Make The Yuletide Gay With Unbound’s Autostraddle-Curated Sex Toy Box
Searching for that perfect combination of versatile sex toys? Here you go.
View From The Top: It’s Protocol
We thrive on these everyday tiny moments where we both get to be reminded of our agreed-upon power differential.
You Need Help: Your Best Friend Has Feelings for You, Lives 1000s of Miles Away
There is safety in distance, a whole lot of it — distance lets us be different version of ourselves, or to reveal parts of ourselves we haven’t shown to the light before. It allows us to be bold, and take risks.
NSFW Sunday Is Paying For Porn
The state of queer and feminist porn, why paying for it is crucial, Sailor Moon teaches sex ed, the difference between spanking and slapping and more.
Poly Pocket: When Family and Friends Just Don’t Get It
“Family and friends tend to recognize her and her boyfriend and pretend that I don’t exist, mostly because they have been together longer and queer relationships are not respected or recognized.”
Holigay Gift Guide: Sex Toys for Trans Women
Obviously, a lot of toys you’d buy for a cis woman are great, but also, let’s be real, trans women have some special needs and desires.
Anonymous Sex Toy Review: The Gazelle
The Gazelle vibrator combines a classic sex toy shape with lines vaguely evocative of animal traits in a way that’s surprisingly smooth and sleek.
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Ruining Romance
Sleep orgasms, how to start sexting, third-rail erotica, Millennial relationships through the lens of capitalism, porn after January 20 and more.
Holigay Gift Guide 2016: Buying Someone A Sex Toy? Start Here.
Whether you want to say “I love you,” “I have a crush on you,” or “I genuinely want you to be happy and maybe have a lot of orgasms,” we’ve got the sex toys for you.
View From The Top: Aftercare For Tops
“Perhaps trust is my biggest kink. That would explain a lot.”
NSFW Sunday Knows What Porn You Watch
Why sex is good, Tinder gets trans-inclusive, the Bad Sex Writing nominees, chronic sickness and love, and some predictions on the future of sex.
Poly Pocket: Being As Direct As Possible
Here’s how a 23-year-old native and Jewish queer trans woman with Cerebral Palsy living in Baltimore and dating a few people does poly.
Bottoms Up: Be Your Own Submissive
“When I’m alone, and the world feels like it’s ending, for whom do I do service?”
NSFW Sunday Is Still Not Having Sex Even Though The Election Is Over
Victorian ideas about sex, cranberry juice and UTIs, whether it’s time to have sex or not right now and more.
View From The Top: Tops Have Limits, Too
“I knew she wanted it, I trusted her to know she could take what she asked for, and I wanted to give her what she wanted. But I couldn’t do it.”
NSFW Sunday Is Ready For This Election To End So We Can Have Sex Again
What makes an orgasm an orgasm, why crushes are fun, why queer porn is into safer sex (but you should still vote no on 60) and more.
Poly Pocket: This Is How Bisexual Comedian Gaby Dunn Does Poly
“You can just NOT LIE.”
Bottoms Up: A Way To Move Through The World
I started to see submission as less about what happens in play and more about a way to approach the world.
NSFW Sunday Is Throwing A Costume Orgy
Sex life spells, satanic burlesque, Halloween porn searches and more.
You Need Help: How Do I NOT Cause a Breakup with a Tough Talk?
“I’ve written them a letter about feeling like I’m getting the short end of the stick, but I’m afraid that it comes off as a break-up letter and I don’t want to break up with them. I really just want to be happy with them.”