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The case against toxic sex toys, keeping your friends after a break up, partners with anxiety, advice on dating apps, how to argue with a partner and more.

The sex everyone else is having revealed, when butterflies go bad, how to react to nudes, astrological compatibility, sex education as a basic human right and more.

Turn your car into a sex bed on wheels, date ideas when you only have 30 minutes, a possible herpes vaccine, sharing secrets, and more.

Who gave you herpes, how to criticize a partner, being friends with exes, women designing sex toys and more.

What makes friends with benefits actually work, drawing sex, responsive sex, don’t get married, and more.

How to grow out your pubic hair, consider the assless panty, clean your sex toys, prevent summer UTIs, learn what your astrological sign says about what you’re like to date or dump, and more.

No surprises there. Plus: how to take perfect thirst-trap selfies, nipple piercing, my mind is blown by the idea of talking to someone on the actual phone, and more.

Pay for your porn, chatbots and sex ed, organic lube is a scam, finding good casual sex, not taking rejection personally and more.

Pairing pizza and masturbation, sexting in present tense, Gang-bang porn, millennial sex, songs for your summer break up and more.

Poetry, perversion, and erotic art; how to knot a cherry stem with your tongue; avoiding a buttplug nightmare; and more.

Mostly: “Why???” Also, why waiting for a crush to text back is the worst, why going to weddings is also the worst, self-sabotage, thinking through different relationship styles and more.

Whether gaydar is a thing, a new podcast that lets you listen in on couples therapy sessions, trans performers in mainstream porn, and more.

Etsy’s “vaginal wellness” problem, why alone time is good for relationships, why being cheated on is physically bad for you, having secret orgasms at the gym and more.

Uhauling the right way (involves waiting until you’re actually ready), using a fidget spinner as a sex toy, pubic hair portraits, and more.

How to take perfect naked selfies, why people like masochism, how much sex (some) people are having, seeing the same faces on dating apps over and over and more.

The Adipositivity Project, accessing your own pleasure, how to bring up safer sex, how to get over sex-related hang-ups, new theories on oxytocin in relationships, lots of nipples, and more.

What type of love addict are you? How one woman’s disability impacted her queer dating life, popular sex toys by state, challenging fatphobia and more.

How to practice feminism in relationships, a vibrator for data nerds, some side-effects of orgasms, embracing change in long-term relationships, how to sext like the Victorians and more.