I Used to Break Into Houses
“I craved that isolation, that feeling of utter aching loneliness that I found inside houses where I did not belong.”
the patriarchy
Why I Got Off the Pacific Crest Trail After 454 Miles Instead of Walking All the Way to Canada
I stopped hiking the Pacific Crest Trail in 2017 because of toxic masculinity and bro culture in the hiking community. It exists, it’s shitty, and it fucked me up.
Judging Tonya
“By the end of the 1994 Winter Olympics, I was 12 years old and quite certain I’d picked the right side.”
Also.Also.Also: Everything Queer Women Do Together Is Sexualized and Other Stories for Your Week
Affordable therapy, net neutrality, due process, Japan’s trans sterilization law is horrid, shrinking national monuments, Teen Vogue, uterine transplant baby, Britney Spears, and so much more!
Here’s Who Tried To Ruin October For Us
On LGBTQ history month of all months!
Showstopper
He pressed further, asking if I was an actress. I said something along the lines of “I hope so.” He suggested that I meet his brother as well – his producing partner. I remember him suggesting some place quieter, more private.
Also.Also.Also: Stop Me If You’ve Heard the One About White Men Committing More Mass Shootings Than Any Other Group
Long live the group chat, STIs are so high right now, SCOTUS back in session, the sports bra, the shooting in Las Vegas, loads of disappointing queer news but also some good stuff, I wish our president really was a plant, and more.
Also.Also.Also: You Don’t Know How Long I’ve Waited to Talk About Recliners and the Patriarchy
Most importantly: Muppets, then we’ve also got queer photography, bugs, hurricanes, gendered language, endometriosis, taking up space, and so much more!
What I Wore: Navigating the Heteronormative Patriarchy, Pt. 12
Things get weird for this one year anniversary of What I Wore!
What I Wore: Navigating the Heteronormative Patriarchy, Pt. 11
“This was going to be my last interaction with the heterosexual agenda for an entire week and I needed to keep my eye on the prize.”
Also.Also.Also: Good Things Constantly Being Unraveled by Stupid Straight White Men and Other Stories for Your Week
The ACA drove down personal bankruptcy, don’t laugh at racist old white men I guess (?), 2FA is screwed, North Dakota also, us too, probably you, everything! Come on in here and read some things!
What I Wore: Navigating the Heteronormative Patriarchy, Pt. 10
What I wore to the craft brewery, running errands, and getting my oil changed!
Also.Also.Also: This Richard Simmons Podcast and Other Stories for Your Holy, Perfect Face
Taco Thursday! Come get some links!
What I Wore: Navigating the Heteronormative Patriarchy, Pt. 9
This time I cover Trump’s America: Day 1, Day 2, and End of Week 1.
Also.Also.Also: Women of Trump’s Inner Circle Are Actually Pretty Thrilled, So
Navajo Nation sues over mine spill, Trump: still a shitshow, a timeline of Flint’s water disaster, black feminist joy, fallout of the Oakland fire, LGBTQ youth: things are not swell, and so much more.
Now More Than Ever: Navigating the Heteronormative Patriarchy in a Post-Trump World
What I wore on Election Day and Post-Trump.
What I Wore: Navigating the Heteronormative Patriarchy, Pt. 7
This week: I dress up as Carol Aird to go to Target, get sporty and outdoorsy to go to the doctor, and, yes, revisit the tire shop.
7 Halloween Costumes That Subvert the Heteronormative Patriarchy
Watch out, 2016! Hillary’s on the rise and so are you – straight through some glass!
A Special Film/TV-Inspired Edition of “What I Wore: Navigating the Heteronormative Patriarchy”
This week I channel women in film/TV to navigate the comedy show, a rock concert and the sport bar.
What I Wore: Navigating the Heteronormative Patriarchy, Pt. 5
Featuring the outdoor music festival, the mall, and the electronic store!