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Do You Take Sugar With That: Coffee Shop Stories and Barista Crushes

Happy National Coffee Day!

the team September 29, 2014 75 Comments
Pets & Animals Queer Fashion

7 Ways To Incorporate Cute Critters Into Your Professional Wear

When I’m shopping for things that might be professional attire, I think it’s less soul-crushing when said items have cute animals on them, OR when I can sneak in accessories with cute animals on them.

Leo September 29, 2014 14 Comments
Food Lists

32 Reasons the Grain in Spain Falls Mainly On Your Plate

Today we eat rice, quinoa, farro, and every other type of grain under the sun.

Rachel September 29, 2014 18 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Orange is the New Black Episode 210 Recap: The One with All the Flashback Secks

Wherein in Alex Vause returns and we all collectively wet our pants.

Chelsea September 29, 2014 20 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Feels Young and Hungry When She Looks At You

Group sex parties, how often and for how long women have sex with each other, lesbian porn haiku, finding the best mattress for your sex life and more.

Ryan Yates September 28, 2014 25 Comments
Society + Culture

This Sunday Funday, Ruth Bader Ginsburg and Chelsea Clinton’s Daughter Ain’t Goin’ Nowhere

A straight Mormon dude trolls for gay rights, the UN and some members of Congress restore my faith in our current society, and a really f*cking adorable dog that helps you find lost shit at the airport. ALL THAT AND MORE INSIDE!

Carmen September 28, 2014 3 Comments
First Person Politics + Activism

Bisexual Awareness Week: We See Each Other, And That’s Something

The first ever Bisexual Awareness Week created space to organize resources, initiate connections and speak about our experiences in a new way.

Adrian September 27, 2014 15 Comments
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Saturday Morning Cartoons: Troll

On the harassment and hate speech directed toward women on the internet.

Megan Praz September 27, 2014 5 Comments
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Facebook Says Goodbye, You Say Ello

Spurred by a problematic “real name” policy queers flock to fledgling social media platform Ello. But is it really the online utopia we’ve been waiting for?

Alley Hector September 27, 2014 32 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Grey’s Anatomy Episode 1101 Recap: Just the Gay Parts, Plz.

Calzona is the worst couple combo name ever. It’s like something you can order at Pizza Hut but shouldn’t because it will give you a heart attack and/or hella greasy pores.

gabby September 26, 2014 47 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Gotham Episode 101 Recap: Less Batman, More Lesbians

Fox’s biggest hope just might live up to the hype, as long as it lets its queer women of color shine.

Alley Hector September 26, 2014 20 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are All Over Fall

Bi Day, #Gracehorse and gay Sims.

carrie September 26, 2014 15 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: What Are You Wearing This Evening?

Let’s hang out in your closet (but not THAT closet).

Ryan Yates September 26, 2014 263 Comments
Literature

Things I Read That I Love #146: The Fumes Of A Magic Marker

Topics include a lot of stuff about race and also rock star’s wives, making things, Star Trek, this app called Slack, the impact of the California drought and more!

Riese September 26, 2014 8 Comments
First Person

Calluses and Cow Sheds: How I Found My Queerness in Rural America

“That year I spent a lot of time watching the goats and cows eat grass. Mostly because I found their single-minded focus incredibly comforting. Also because our fences were shoddy and I had to figure out how they were constantly escaping. I was learning to care for animals like I was learning to listen to myself: in silent and slow observation.”

Lila September 26, 2014 19 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Transparent Episode 101 Recap: The Family That Eats Ribs Together

An exasperated trans woman and her three narcissistic kids walk into a bar.

Rachel September 26, 2014 69 Comments
Recipes

The Casual Monger: Lemon-Thyme Cheese for the Intermediate Monger

An introduction to curds and whey.

July Westhale September 26, 2014 4 Comments
House & Garden Shopping

We’re All About It: A High Velocity Love Story Starring My Fancy Vacuum

Is that your Tangle-free Turbine tool or are you just happy to see me?

KaeLyn September 25, 2014 38 Comments
Coming Out

Becoming Visible: On Coming Out As Bisexual

“I guess I’m still sort of coming out. I’m learning to embrace my sexuality as a primary part of my identity rather than an afterthought. It feels really good.”

Adrian September 25, 2014 112 Comments
Comedy TV News & Trailers

VIDEO: Ellen Page and Kate Mara are Tiny Detectives

“That’s just my face penis.”

KaeLyn September 25, 2014 14 Comments
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