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Sex

Bottoms Up: Sad, Solo, Submissive

Be the daddy you want to see in the world.

Ari September 20, 2016 17 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Loves Spanking

Why people love spanking, why prop 60 is bad, why being a badass and a bottom is not a contradiction, why it’s hard to come out as non-monogamous and more.

Ryan Yates September 18, 2016 11 Comments
First Person Love + Sex

Sexts From My Sickbed: How I Learned to Love My Queer Sick Body by Getting Naked

“How could an incapacitated person feel let alone be sexy, I catch myself thinking. Now, when I have those thoughts, I take out my camera.”

Liza Mcdonald September 15, 2016 10 Comments
Sex Toys Sponsored

Unbound’s Double Entendre Box Will Start A Party In Your Pants

The Unbound Box is a curated subscription box of sex toys and accessories that arrives quarterly.

Guest September 14, 2016 2 Comments
"you don't haeve to prove anything to anybody"
Love + Sex

Y’All Need Help #5: Being a Virgin Doesn’t Make You Straight

Do you have to go to your homophobic asshole cousin’s wedding? How do you tell your more-than-friends friend that you’ve slept with her ex? Is 22 too old to still be as pure and virginal as the driven snow? Get in here and find out!

Laneia September 13, 2016 59 Comments
Sex

View From The Top: Wine and Pie and Collars

“I want my friends to know who I belong to now,” rife said. “I want everyone to know I am taken.”

Sinclair Sexsmith September 13, 2016 1 Comment
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Going Down

The astrological signs most and least likely to be polyamorous, going down on a vulva, false balance in sex reporting, how to live past age 100 (by having lots of sex) and more.

Ryan Yates September 11, 2016 19 Comments
Relationships

Poly Pocket: Solo Poly Without Hierarchy

“Not leaning into change is a lot like staring at your house while it’s on fire.”

Ryan Yates September 8, 2016 23 Comments
Gender Relationships

You Need Help: Talking to Your Family About Your Partner’s Pronouns

If they are feeling hurt by people who don’t want to use their pronouns or just by a long day of having to gender in the world, listen to them and ask how you can help ease the stress.

Maddie September 7, 2016 17 Comments
Sex

Bottoms Up: Subspace Is Better Than Meditation

The more I experience subspace, the more I think that mindful living is possible for me.

Ari September 6, 2016 7 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Wants To Know What You Wear To Get Laid

Why your nipples get hard when you’re aroused, why nipple hair is totally normal, how porn advances technology, what you wear when you want to look bangin’ and more. Plus an emoji vibrator.

Ryan Yates September 4, 2016 9 Comments
Sex

View From The Top: Playing Through Depression

It’s almost impossible to master while grieving. When that grief turns into a depression, is it even M/s anymore?

Sinclair Sexsmith August 30, 2016 11 Comments
Relationships

Love Letters Across the Atlantic: How Distance Changes Your Relationship

“To date long distance then live with the other in person is to be in two versions of the same relationship. One wishes desperately for the future and is fueled by daydreams of the past; the other tries to make every waking moment something special and ignores the fact that time is passing, whether we like it or not.”

Tierney Nash August 29, 2016 11 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Talking Politics And Pleasure

Queer porn, feminist porn, politics and pleasure, being a good submissive, gender equality and sexual education and more.

Ryan Yates August 28, 2016 10 Comments
Friendship

You Need Help: What To Do About the Jerk in Your Friend Group

What’s a compassionate queer to do when an insecure friend starts to make the whole group miserable?

Adrian August 26, 2016 30 Comments
Sex

Bottoms Up: Did My Feminist Ancestors Burn Their Bras For This?

I’ve worked hard to hold onto my independence, and here I was giving it up — to someone more dominant and more masculine. My feminist ancestors didn’t burn their bras for this. Except what if they did?

Ari August 23, 2016 21 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Using A Vibrator Alarm Clock

Don’t move in with your partner, love is a lie and we all die alone, Fetlife is over, at least anal is still good though, plus a vibrator alarm clock.

Ryan Yates August 21, 2016 13 Comments
Dating The L Word

Every Way To Find A Date, Ranked By A Shane

“First comes Twitter, then comes Snapchat, then comes texting nudes to a complete and total stranger.” Patty-cake to that one, kiddos.

Cecelia August 18, 2016 45 Comments
Breakups Dating

You Need Help: How Do I Break Up With a Casual Someone?

So you want to break up? Don’t be mean. Be honest.

A.E. Osworth August 18, 2016 23 Comments
Sex

View From The Top: Giving Orders

Giving orders is more than the words coming out of my mouth. It’s the tone of voice I use, the eye contact, the confidence, the ease with which I speak.

Sinclair Sexsmith August 16, 2016 14 Comments
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