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Politics + Activism

Texas Teen Lesbian Shooting Victim Remembers That Night, Eyewitness Comes Forward

19-year-old Kristene Chapa is recovering (without health insurance) from the shooting that killed her 18-year-old girlfriend. Also, new information from her family and the Portland Police Department.

Riese July 2, 2012 28 Comments
Community

It’s Canada Day! Here’s 24 Kickass LBTQ Canadians

Let’s celebrate Canada Day with all the other Canadians!

Riese July 1, 2012 79 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Doing It In The Road

This week on NSFW Sunday: dating yourself, couch surfing, and tastes and sex. I know, sex! Crazy.

Guest July 1, 2012 25 Comments
Society + Culture

Sunday Funday Is Proud to Be a Gay American

This week, marriage equality is “in the works,” people are coming out as stoners / childbearers / lesbians, and the people who made your calculators are excited for pride. And it’s almost July 4!

Carmen July 1, 2012 23 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Pretty Little Liars Recap 301 and 302: Excessive Drinking That Night in the Bloody New Black

Recaps of season three episodes one and two are here! Rejoice!

Lizz June 30, 2012 18 Comments
Coming Out

This Short Series About Coming Out Is Adorable

Carolyn’s Team Pick: “I came out into a scene that really valourized masculinity and so I felt like in order to be recognized as a queer person I had to cut my hair short and dress in this particular way.”

Ryan Yates June 30, 2012 12 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Welcoming Two New Co-Captains, Ahoy!

Things we wrote and the best of what you clever dolphins said.

carrie June 29, 2012 8 Comments
Love + Sex

Formspring Friday Didn’t Know You Could Jump So High

This week you’re helping out with a variety of mom-related issues, girlfriend feelings, touchy feely straight girls, coming out as trans* and a possible stone butch, among other things. Maybe our best FS Friday ever.

Laneia June 29, 2012 67 Comments
Politics + Activism

Even Exodus International Doesn’t Want to Talk About “Curing” Gays Anymore

Alan Chambers, president of Exodus International and married to Leslie Chambers with two adopted children, now says his group will no longer operate around claims of being able to “cure” anyone.

Rachel June 29, 2012 21 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Things I Read That I Love #31: Working One’s Way Through A Crisis

This week’s topics include bipolar disorder, alcoholism, child abuse, immigration, poverty, deadly amusement park rides and working at the apple store!

Riese June 29, 2012 23 Comments
Politics + Activism

Germany Sends Lesbian Refugee Back To Iran With a Little Advice: Pretend To Be Straight

Samira Ghorbani Danesh faces imprisonment and torture if German courts don’t reverse a recent decision.

Laura June 29, 2012 23 Comments
Politics + Activism

Gay Rights Are Not Queer Liberation

“I’m not sorry we can now enter the military, and I’m not sorry that we can now marry. But frankly I come from a moment in time, and a radical vision in time, that never made marriage or the military my criteria of success.”

phoenix June 29, 2012 42 Comments
Playlists

Playlist: You’re My Favorite Book

You know what’s better than a book on tape? A book in a song.

Laura June 29, 2012 23 Comments
Recipes

Get Baked: Grill The Rainbow

Did I make this mostly as an excuse to make a sideways Pride flag on my counter? (Spoiler alert: yes.)

Ryan Yates June 29, 2012 5 Comments
Movie Reviews

Brave’s Unconventional Heroine: What Doesn’t Queer You Makes You Stronger

“This is the kind of movie that needs to be made more often. It’s like Tangled on feminist steroids.”

Intern Grace June 28, 2012 66 Comments
Health

The SCOTUS Health Care Ruling: What Does It Mean?

The Supreme Court ruled that the Affordable Care Act and its mandate that Americans carry health insurance or else face a tax is constitutional.

Rachel June 28, 2012 30 Comments
Gender Parenting & Family

What’s It Like Growing Up With A Transgender Parent? Sharon Shattuck Knows.

“I think the one thing that really sticks with me from my childhood is that I felt very alone–I felt like no one else’s family was like mine, so I just sequestered that part of my life and didn’t talk about it with my friends or acquaintances.”

Gina June 28, 2012 42 Comments
Playlists

Playlist: Songs I Love That Don’t Have Words

I believed deeply, at one point, that words could do a majority of the communicating I would need to do in my life. I was wrong.

Carmen June 28, 2012 40 Comments
Community

Top Ten Things That Break More Than This Website

Suspiciously enough, “record” is not on the list.

Riese June 28, 2012 29 Comments
Politics + Activism

Marriage Equality Not the Same Thing As Divorce Equality for Gay Couples

What happens if you’re gay married but don’t want to be anymore? It might be incredibly difficult.

Rachel June 28, 2012 17 Comments
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