View From The Top: Tender-Hearted Dom
When you want your partner to be strong, dominant, demanding and strict, “What do you need right now? Can I make you a sandwich? Let’s watch your favorite movie!” is not a sexy reaction.
NSFW Sunday Is Sexting Against Shame
How sexting can help with multiple areas of your sexuality, how kinky people are less likely to victim-blame, the rise of STIs and more.
Happy International Fisting Day!
Happy Fisting Day! Celebrate by fisting. Also celebrate by voting no on Proposition 60.
Public Personals: A Peek Inside the Queer Instagram Dating Experiment
An homage to all the unique ways queer women have marked themselves and dog-whistled each other throughout the decades, the witch bitch switches and the techno hippie hyperdykes from the queer classifieds of the 80s, only this time it’ll be instant and without the anonymity.
Poly Pocket: Question Everything
Here’s how a single 20-year-old Latina queer polyamorous femme who works as a nonprofit employee and fetish model does poly.
Bottoms Up: What Limits?
Sex doesn’t exist in a vacuum, but what if during the act, it did? What if all I focused on during sex was consent and pleasure?
What I Want to Hear in Bed
That’s what’s tricky about disabled sexuality: most people, disabled or not or anyplace in between, have no idea how to discuss it. So fear of “saying the wrong thing” takes over instead and the problem feeds itself. We never talk about it because we don’t know how to start.
NSFW Sunday Knows What Will Make You Feel Better
Spanking, kink and mental health; the future of sex and technology; what happens to sex as you age (it gets better); forced orgasms and more.
Queer Your Tech Gets Married: 10 Super Useful Tools for Wedding Planning
Here’s a little technology that’s useful for planning a big queer wedding!
View From The Top: We Don’t Need A Safeword
“I’m not saying the only time you should play with safewords is in consensual non-consent. But to me, it’s the only time they’re really necessary.”
Naughty Lesbian Scenes
Oh, it’s definitely hot in here. Because of ~*lesbians.*~
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Wants More Piercings In More Places
The rise of nipple piercings, why winking is sexy, lingerie’s “nude” problem, hilarious theories on what causes lesbian sex and more.
La India y La Negrx: Intentional, Radical Love in My Queer Interracial Relationship
“Love in partnership as colonized/racialized bodies is courageously undressing the walls we have built to survive and showing others the chaos that war has left behind.”
Poly Pocket: Gray Ace, Bi & Poly
“Being queer, Asian-American, femme, and gray ace — this is my identity and I get to choose what that means to me.”
Bottoms Up: Greedy
“Submitting is something I do, not something done to me.”
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Abuzz
Counterfeit sex toys, the secret history of graham crackers and masturbation, and some smut just for you.
Anonymous Sex Toy Review: The Bouncer Dildo
Using the Bouncer dildo is like fucking with kegel balls you can actually feel.
View From the Top: Dominant Fantasy vs. Dominant Reality
I have to be willing to reveal the messy, intimate parts of my life to have this authority exchange really work 24/7. Otherwise, it just isn’t sustainable.
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Wants To Talk About Porn These Days
An overview of everything going on with porn these days, how to have a secret relationship, why sex work should be decriminalized, where to learn more about submission and more.
Poly Pocket: Building Intentional Community and Relationship Anarchy
Here’s how a 33-year-old queer, polyamorous, white, trans woman living in Chicago who’s married and has a long-term girlfriend does poly.