How to muff, why not to sleep in the same bed as a partner, why to talk to strangers, whether friendly-feeling BDSM is the same BDSM as ever and more.
Decriminalize sex work. Plus, dating through Facebook, why vaginal wellness is a scam, what happens in sex therapy and more.
Kristen Stewart is going to keep holding her girlfriend’s hand in public thank you very much, we’re getting one more season of Grace and Frankie, Indya Moore will hunt monsters with Draco Malfoy, How Lizzo Does That, Holland Taylor’s coming to Netflix, and more!
Also, Evan Rachel Wood sports some awfully suspicious bruises and Jasika Nicole inspires us all.
Dating as a queer single mom, setting adult performers’ doxxed info literally on fire, weird rules around saying the word “vagina” in advertising and more.
Why likability is a lie, a new edition of Colonize This!, the publisher reissuing queer genre fiction from the 60s to 90s, abandoning books and more.
Living apart together, having kids when you’re poly, when PMS and anxiety ask you for a threesome and more.
Silently reading en masse, language and citizenship, writers remembering Toni Morrison and more.
Why D/s is not abuse, astrological compatibility is a scam, it’s hard to find casual queer sex in rural places and more.
Don’t steam vaginas. Plus: porn keywords, how sex scenes work, supporting sex workers instead of appropriating their aesthetics and more.
Instagram and Facebook etc. are failing sex workers by shadowbanning their content. Plus: what to do if you can’t orgasm, what love bombing is, misunderstanding herpes and more.
There are a lot of fun sex patents out there I don’t know what to tell you. Plus, pubic hair oil, dating friends or absolutely not dating friends, Mars and sexuality and more.
Ask for what you want in order to get it, Area 51 porn searches, your astrological sign’s best breakup strategy and more.
YA trans literature, a new national Canadian literature by women, how to evaluate what you see and hear and more.
Also the latest in Kristen Stewart’s romantic misadventures, plus a truly winning smile from Hayley Kiyoko.
How to have queer sex with a trans woman as a cis woman who hasn’t before, how to give feedback during sex, BDSM and sex work as tools of resistance and more.
And an update on Ackley Bridge!
Sloppy exits, queer porn director Shine Louise Houston on why porn is just another genre, the secret level of KonMari IS people, and more.
Feeling like a stranger in your body, on M.F.K. Fisher and joy in eating and writing, beach reads and more.
How shadow bans harm sex workers, the deal with latex, kissing games that aren’t just spin the bottle and more.