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Stone Fruit by Lee Lai
LGBT Book Reviews

Slow Takes: “Stone Fruit” and Choosing Given Family

I learned about the concept of chosen family from a heterosexual uncle I don’t talk to anymore.

Drew Burnett Gregory September 1, 2022 8 Comments
Streaming Guide collage. Top row: Do Revenge, Reboot, Heartbreak High, Handmaid's Tale. Second row: Dreamlife of Georgie Stone, Amazing Race, Reasonable Doubt, Los Espookys, American Giglio, Monarch
Movie Lists TV Lists

What’s New and Gay To Stream in September 2022

We’ve got the return of “The Handmaid’s Tale,” a super-queer Australian teen series, Netflix’s campy dark comedy flick “Do Revenge,” Beth Ditto in country music drama “Monarch,” Rachel Bloom starring as a lesbian TV writer in Hulu’s “Reboot” and so much more!

Riese September 1, 2022 11 Comments
A cartoon image shows Veronica from Archie Comics, who has long, black hair with bands and wears a yellow top with a plunging neckline. She leans back in bed against a pink pillow with red trim with her hands behind her head. Her lower half is covered by a pink blanket. Red hearts swirl through the air around her. A white and brown lamp is on her pink bedside table to the right. Against the black background, yellow text reads: "Power bottom."
Sex

The Gay B C’s of Sex: P Is for Power Bottom

Perhaps the power bottom is in the eye of the be(hole)der.

Ro White September 1, 2022 3 Comments
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AF+

The Autostraddle Insider Issue 95: August 2022

(Bear training is also secretly for people who want to get wifed.)

The Editors August 31, 2022 31 Comments
Enjoy Me Among My Ruins by Juniper Fitzgerald
LGBT Book Reviews

Juniper Fitzgerald’s Queer Memoir-in-Fragments Examines Her Identities as a Sex Worker and Mother

Enjoy Me Among My Ruins bypasses the expectation to tell one’s story in a neatly contained narrative.

Stef Rubino August 31, 2022 4 Comments
Tig Notaro takes mirror selfies in a trailer while wearing a three-piece suit.
TV News & Trailers

In Continued Efforts To Become Gayer and Gayer, “The Morning Show” Casts Tig Notaro

Tig posted some very good suit selfies from a trailer earlier this week — and now we know what casting news she was hinting at!

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya August 31, 2022 2 Comments
Tessa Thompson attends the UK Gala screening of "Thor: Love and Thunder"
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Tessa Thompson Is Heading Back to Space in Sci-Fi Thriller “Ash”

Megan Thee Stallion will appear in She-Hulk: Attorney at Law, Harley Quinn has been renewed for a fourth season, Batgirl’s Ivory Aquino begs WB to release her movie, and more!

Heather Hogan August 31, 2022 3 Comments
WITAD? in yellow is against a purple background. A photo of Chingy Nea's face in a close up is below. Next to the photo in a yellow bubble it says "Bottoming" with guest Chingy Nea" and then surrounding are various emoji stickers.
Dating Podcasts

“Wait, Is This a Date?” Podcast Episode 209: Bottoming with Chingy

Let’s make some noise for the bottoms in the house! (It’s me, the bottom in the house.)

Christina Tucker August 31, 2022 1 Comment
Kristen Stewart wears a black tee over dark jeans and a black hat while posing with her fiancee Dylan Meyer who has long blonde hair and thick rimmed glasses
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: A Rare Kristen Stewart Sighting on Instagram! What Does This Portend?

Yes, Niecy Nash got Jessica Betts a PUPPY named MICHAEL for their anniversary!!

Christina Tucker August 31, 2022 3 Comments
A collection of five pink vibrators of different shapes and sizes, played on a wood table with worn out turquoise paint
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: In News Surprising Zero Asexuals, Many Asexuals Do In Fact Masturbate

Living in messy clutter is what’s in for fall, reflecting on Serena Williams’ last tournament and the legacy of a GOAT, and for the love of God, please stop asking asexuals if they masturbate.

Carmen Phillips August 30, 2022 5 Comments
AD on the practice court in New York. Text: Never Knocked Down, The AD Story
Sports

Queer Nonbinary WNBA Star AD Durr’s Long Covid Documentary Is a Must-Watch

“Identity is so much bigger than just basketball. If I can get through Long Covid, I can get through anything in life.”

Heather Hogan August 30, 2022 10 Comments
First Person

The Names We Call Each Other

On specific language, families, mispronunciations, and revisiting Jhumpa Lahiri’s “The Namesake.”

P August 30, 2022 5 Comments
a variety of women models of various races and ethnicities are seen collaged together, writing
AF+

A+ Roundtable: Our Writing Routines

“It’s just me, Maxwell, my dog, and these words in my dimly lit Midwestern office – perfection.”

the team August 30, 2022 3 Comments
woman with curly hair stares longingly into the distance
Breakups

You Need Help: I Can’t Get My Exes Out of My Head

We don’t need to be friends with our exes. One more time for emphasis. We don’t need to be friends with our exes.

KaeLyn August 30, 2022 7 Comments
Diary of a Misfit by Casey Parks
LGBT Book Reviews

In “Diary of a Misfit,” Casey Parks Creates Records of Lives Left Out of History

What is most compelling about Diary of a Misfit is how brilliantly organized it is. All at once, we get a biography, a memoir, a family history, and the active history of a place that most people are unfamiliar with.

Stef Rubino August 30, 2022 2 Comments
Allison and Patty stand in the dark holding takeout cups
TV Reviews

Kevin Can F**k Himself Season 2 Is Even Gayer and More Subversive

Allison and Patty’s relationship deepens as the second season progresses; the more Allison allows herself to trust and rely on Patty, the less of a hold Kevin has on her.

Heather Hogan August 29, 2022 4 Comments
two queer women one who is Black with her hair in a top puff and one who is white with a shaved side and long brown hair laugh together over coffee and computers
Straddleverse

HEY GAY! Take the 2022 Autostraddle Reader Survey!

You get to talk about yourself, a fascinating topic.

Nico August 29, 2022 16 Comments
Cate Blanchett having a quick queer kiss / Cate Blanchett directing an orchestra in TAR
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Cate Blanchett Is a Lesbian Mommi With Control Issues in “Tár” Trailer

Candace Parker and Sue Bird set more WNBA records in the playoffs, Janelle Monáe in Knives Out, Blackpink star Jennie’s new potentially bisexual HBO character, and more!

Heather Hogan August 29, 2022 13 Comments
A field of wildflowers
LGBT Book Reviews

Queer Naija Lit: “We Are Flowers” Documents the Beauty and Resilience of Nigeria’s Queer Community

We Are Flowers, a Queer Nigerian anthology, is defiant and audacious. It has no choice but to be.

Chinelo Anyadiegwu August 29, 2022 3 Comments
Lupe, Max, Jo, Carson (top row). On the bottoom row: Greta and Jess
Quizzes TV Feature

Which Gay League Of Their Own Character Should Be Your Girlfriend?

Which of the many gay gals populating Prime Video’s “League of Their Own” is your intended soulmate? There’s only one way to find out: THIS QUIZ!

Riese August 28, 2022 34 Comments
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