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AF+

Into the AF+ Advice Box #95: ANXIETIES

Whether it’s anxiety about driving, being perceived as younger at work, bodies and sex, pregnancy, or socializing — we’ve got you with some queer advice!

the team December 21, 2023 7 Comments
Comedy Holigays

I Think I Accidentally Bought My Fiancée a Haunted Music Box for Christmas

Who knew the vintage clown music box that inexplicably plays “Memories” from the musical Cats would be haunted?

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya December 21, 2023 10 Comments
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Life

Gay People: I Need Us To Care About Palestine

“In a world where it is clear that the nation-state is an outdated model that cannot hold us down, that cannot protect us, I ask: what do we owe each other? What do we owe the land? How do we protect each other, and the land, in this increasingly turbulent time?”

Fatimah Asghar December 21, 2023 16 Comments
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Sports TV Reviews

“Under Pressure” Re-Centers the Identity of the U.S. Women’s World Cup Team

Netflix’s “Under Pressure” begins the work of re-establishing the USWNT as more than just pawns in someone else’s narrative. And to that, I can only say: LFG.

Natalie December 21, 2023 3 Comments
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Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: boygenius Covers Shania Twain’s “You’re Still the One” And It’s Swoonworthy

Shania Twain loves the Boygenius “You’re Still the One” cover. Plus: Sarah Paulson on Broadway, a queer Joker parody movie, Sue Bird and Diana Taurasi are hosting the NBA Christmas Day games, and more!

Valerie Anne December 20, 2023 2 Comments
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Sports

Every WNBA Team’s 2024 Season Rollout Promo, as Ranked by Brittney Griner Dunks

This week, each of the league’s 12 teams dropped their schedules for the 2024 season — and some of them were 🔥🔥🔥

Natalie and Carmen Phillips
December 20, 2023 4 Comments
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AF+

Unexpected Item in the Bagging Area

“My wife and son didn’t know; no one knew. The guilt crept up when I unloaded the groceries in the kitchen, stolen and paid-for alike.”

Irene Keliher December 20, 2023 3 Comments
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TV Lists

The 25 Best TV Shows of 2023 with Lesbian, Queer and Trans Characters

These are our picks for the best TV shows of 2023 with LGBTQ+ women and/or trans characters.

Riese and The TV Team
December 20, 2023 13 Comments
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Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Da Brat and Raven-Symoné as Baby Gays!

Plus, this picture of Megan Thee Stallion is so powerful I almost immediately started taking out my braids????

Christina Tucker December 20, 2023 2 Comments
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TV Reviews

Gay Historical Fiction Series “Fellow Travelers” Flattens American Tragedies and Wrongdoings

Technically, the premise of Fellow Travelers has all the makings of what could have become a beloved piece of queer media.

Stef Rubino December 20, 2023 8 Comments
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Puzzles

Mini Crossword is a Labor of Love

Fun fact: Australia’s biggest export is boomerangs.

Emet Ozar December 20, 2023 1 Comment
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Movie Reviews

If Only “The Color Purple” Had Loved All of Us

The Color Purple has never been just about Black women saving each other. It’s about Black women finding beauty and worth in each other, in all aspects of who we are, and on this Alice Walker could not be more clear: that means in our bedrooms, too.

Carmen Phillips December 19, 2023 20 Comments
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Geekery

9 of the Best Queer Video Games of 2023

Adventure games, farming sims, and even a musical! Check out this list of some of the best — and queerest — games of 2023.

Valerie Anne December 19, 2023 12 Comments
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Movie News & Trailers

GET PUMPED! The Gay Kristen Stewart Bodybuilder Film Trailer Is Here

This trailer is the perfect embodiment of Be Gay, Do Crimes.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya December 19, 2023 12 Comments
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Dating Pets & Animals

You Need Help: Wanting To Move In Together but Unsure About Sharing Bed With Dog

“My girlfriend has a super sweet lab mix who I love dearly, but I’m very new to the concept of sleeping with a dog in the bed. I thought they made dog beds for this exact reason?!”

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya December 19, 2023 7 Comments
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Christmas Food Lists

Power Ranking Italian (and Italian-American) Christmas Desserts

My ancestors really said “Ok, let’s make a dessert that looks like cured meat.”

Stef Rubino December 19, 2023 9 Comments
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Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Kate McKinnon and Billie Eilish Gay Up SNL (Meow! We Love to See It)

I’ve gathered up all the gayest sketches from Kate McKinnon’s SNL return. Also: Ali Liebert’s Hallmark Christmas movie premiered this weekend, Demi Lovato is engaged, bisexual Black author Bethany Baptiste on racism in book publishing, and more.

Valerie Anne December 18, 2023 7 Comments
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TV Lists

9 of the Best Queer Animation Wins of 2023

Across the film and television landscape, whether aimed at kids or adults, 2023 in animation took things to the next level.

Rendy Jones December 18, 2023 3 Comments
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Movie Lists

The Best Movies of 2023 According to Autostraddle Readers

My opinion is just one opinion. This year we decided, in addition to my list, to also hold a poll on our Instagram to find out what films you all like most!

Drew Burnett Gregory December 18, 2023 2 Comments
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Music

George Michael’s “Freedom ’90” Showed Me Hot Models — And My Queerness

My absolute favorite music video was George Michael’s “Freedom ‘90”. Why? Because of the supermodels, of course.

Sa'iyda Shabazz December 18, 2023 4 Comments
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