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Meryl Streep, Nicole Kidman, and Julianne Moore in The Hours
Movie Reviews

“The Hours” Welcomed Me Into a Lineage of Sapphic Suffering

I watch The Hours whenever I’m sad.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya March 19, 2024 5 Comments
Health

10 Things That Surprised Me After Top Surgery

I’m six weeks post-op from Top Surgery, and I’m learning a ton. I’m learning more about my body and my dysphoria, my goals for transitioning, and most importantly, life without boobs.

Motti March 19, 2024 8 Comments
two Black women are smiling while asking each other questions on a first date
Dating

50 Gay Questions To Ask on a First Date

Have you ever seen a ghost or experienced a haunting?

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya March 19, 2024 4 Comments
lesbian with fingers pointed at them and fire and so much
Gender

You Need Help: Everyone Thinks I’m Lying To Myself About My Gender

“If you were to ask me my gender, I’d say ‘lesbian.’ The problem is people in my life will not stop asking me if I’m nonbinary or trans. Everyone keeps asking if I have new pronouns.”

Riese March 19, 2024 8 Comments
Who's Afraid of Gender? by Judith Butler
LGBT Book Reviews

Judith Butler Elucidates Dangers of Anti-“Gender Ideology” Movement, Doesn’t Sufficiently Answer What To Do About It

Why does Butler spend so much time trying to refute these illogical suppositions in the first place?

Stef Rubino March 19, 2024 7 Comments
JoJo Siwa being like HEEEYYYYY
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: So, JoJo Siwa’s Getting Tattoos For Her Already-Named Future Children

A plethora of updates on JoJo Siwa’s future children and new music, Devery Jacobs discusses queer Native representation, Derry Girls’ “wee lesbian” talks mental health and more pop culture news!

Valerie Anne March 18, 2024 1 Comment
Elena Alvarez from One Day at a Time, Rue Bennett from Euphoria, Santana Lopez from Glee, and Casey Gardner
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Autostraddle March Madness 2024: Fill Out Your Brackets Now!

Our theme for this year’s contest is “The Kids are All Right” and it was chosen for a reason. Over the last few years, we’ve seen a lot of right-wing attacks on LGBT kids.

Natalie March 18, 2024 8 Comments
The Best Training Montages ever feature: A collage against a grey backdrop with images from Stick It, Bring It On, and Million Dollar Baby.
Movie Lists

From “Bring It On” to “Love Lies Bleeding”: The Best Training Montages of All Time

No matter the point of the movie, the training montage is a moment of unabashed euphoria: Here’s our “hero” (or “heroes”) doing what it takes to attempt to beat the odds.

Stef Rubino March 18, 2024 9 Comments
Marian and Jamie from Drive Away Dolls against a background of Florida maps, bar signs, and palm trees
LGBT History Movie Features

Real Life Late-90s Lesbian Spaces in the South Where the Drive-Away Dolls Could Have Stopped

Being from Florida, I know how easy it is for the history of queer and trans people to be lost to time, and I think it’s an important part of our fight for liberation to buck against that where and when we can.

Stef Rubino March 18, 2024 2 Comments
Edible Arrangements: Modernism's Queer Forms by Elizabeth Blake
LGBT Book Reviews

Elizabeth Blake’s Edible Arrangements Is Hungry (and Horny) for Modernist Literature

The book can help us understand the sensual relationship between food and sex in Je Tu Il Elle and in other forms of LGBTQ art, media, and cultural production.

Lauren Herold March 18, 2024 1 Comment
1 across / 5 letters / Grammy winner Victoria who wrote "Touch Me" about Kehlani
Puzzles

Mini Crossword Loves a Good Portmanteau

As I get older, I remember all the people I lost along the way.

Darby Ratliff March 18, 2024 3 Comments
a collage of an AI model with red hair
Comedy

I Accidentally Crushed on a Rocket Scientist Lingerie Model Who Was Actually AI-Generated

I hunger for the exploits of smart, beautiful women, and Instagram is happy to feed me. So when she was recommended to me, I foolishly took the profile at face value.

Summer Tao March 17, 2024 4 Comments
A collage of Drive-Away Dolls characters for the which Drive-Away Dolls character are you quiz.
Quizzes

Which “Drive-Away Dolls” Character Are You?

Are you the free-spirited Jamie or the uptight Marian? Or maybe you’re a hippie chick played by Miley Cyrus with an affinity for making plaster casts of your lovers’ genitalia?

Drew Burnett Gregory March 17, 2024 7 Comments
First Four Contests of the 2024 Autostraddle March Madness
AF+

AF+ Members: Pick the Winners of the Autostraddle March Madness First Four

La Brea’s Izzy vs. Bel-Air’s Ashley Banks! Dare Me’s Beth vs. Big Shot’s Mouse! Gen V’s Marie vs Jordan! Everything Sucks’ Emaline vs. Ginny & Georgia’s Max! Are you ready to tip off this year’s edition of Autostraddle March Madness?? LFG.

Natalie March 16, 2024 4 Comments
Marian and Jamie kissing in Drive-Away Dolls
Movie Features

Anatomy of a Queer Sex Scene: Drive-Away Dolls Is Suffused With Lesbian Sex Throughout

“Justice for shower sex! It’s so controversial but I’m very pro.”

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya and Drew Burnett Gregory
March 16, 2024 3 Comments
A cartoon illustration of a queer person declares that they are in their SLUT ERA
Webcomics

Reine #58: Communication Era

“Oh, I remember sexting on Tumblr! Vintage. I can vibe.”

Ren Strapp March 16, 2024 3 Comments
7 across / 4 letters / clue: Dildo, for some
AF+ Puzzles

AF+ Crossword Is Gayer Than Charlie’s Angels

You used to be able to get air for free at gas stations, but now it’s a dollar.

Rebecca Goldstein March 16, 2024
Drag Race 1611: Morphine leans back with her mouth open during the lip sync
TV Show Recaps

“RuPaul’s Drag Race” Episode 1611 Recap: Living for Your Lip Sync

It’s a star-making performance from someone I already knew was a star.

Drew Burnett Gregory March 15, 2024 3 Comments
Carina and Maya look at each other lovingly on Station 19
TV Show Recaps

Boobs on Your Tube: Carina and Maya Are Entering Their Hot Moms Era, You Know I’m Here for It

But this is Station 19’s last season. These are the last few weeks we will ever spend with Maya and Carina. They deserve a happy ending. So I’m going to step into that joy and stand ten toes down in it.

Carmen Phillips March 15, 2024 5 Comments
Renee Rapp calling for a Ceasfire in Gaza from the GLAAD stage, she is wearing a black suit against a black sparkly background
Politics + Activism

Reneé Rapp Calls for “Immediate and Permanent Ceasefire in Gaza” From GLAAD Awards Stage

What most struck me about Reneé Rapp’s willingness to say the words “ceasefire in Gaza” from the GLAAD stage is how rare it is, even now, to see eventhat level of advocacy at all.

Carmen Phillips March 15, 2024 6 Comments
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