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Fletcher and her gal pal make out in the Better Version video
Music

Fletcher and Kelsea Ballerini Become Better, Queerer Selves in Meet-Cute Music Video

Well, Fletcher sure is determined to make this the queerest year ever.

Heather Hogan January 6, 2023 14 Comments
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AF+

Into the A+ Advice Box #75: Is It Over?

Career anxiety, dating after sexaul assault, consent and polyamory and more!

the team January 6, 2023 36 Comments
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Puzzles

Mini Crossword Is Taking a Hike

What’s the difference between a hippo and a Zippo?

brooke January 6, 2023 9 Comments
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Miley Cyrus Has a New Album, Her Season of Chaos Will Reign Once More

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Carmen Phillips January 5, 2023 7 Comments
Harlem Season Two: Two Black women kissing in front of a golden backlit background
TV News & Trailers

Harlem’s Trailer for Season Two Is Gay as Hell, So Black, and a Delight

I clocked more gay jokes — perfectly executed, I might add — in these two minutes than most comedies do in a year.

Carmen Phillips January 5, 2023 8 Comments
chariot and tower from the soul cards deck
Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

2023 Is the Year of the Chariot, It’s Time to Ask: What Are You Questioning?

As we move into this new year, give yourself permission to ask yourself questions that you can’t immediately answer.

meg January 5, 2023 5 Comments
Mars One: Two young Black femmes cuddle on a blanket in a park.
Movie Reviews

“Mars One” is Part Family Drama, Part Lesbian Romance, Entirely Wonderful

This is a film filled with struggle that never feels maudlin, hope that never feels forced.

Drew Burnett Gregory January 5, 2023 3 Comments
Against a black background, yellow text reads, "S - stone" on the left side of the image. On the right, there is a white and teal stencil of Leslie Feinberg, a masculine-presenting person with short hair and a serious expression. The top of Leslie's button-up shirt and tie is visible.
Lesbian Sex

The Gay B C’s of Sex: S Is for Stone

Slick back your hair and cuff those sleeves — we’re heading back to the 1940s and ’50s.

Ro White January 5, 2023 10 Comments
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Puzzles

Word Search: Into Every Generation

A you-know-what is born!

Vanessa January 5, 2023 15 Comments
Selfie Aesthetics: Seeing Trans Feminist Futures in Self-Representational Art by Nicole Morse
Book Features

Nicole Morse Wants You To See Trans Feminist Futures in Selfies

Selfie Aesthetics: Seeing Trans Feminist Futures in Self-Representational Art is a book about selfies and our relationships to them.

Lauren Herold January 4, 2023 1 Comment
Lili Kay as Clara in a cowboy hat on Yellowstone
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Yellowstone’s Lesbian on the Ranch Smooches Her IRL Partner on the Show

No, Sarah Michelle Gellar does not want to play Buffy again, will Wednesday leave Netflix, new pics from The Owl House, and more!

Heather Hogan January 4, 2023
Kayla sits on an ornate Victorian sofa holding aloft a cocktail in a stemmed glass. She is wearing a doll-esque baby blue dress that is all gauzy with incredibly puffy sleeves, layers of pearls and a lace choker, ribbons in her hair which is braided, and glasses. She is holding her book, Helen House, which is pink with the title on it in white whimsical font and the "o" in house replaced with a smudgey lipstick kiss.
AF+

The A+ Book Club Talked with Kayla About Queer Monsters, Writing Craft and “Hot Horror”

“It’s a sweaty, sweaty horror show.”

Nico January 4, 2023 1 Comment
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TV News & Trailers

PSA: Those Two Gay Minutes of “Kaleidoscope” Is All There Is

Is Netflix teasing us with two gay minutes of Kaleidoscope? I need your help to test this theory.

Riese January 4, 2023 16 Comments
Chef Melissa King and their father wear matching oatmeal cardigans
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Melissa King Twinning With Their Dad IS ADORABLE!!

Also, here’s how a bunch of queer celebs spent New Year celebrations on IG.

Christina Tucker January 4, 2023 3 Comments
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Puzzles

Mini Crossword Simply Lives for the 1-A

Feeling cold…?

Rachel January 4, 2023 8 Comments
X Gonzalez is smiling to the side of camera while outside in a green jacket and shaved head, at a March For Our Lives protest.
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: This Essay By X González About Their Life After Parkland Is All I Care About

An anti-trans legislative risk map Of 2022, mapping out police violence, and definitely more than anything — as we approach Parkland’s five year anniversary, keeping X González in our minds and hearts.

Carmen Phillips January 3, 2023 7 Comments
neurodiverse life hacks: a close up of clear bathroom storage containers, filled with knickknacks, stacked on top of each other. The author is making a peace sign in the back.
Health

8 Coping Hacks For the Neurodiverse Baddies

Needless to say, I own a few slimes.

Em Win January 3, 2023 43 Comments
Victoria Grayson, Maya Lewis, Emily Gilmore, Regina Mills, Irina Derevko, and Jane Burke
Comedy TV Lists

Could I Make These Iconic Mean Moms From TV Happy?

There is no television character that gives me greater joy than the mean mom. I could blame it on many things: mommy issues, the fact that I started watching CBS primetime dramas when I was like nine, general homosexual unwellness — the list goes on.

Christina Tucker January 3, 2023 17 Comments
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Relationships

You Need Help: I Feel Like I’m My Girlfriend’s Second Choice

I want you to start 2023 feeling like your own number-one pick. That way, when the right person comes along, you’ll be ready and confident to be her number-one pick, too.

Vanessa January 3, 2023 14 Comments
a sofa made from straw
Lesbian Weddings

Some Things I Didn’t Expect When Planning My Lesbian Wedding

2. I’m in not infrequent contact with a woman named Daphne who is renting me a Fancy Portable Toilet Trailer with air conditioning.

Vanessa January 3, 2023 21 Comments
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