendship duos of other Housewives programs, but it’s treated differently because of Julia’s bisexuality.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya March 18, 2022 6 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Thirty Going on Thirteen

“Someday I’m gonna be a sexy spinster with a house full of ethically sourced dead ravens AND NO ONE CAN STOP ME!”

Darcy March 18, 2022 8 Comments
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AF+

Into the A+ Advice Box #56: IMPOSTER SYNDROME, SELF-SABOTAGE, and SELF-DOUBT

A lack of focus, the road not taken, fear of dating — the team tackles these topics and more!

the team March 18, 2022 22 Comments
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Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: I Still Can’t Stop Thinking About Brittney Griner

Jemele Hill on Brittney Griner (and ICYMI — updates on BG’s detention), how gullibility became our new normal, and are we wrong about introverts vs. extroverts?

Carmen Phillips March 17, 2022 7 Comments
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