This final “Come Vibe With Me” is full of sweet goodbyes and chill thank you’s. Also, Megan Thee Stallion meets Mean Girls, hella love for Chloe X Halle and a request for Angel Haze to stare at me forever.
When it comes to dildos, how big is too big? Also: what Venus in Pisces means for your love life, keeping an ex’s nudes, and more.
Plus, an All-American episode that gives Bre-Z some of the best work of her career, biphobia rears its ugly head once again on grown-ish, and a hilarious and spooky episode of Nancy Drew!
How TV stories have shaped our understanding of AIDS, 14 fixes for pandemic monotony, R.O. Kwon on misunderstanding kink, and the intwined histories of white supremacy and transphobia.
It’s ok not to remember everything that you read, a new fund for Black creatives, and what is it like to explore childhood horror through the lens of queer adulthood?
Oh to be a small dog accompanying Gillian Anderson, Lena Waithe thirst became we are living in a damn Paul Blart Mall Cop, and POV: You are Chef Melissa’s boo and she just came home from a long day of work.
Plus — a dash of stud slander and a reminder to always shoot your shot. Stay hydrated out there, champ.
Halle Berry grew up by practicing kissing on girls (stars, they’re just like us). Also, Megan Thee Stallion interviews Rep. Maxine Waters, more truly excellent Britney reads, and what does abortion access really look like during a pandemic?
Sometimes unexpected silence is all the sweetness you really need. Also, I’m still crushing on Arlo Parks, customized herbal care packages for Black folks, and find out what happens when Tilda Swinton is the link to one hell of a meet-cute.
What “kink” means, lies about kissing, vaccinating sex workers, how transparent dating app policies are (not very) and more.
Plus updates on Nancy Drew and Legacies!
The queer art for divorce, advice on cohabiting with your girlfriend for the first time (should you split the rent?), the librarian war against QAnon, Carmen Maria Machado on Phoebe Bridgers, and more going into your weekend!
We’re still not over new moms Ashlyn Harris and Ali Krieger, Trace Lysette will have you listening to Purple Rain, and Niecy Nash’s new gay love energy is so powerful she had FOUR Valentine’s Day posts.
I have decided to move to Paris to find me a wife with an accent and acrylics. If that doesn’t work, I’ll stay here and try to continue dodging entanglements. Also — FEMME FOR FEMME LOVE AND BOOTY GRABS FOR YOUR MIDWEEK SLUMP!
You’re probably doing your pandemic pod all wrong, dispatches from the California stripper strike, wait what is going on with Cara Delevingne and Jaden Smith? And photography of lesbian joy from the 1970s that will warm your heart right in the middle of a cold February.
I’m not letting Imposter Syndrome knock me from celebrating my good news. Also, let’s talk about how cute Kaash Paige is, celebrate Megan Thee Stallion being a beautiful babe and demand more movies shows us Black girls kissing.
Some Valentine’s suggestions if you’re into that kind of thing; the many ways to be kinky; the many ways to be probably in love with your best friend; publish more queer erotica and more.
Plus updates on Legacies and All American!
Excellent reads from noted queer authors Kristen Arnett and Leah Johnson, grown up love stories that are certain to make you cry before Valentine’s Day (one starring Roxane Gay and Debbie Millman) — and more to wrap up the week.
Semicolons are the best; so is having a nemesis; remembering gay bars; “the continual project of reckoning with ourselves”; and more.
This photo of Trace Lysette will get you right, thrilling Amandla Stenberg content, Gottmik in that LBD — oh and a very cute clingy cat hanging off Amber Hikes because yes you’re gay.