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Gina Marks fighting
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Wicked Florida Dreams: Queer Defenses From Within a Red Swamp

Over and over again, we practice evasion. Ducking. Blocking. Parrying. Weaving. Running.

Gina Paris Ellis Marks December 9, 2025 4 Comments
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First Person

Why I Got a Tattoo That Says ‘Stupid Slut’

I find it impossible to know what a tattoo will mean for me until I’ve lived with it in my skin.

Summer Tao December 2, 2025 6 Comments
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First Person

Confessions of a Teenage Twihard

I don’t know when, exactly, I discovered Fanfiction Dot Net, just that when I did, my life changed, opened up, cracked open.

Autumn Fourkiller November 27, 2025 3 Comments
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First Person

The Other Frances

I have no delusions that my grandparents would have understood or condoned my transness, but in the wake of their deaths, I found myself longing for their patient non-judgement.

Frances James Dinger November 27, 2025 1 Comment
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Christmas First Person Movie Features

Why I Rewatch ‘The Family Stone’ Every Year

The Family Stone is many queer folks’ first introduction to warm, unconditional familial love.

Reed November 26, 2025 3 Comments
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A Comprehensive Guide to Starting Over After a Breakup

You remember love is still present in your life.

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I hadn’t thought my Halloweekend queer turmoil in a long while. Overcompensating’s Halloweekend episode “Scary Monsters and Nice Sprites” brought me crashing back to it.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya November 1, 2025 1 Comment
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I Want To Get in Your Car: Hitchhiking and ‘Texas Chainsaw Massacre’

I’ve hitchhiked twice, and neither time was with a driver I would describe as particularly normal.

Wanda Noonan October 31, 2025 1 Comment
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First Person

Are Athletes Okay?

On ‘The Triplets of Belleville’ and the horror of a training regimen.

Wanda Noonan October 21, 2025 3 Comments
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First Person

How I Learned To Touch Again After Trauma

I thought I had to choose between being a survivor and being sensual.

Titeänyä Rodríguez October 17, 2025 9 Comments
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I Was Rejected at a Barn Dance. Just Like My Ancestors (Probably)

I’d met a woman at the last barn dance.

Nico October 16, 2025 11 Comments
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First Person Movie Features

I’ve Been Into the Further and Back

In Insidious, both father and eldest son possess the ability to project their consciousness elsewhere. The father does not remember this. Is it a gift if you want to forget it ever existed?

Autumn Fourkiller October 15, 2025 6 Comments
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First Person TV Feature

Robin Wright as a Ruthless Monster-in-Law in ‘The Girlfriend’ Gave Me Flashbacks

Did this miniseries steal from my memories?

Nico October 10, 2025 2 Comments
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HORROR IS SO G4Y: Letter From the Editor

What’s your favorite scary movie?

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The Answer To My Pain Was Pain

I have no casual interests, only obsessions.

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First Person

Fall Is Always a Time for New Beginning

When it comes to decorating, my wife and I are polar opposites.

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Twenty-Five Years Later, Michelle Tea’s ‘Valencia’ Remains Stunning Portrait of Lesbian Life

Valencia permitted me to romanticize my world.

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I Was Outed as Trans at Work

When I transitioned and changed my name, I went through all of my accounts and switched them to my new name. Banks and airlines were shockingly no problem. TSA precheck and Social Security just required another in-person meeting. It was the most random places that made it hard.

Gabe Dunn August 28, 2025 5 Comments
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First Person

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