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A Poem: kiss, kiss, bang, bang

This is a poem about kissing.

gabby April 28, 2012 25 Comments
First Person Issues

Five Small Contributions: On Being A Queer Person of Color

We wanted to sit down and share stories with you around this virtual campfire to somehow express one little piece of what it means to be queer and a person of color in this crazy, crazy world.

Brittani April 28, 2012 79 Comments
First Person Issues

On Camp: Confessions Of A Very Unhappy Camper

Activities include eating mystery meat, re-enacting the holocaust, performing 15-minute Shakespeare adaptations on a cart, writing in my diary, and crying. Mostly crying.

Riese April 17, 2012 58 Comments
First Person Issues

On Camp: Girl Scout Camp – Freedom, Feminism and Hobo Pies

“My awkwardness should have followed me along to Girl Scout camp, but somehow I managed to shed most of it in the 40 miles between the city and that patch of unremarkable forest.”

Daphne April 13, 2012 31 Comments
First Person Issues

On Camp: Being Queer Wasn’t a Big Deal, My Privilege Was

“I don’t remember the names of most of the people I met that week. Except for his: Tuck.”

Dina April 12, 2012 34 Comments
First Person Issues

On Camp: I Hold Camp In My Heart

“I would’ve cried if someone hadn’t started singing, and then someone else joined in.”

Robin April 11, 2012 28 Comments
First Person Issues

Here/Queer: Two Years as a Lesbian Expat in South Korea

“Within the violence of invisibility there was also a sense of liberation and expansiveness, like we could just make everything up as we go along.”

Hallie April 5, 2012 90 Comments
First Person Issues

Queer Harlem: From LGBT Icons of the Harlem Renaissance to Invisible Me

Even when someone doesn’t know the range of the artistic revolution that was the Harlem Renaissance, they know the name. They know writers like Claude Mckay or singers like Ethel Waters but they may not know them as Queer Black Americans. Why is this?

Cairo Amani April 4, 2012 39 Comments
First Person Issues

Going Mad in New York City

“I feel like yelling at people,” she told me. I didn’t really grasp then that she meant that. This was the very first time. This was the day after Easter.

Riese March 30, 2012 60 Comments
First Person Issues

Here/Queer: Ann Arbor, My Bubble and Native Land

I was so lucky to grow up in Ann Arbor, but now I’m afraid I’ll never leave.

marebear March 30, 2012 32 Comments
Breakups First Person

How To Leave Your Husband (Because You’re a Lesbian)

Once upon a time I married a man, had kids, and realized I was a lesbian. Here’s what happened and what I wish somebody had told me at the time.

Laneia March 29, 2012 409 Comments
First Person Issues

Everything Happens Elsewhere: Northern Ireland in the Nineties

“Things seemed so big out there and we were just waiting for life to begin properly. I felt electric with anticipation.”

Nine March 28, 2012 40 Comments
First Person

My First Christmas As A Man In Kansas

A story of an almost implausibly perfect Christmas with extended family who hadn’t seen me since I transitioned.

Sebastian February 5, 2012 81 Comments
First Person

Texas Is Not the Only State: Confessions of a Lesbian Exile in New York

“I kept MapQuest directions to Albuquerque in the glove compartment of my car, just in case I needed to run away. When I graduated, I moved to upstate New York for college.”

Lemon November 16, 2011 86 Comments
First Person Music

My Life In Concerts, Or How I Realised I Loved Women With Guitars

“Did I mention that I saw Kylie, the Queen of the Gays, perform as a child? What chance did I have?”

Tully September 15, 2011 39 Comments
First Person Travel

60 Days in China: Where Everywhere Else Seemed Upside Down

“China is beautiful because it’s not like anything you’ve ever known before. There is nothing that reminds you of home, and when you get home, everything will remind you of China.”

Emily August 10, 2011 60 Comments
First Person

Confessions of a Post-Teenage Runagay: The Future Freaks Me Out

“While this freedom isn’t quite as sweet and lush (nor is it as free as I imagined), I don’t mind paying for my independence. For, me it’s still worth it.”

phoenix July 22, 2011 51 Comments
First Person

The Sordid Lives of Lesbian Twins

“When I was a Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtle for Halloween, she was a princess.”

Lindsay July 8, 2011 78 Comments
First Person

For Femmes Of Colour Who Rose Too Early & Set Too Soon

“It is possible to protest misogyny with my legs spread wide open and I am going to just that.”

bklyn boihood June 21, 2011 41 Comments
First Person

Listling Without Commentary: Rejected Liveblog Topics From My Personal Life

“A conversation I had in line at the post office about sex toys, which were in the opened-by-customs package I was picking up, and the reaction of the nice lady who handed it/them to me.”

Ryan Yates June 1, 2011 35 Comments
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