NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Has A Growth Mindset

The feature image of Tasha Black and all of the photographs in this NSFW Sunday are from fetish site Mondo Fetiche. The inclusion of a visual here is not an assertion of a model’s gender or orientation.

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Ashley Paige and Ava D'Amore

Ashley Paige and Ava D’Amore for Mondo Fetiche

Relationships that have a growth mindset are stronger:

“The thoughts we have are incredibly powerful, and they inform (and are informed by) our core beliefs about relationships, which act as a blueprint for how we treat each other; this blueprint in turn impacts our behavior within our relationships. Depending on these core beliefs, we might manage our feelings in a way that brings us closer to the other person or in a way that takes us further apart. When we can combine a growth mindset with strong internal and external boundaries, then we can foster possibility in our relationships while still staying grounded in the reality of what we need and deserve.”

Charlie Kicks, Stone Castle

Charlie Kicks and Stone Castle for Mondo Fetiche

Feeling irritable and frustrated lately? Try these strategies.

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“As a fat non-binary person, my path to decolonizing myself and my own relationship to my body and my identity has involved recognizing and allowing myself to feel joyful about the fact that my gender is just as large and expansive as my body is,” Jessie Nelson writes at Salty.

It’s okay to feel anxious about dating.

Amazon Maddox, Francisco St. Laurent

Amazon Maddox and Francisco St. Laurent for Mondo Fetiche

Success isn’t about commitment, it’s about recommitment:

“Success is often about recommitting. You don’t commit once and ride that one commitment to the end. Instead, life happens — you have trouble staying the course, or something comes out of nowhere and knocks you off the track. And when that happens, and you feel demoralized or humiliated, you have multiple options: You can say, ‘Well, I failed. It wasn’t meant to be,’ and stop trying. Or you can recommit to the plan you’ve set forth.”

Ashley Paige and Ava D'Amore for <a href="https://mondofetiche.com/">Mondo Fetiche</a>

Ashley Paige and Ava D’Amore for Mondo Fetiche


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Ryan Yates

Ryan Yates was the NSFW Editor (2013–2018) and Literary Editor for Autostraddle.com, with bylines in Nylon, Refinery29, The Toast, Bitch, The Daily Beast, Jezebel, and elsewhere. They live in Los Angeles and also on twitter and instagram.

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