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Welcome to NSFW Sunday! This is not a sponsored post (but y’know, hit us up), I’m just really into seltzer right now.
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thewildcookiee + kookieknox,
photographed by Q. Oliver
+ Agents of Ishq is a project from filmmaker and writer Paromita Vohra that explores sexuality, eroticism, feminism, desire, gender and more, and that she hopes will revolutionize the way sex is approached in India. At the Establishment, Sukhada Tatke notes:
“The relevance of the site lies in the fact that though there has been a rise in sexual freedom and casual sex in India, the act continues to be accompanied by the lingering shadow of shame. “Earlier, people were ashamed about admitting to being sexually active. But today, if you are not active sexually or haven’t tried numerous positions, you are not cool enough. Sex has become more about scoring than experiencing it for what it is,” says Vohra, who notes that this signals a cause of concern.”
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+ If you’re insecure, you probably like sexting. (The study in question was small and featured heterosexuals; what is your experience with this like?)
+ Sharing what you like to read on dating apps increases your chances of a match, according to new research from a dating app.
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@chr_dinele & @pamstapamagram ++++++ #RodeoHs via rodeoh
+ Sex toys can help you figure out your sexuality.
+ It’s fun to have sex from behind! Here are some ways to go about it.
+ Virtual reality is probably the future of porn.
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+ Everyone is having casual sex.
+ Vaginas! They have discharge.
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+ How do you groom your public hair? A “nationally representative assessment of contemporary female pubic hair grooming habits” thinks it knows:
“Shaving was the most common grooming method at 61 percent, followed by trimming (18 percent), using an electric razor (12 percent), and waxing (5 percent), which is surprising given how many women’s magazine articles are devoted to getting a Brazilian. And while many women said they groomed for “hygienic purposes” (59 percent), more than 20 percent said they did it because their partner preferred it. Guessing that number was even higher for porn-loving millennials. Things that did not affect whether women groomed: how much they made, where they lived, their relationship status, how often they had sex, the type of sex they had, or the sex [hopefully they mean gender] of their partner.”
+ New York Magazine profiled Stoya, beginning with a discussion of rape before turning to her career, Hysterical Literature, reality versus fantasy, consent, making porn better and more:
“Her signature performative skill, the thing that makes a scene starring Stoya different from a scene starring anyone else, is the elation she expresses when having sex. In nearly all her performances, there’s a moment when she starts to laugh. It’s not coquettish. It’s not goofy. It’s not embarrassed. It usually comes as the actions of her partner or partners are starting to really turn her on. The sound Stoya lets loose is a sort of primal giggle of pure pleasure. In a world that exhibits at best a complicated relationship with pleasure (especially female, especially sexual), modeling that kind of unequivocal, physical joy is itself a radical act. Particularly when contrasted with the grotesquely vacant cum-shot montages that characterize so much of corporate porn, it’s also intensely hot.”
![Frank Maiorano-Delmas aka Métaux Lourds (FR) for Physalis](https://www.autostraddle.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/physalis.jpg?resize=512%2C640)
Frank Maiorano-Delmas aka Métaux Lourds (FR) for Physalis
+ Your options for getting rid of sex toys include throwing them away, buying from somewhere that will recycle them, sex toy swaps, repurposing them into useful household items and more:
“‘I have a small group of friends I trust and am very comfortable sharing intimate things with, and every once in a while we do a toy swap. I know it sounds like a terrible and kinda creepy idea in general, but really, if it’s sterilizable and comes from someone I trust, why not exchange that glass g-spotter that I never actually use for an awesome purple silicone dildo that doesn’t quite work for my best friend?’ posted rhiannonstone on Metafilter.”
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Totally, totally messaged my wife because she mentioned in her OKCupid profile that she had read one of my favorite books, ’tis true
I hate sexting so does that mean I’m secure in myself?
I think that’s how it works
I just assume my partners are always thinking about having sex with me. No texts necessary.
That Stoya piece is brilliant and I was super happy to see it featured here!
How I get rid of sex toys (2015 sculpture “Dildo Mountain”)
https://www.instagram.com/p/9Mfo4htWGz/
That is amazing. You are my hero.
Getting rid of sex toys. Stick them in the your up tight neighbors’ lawns in the flower gardens so the neighbors can spot them.
Do so at night.
I am happy to see India is becoming more sexual. I’ve always found it odd they were the creators of the Karma Sutra but had so much shame around sex. Maybe once the newness of it all balances then people will do it with love. PS was this an article about male and female couples in India?
Thank the British for that
Gal pals! Help! I had a nosebleed during sex with my girl (like right as I was about to cum) WHY CRUEL WORLD
Hurrah for casual sex!