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NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is A Massive Vulva Sculpture

An enormous vulva sculpture, sex toys are totally decor, the fun impact melatonin has on sex and more.

By Carolyn Yates| January 10, 2021
Mistress Tom deFun and Blair
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Will See You On Pandemic Tinder

Consider this: Serial monogamy should be more of a red flag than gaps in your dating history. Also, pandemic Tinder is good, there’s now an app for large online orgies, why not try talking to yourself in third person? And more.

By Carolyn Yates| January 3, 2021 | 2 Comments
Beating Hart, C’est La Vie, and Cinnamon Maxxine
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Can’t Stop Talking About The Sex Content Purge

More on the impact of the Pornhub content purge, plus some of what’s going on at Instagram and Tik Tok. Also: the dream a horny post-lockdown rampage, why clit pumps are hot, your 2021 sex horoscope and more.

By Carolyn Yates| December 27, 2020 | 1 Comment
Daisy Ducati and Ella Nova
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is A Weighted Blanket Sex Dream

Having sex dreams under weighted blankets, what to do if you forget how to focus on a conversation, coconut oil is not the best lube, whether closure sex is real and more.

By Carolyn Yates| December 20, 2020 | 4 Comments
Halo the GxdBody and La Muxer Diosa
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Sunday Knows What’s Up With Pornhub

What’s happening with Pornhub? Plus, whether a huge variety of sex positions is worth it, lesbian age-gap relationship discourse, another devastating pandemic loss and more.

By Carolyn Yates| December 13, 2020 | 4 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Stands With Enby

Starting and maintaining online and long-distance relationships, the impacts of your attachment style, mourning your “almost” relationships and more.

By Carolyn Yates| December 6, 2020 | 4 Comments
Bambi Belle and Denali Winter
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is A Soft Launch

Your new favorite sex toy, how to fist a turkey, what it means to “soft launch” a relationship, when your cat won’t leave you alone during sex and more.

By Carolyn Yates| November 29, 2020 | 2 Comments
Mistress Tom deFun and Blair, about to kiss
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Wants To Lick Your Armpit

The transcendence of queer T4T sex, a thought experiment about public kink, the peak dating question of our time and more.

By Carolyn Yates| November 22, 2020 | 2 Comments
Dylan Ryan and T.Pfister
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Paying For More Porn Than Ever

Pay! For! Your! Porn! Plus, further sagas of sex with IBS, going on Grindr as a former dyke, how to masturbate when you have roommates, what even is the future of dating? And more.

By Carolyn Yates| November 15, 2020 | 3 Comments
Golden Curlz
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Mourning A Legend

Mourning Betty Dodson. Plus, what’s up with anti-sodomy laws, r/ToyControl, setting boundaries, and more.

By Carolyn Yates| November 8, 2020
Mistress Tom deFun and Blair
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Coping

How (and when) to talk about mental illness in a new relationship, how to ask to initiate sex, Instagram is updating its nudity rules. pandemic dating stories, the rise of big naturals and more.

By Carolyn Yates| November 1, 2020
Sal Marquez and Vivi Marie
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Mild And Wild

How to go to your first sex party, how to remember social skills when you’re still staying home, it’s time to retire the baseball sex analogy, why can’t bodies just orgasm on an indefinite loop? And more.

By Carolyn Yates| October 25, 2020 | 3 Comments
Beating Hart, C’est La Vie, and Cinnamon Maxxine
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Shadowbanned

Shadowbanning and censorship disproportionately impact sex workers. A new report from Hacking/Hustling on the recommendations policy makers and platforms need to implement now.

By Carolyn Yates| October 18, 2020
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Watching Porn With Partners

A new relationship compatibility test, challenges in teledildonics, I refuse to call pandemic sex “coronalingus,” and more.

By Carolyn Yates| October 11, 2020 | 1 Comment
Maggie McMuffin and Tender Furiosa
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Taking A Meditation Moment

Sometimes meditation is a euphemism for masturbation and sometimes it’s not. Also, a look inside a sex toy factor, what you need to know about NSFW subscription sites, and more

By Carolyn Yates| October 4, 2020
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Sex + Relationships

Ten Maximalist Sex Toys to Add to Your (Toy) Box

Looking for big, bright, maximalist sex toys? You’ve come to the right place.

By Carolyn Yates| September 30, 2020 | 4 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Misses The Hunt

How to open your relationship; how to make vanilla sex more interesting; what’s happening to our relationships in the pandemic and more.

By Carolyn Yates| September 27, 2020
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Talking About Asexuality

All about asexuality, comparing the best queer astrology apps, why sexual health and STI testing still matter in the pandemic, your parents’ divorce could be the reason you have a crappy love life, queer sexting can let you write your body into being and more.

By Carolyn Yates| September 20, 2020 | 2 Comments
Mistress Tom deFun and Blair, with Blair as human furniture
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Differentiating Boundaries and Walls

The key difference between boundaries and walls, whether masturbation is good for you when you’re sick, what science has to say about porn this week, and more.

By Carolyn Yates| September 13, 2020
Scout and Lew Pine lay on the paid together, one bites the other's neck.
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Is a Tall Glass of Water

Dating is hard when you’re too thirsty. Plus, pandemic non-monogamy, relationship imposter syndrome, and more.

By Carolyn Yates| September 6, 2020
Golden Curlz, kneeling on a bed
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Anxious and Polyamorous

When you’re poly and anxious, when you learn to show yourself the love you show others, the new cuffing season and more.

By Carolyn Yates| August 30, 2020 | 8 Comments
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