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NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Getting Virtually Real

Sex and virtual reality, sex and depression, sex and stagnation and what to do about it. Plus tips for moving out after a breakup, edging, vintage vibrators and more.

Ryan Yates August 14, 2016 4 Comments
Relationships

You Need Help: How Soon Is Too Soon To U-Haul, Get Married, Have Ten Babies, Be Together Forever and Ever and Ever and Ever?

“…there’s a value in extending the period of time in which the way you build a life together is directed only by what’s in your heart and guts and brain, not by leases and legal documents and bill payments and shared sofas.”

Riese August 10, 2016 16 Comments
Sex

Bottoms Up: Little Boi

Being in little space doesn’t feel like being a child again. It feels more freeing than my childhood ever was, and like something completely different.

Ari August 9, 2016 48 Comments
Sex Toys Travel

The 7 Best Sex Toys To Bring Camping

Sometimes you need to get outside and remember who you are and who you want to be. These are the sex toys to bring with you.

Ryan Yates August 8, 2016 11 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Wants Cake By The Ocean

Sexually charged slang, trans women’s pleasure, femmes strapping on, being a kinky survivor and more.

Ryan Yates August 7, 2016 10 Comments
Sex

View From The Top: Desire That Looks Like Mine

The possibility of finding our kink community gave me the courage to take another deep breath and open the door.

Sinclair Sexsmith August 2, 2016 12 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Will Fist You Like It’s Friday

The similarity between Shibari and classical ballet, how sharing media or friends can strengthen relationships, how celery and the occult made you gay, what gets you a better response in online dating and more.

Ryan Yates July 31, 2016 2 Comments
Sex

Bottoms Up: Nope That Word Is Not For Me

“I cannot wait to have a partner with whom I can explore consensual non-consent in a 24/7 lifestyle. But to be called a slave? In America?”

Ari July 26, 2016 39 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Likes Your Hips

The most popular emoji on Tinder, when your partnership gets boring, why it’s still hard to talk about what you want and more.

Ryan Yates July 24, 2016 7 Comments
Sex

View From The Top: Coming and Crying; Master and Slave

“Master and slave — in consensual, intentional contexts — are the precise words for the cravings I have in my heart and gut to own, control, protect and nurture my partner.”

Sinclair Sexsmith July 19, 2016 8 Comments
Love + Sex

Y’All Need Help #4: You’re a Person with Complex Emotional Responses to a Variety of Situations

A 28 year-old closeted lesbian and married mother of three, and a token gay friend who’s feeling quite encroached upon. Calling it like I see it!

Laneia July 19, 2016 32 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Will Guard Your Dreams and Visions

The single best way to get better at sex. Also Pokémon Go as dating app, when you have to pee during sex, how queer sex can teach you body love and more.

Ryan Yates July 17, 2016 7 Comments
Dating

12 Tips for Seducing Someone Who Identifies as a Witch

Be a Taurus. If that’s not your sign, figure out how for it to be your sign.

Erin July 12, 2016 78 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Leaving The Beach To Have Gay Sex Elsewhere

Kegels aren’t as good for you as everyone thinks they are, sex tips from the New York Public Library, Dildo, Newfoundland, and more.

Ryan Yates July 10, 2016 6 Comments
Sex

View From The Top: Power In Theory, Power In Practice

Sarah and I talked a lot about power in our relationship — who had it, who felt it, how it flowed between us. It wasn’t always smooth.

Sinclair Sexsmith July 5, 2016 24 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Will Bring You LaCroix In Bed

Sexting and insecurity, the future of porn, casual sex, pubic hair habits, how to recycle sex toys and more.

Ryan Yates July 3, 2016 12 Comments
Friendship

You Need Help: How Do I Make Out With My Friend?

“I want to make out with my bestie. I love her dearly, but I don’t think I’m in love with her—I don’t want to be in a whole relationship thing with her or anything.”

A.E. Osworth June 30, 2016 69 Comments
Sex

Bottoms Up: Why I’m A Bratty Bossy Bitch

Submitting is a weird dichotomy of knowing exactly what you want but putting someone else in control of giving it to you.

Ari June 28, 2016 9 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Cool For The Summer

Queer nightlife in the early twentieth century, taking yourself out to dinner, a herpes vaccine, talking about chronic health problems and more.

Ryan Yates June 26, 2016 8 Comments
Sex

View From The Top: Polka Dots, Packing, and Protocol

We started to turn the top/bottom dynamics in our sex life into 24/7 dominance/submission. It was highly negotiated, mutually consensual, and extremely hot.

Sinclair Sexsmith June 21, 2016 10 Comments
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