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Gender Relationships

Trans Love in Pandemic Times

Love without a blueprint leaves room for unknown possibilities. I spoke to seven trans people about how the pandemic has changed their relationships and how trans love has changed their lives.

xoai pham July 31, 2020 13 Comments
Two very sad lesbians laying in their literal bed while contemplating lesbian bed death.
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: I’ve Got a Joke About Lesbian Bed Death, and It Kills

Therapists on if Lesbian Bed Death is a real thing. Also: 1-in-4 LGBT people under 24 use non-binary pronouns, the horror and humor of Shirley Jackson, and if you do one thing today, please read John Lewis’ final words.

Carmen Phillips July 30, 2020 9 Comments
a double photo of a long-haired femme from behind, showing off her buttcheeks in a thong-backed body suit and the sides of her cheeks
First Person Sex

14 Knuckles: Can Two Switches Have Sex?

Can two switches have sex? I think so, and I think there is something beautifully different about having sex with someone with whom sexual options are truly abundant.

Mat July 30, 2020 12 Comments
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AF+ Breakups

You Oughta Know: The Letters to Our Exes We Won’t Send

But we will show you!

the team July 30, 2020 22 Comments
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Literature

Lez Liberty Lit: Running on Queer Time

What do we do with unthinkable thoughts in the time of covid? Plus: how crime fiction enables police brutality, zines and self-discovery, celebrating the Clueless anniversary, every book you’ll want to read for the next five months and more.

Ryan Yates July 30, 2020 4 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Sarah Paulson and Ryan Murphy’s New Show Looks Horrifically Bananas

Nafessa Williams pens an essay on Hollywood’s inequality problems, Megan Rapinoe in Rolling Stone, A DERRY GIRLS MOVIE, seven iconic Black sitcoms are coming to Netflix, and more!

Heather Hogan July 29, 2020 5 Comments
Cartoon of the artist, Dickens, discussing Black Lives Matter with two white strangers. The first white stranger makes a joke that the Black t-shirt she's wearing with Black Lives Matter on it is "so slimming" the second stranger erroneously compares statistics of white vs. Black victims of police brutality.
Webcomics

Foolish Child #77: Black Lives Matter Isn’t a Trend

What’s the point in arguing with a world that will always devalue Black skin?

Dickens July 29, 2020 9 Comments
Photograph of the author, Mel Perez, by Feature image by Niko of The Sleepy Muse
TV Feature

With Javicia Leslie’s Batwoman, My Favorite Character Is Finally Being Played by Someone Who Looks Like Me

“Like many people of color and queer people, I’ve found ways to relate to a character that is nothing like me. As a poor, fat, Black queer woman I had seemingly nothing in common with a rich orphaned straight white man.”

Mel Perez July 29, 2020 14 Comments
TV Reviews

Queer British Teen Dramedy “In My Skin” Hits Hard on Class and Mental Illness, Misses on Race

Ultimately Kayleigh Llewellyn’s show proves that writing from a place of lived experience will always result in the sharpest stories — that’s as evident in its failures as it is in its successes.

Drew Burnett Gregory July 29, 2020 8 Comments
Black and white photo of model in her room in Queens, NY. Image by Mariette Pathy Allen.
Visual Art

The Illuminations Grant Offers New Possibilities for Black Trans Women Artists

The Illuminations Grant is a testament to what can happen when cultural producers invest their energy not just in the documentation of trans people, but also in creative solutions for their lives and careers.

Serena Jara July 29, 2020 1 Comment
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Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Hayley Kiyoko in Taylor Swift “cardigan” Cosplay

Sara Ramirez is here to quench our collective thirst, Melissa King’s jawline remains undefeated, and Stacy London rocks an aspirational bold look!

Christina Tucker July 29, 2020 6 Comments
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Megan Rapinoe and AOC Joining Forces to Fire Up Your Dreams, Definitely Save America

Megan Rapinoe and AOC team up for a talk show you’ll absolutely want to watch! Plus, some gorgeous portraits of LGBT+ people over 50, the WNBA makes sure #SayHerName includes trans women, and what the hell does a Latinx show have to do to get an Emmy nomination, please!

Carmen Phillips July 28, 2020 4 Comments
Collage of Pose Executive Producer Janet Mock, Pose actor Indya Moore, Pose actress Mj Rodriguez, and Pose actress Angelica Ross
TV News & Trailers

The Category Is “Shut Out of the 2020 Emmys” and the Winner Is Pose, the Reason Is Transphobia

The Emmy nominations are out and this year, there are 11 nominated lesbian, bisexual, queer or trans actresses being honored for their work! There’s 15 nominations going to LGBT women’s roles on screen. With so much to celebrate, it also hurts to once again see the trans cast and crew of Pose face yet another shut out.

Carmen Phillips July 28, 2020 13 Comments
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10 Royally Powerful Sex Toys for Leo Season and Beyond

It’s been a long year, and by “year” I mean “six months” but also “decade.” You deserve some big pleasure, something you can count on to make you feel good — really, really good. That’s why we’ve picked out some of the best-in-class powerhouse products from Eve’s

Rachel July 28, 2020 4 Comments
TV Lists

My Top 10 Television Characters: Natalie, Who’s a Sucker For a Good Character Arc

I’m not sure what it says about me — or, more precisely perhaps, what it says about television — that this list isn’t full of characters that feel like representations of me or the people that I’m drawn to in real life.

Natalie July 28, 2020 3 Comments
Breakups Relationships

You Need Help: Is It Normal To Be Happy In a Relationship and Still Think About an Ex?

Time won’t necessarily “fix” it, but the more distance you have from the relationship and the more time you invest in healthy coping mechanisms, the less destabilizing these thoughts will feel.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya July 28, 2020 14 Comments
TV Show Recaps

“Wynonna Earp” Episode 401 Recap: Angel In Chains

After a two-year hiatus, Wynonna Earp is FINALLY BACK! And everyone is fighting like hell to get back to one another, with the help of old and new friends along the way.

Valerie Anne July 27, 2020 23 Comments
TV Feature

The Straight TV Couples That Helped Me Realize I’m Gay

Growing up in fandom, I gathered a long list of straight fictional ships without realizing until much later that I had been projecting myself onto the male half of those ships.

Renee Nuevo July 27, 2020 24 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: “Blindspot” Teases a Patterson and Zapata Wedding in the Series Finale

Adventure Time: Distant Lands will escalate Marceline and PB’s relationship, Lena Waithe on humanizing Black people on screen, why aren’t big studios interested in LGBTQ rom-coms, putting Black icons on magazine covers isn’t enough, and more.

Heather Hogan July 27, 2020 4 Comments
A collage of Audre Lorde, who is canoeing, and the author of the column, who is resting in a hammock during the summer.
Book Features

Year of Our (Audre) Lorde: July Is a Black Unicorn

I’m still angry. Breonna Taylor’s murderers still walk free. Let’s be real, they’re probably running around without masks. Audre Lorde’s sense of restlessness and barely concealed fury are evident. But so, too, is her unwavering belief in our magic.

Jehan July 27, 2020 4 Comments
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