You Need Help: Should I Tell My New Date I Used To Follow Her on Tumblr?
I think that this probably happens to people a lot more than you’d think.
When There Simply Isn’t a Face for You to Sit On, the Ora 3 Will Definitely Do
The default speed of the Ora 3 is similar to receiving extremely confident oral sex from someone who knows they’ll get you there eventually and isn’t in any hurry to make it happen.
So You Want To Go to a Wedding
I present to you some items that might inspire you, should you be invited to a wedding or similar dress-up event and you are sick of reaching for the same two or three things.
“Wait, Is This a Date?” Season Two FINALE: Long Distance Crushes with Elise Bauman
Dearly beloved, we are gathered here today to get through this thing called… a season finale! And to celebrate that ending, who better to come on and discuss the joys and successes of a long distance crush, than actor and queer person Elise Bauman?
You Need Help: How Do I Ask My Couple Friends To Hang Out With Me One-on-One?
Wanting to hang out with your friends separately as individuals rather than as couples is a perfectly reasonable request.
The Gay B C’s of Sex: P Is for Power Bottom
Perhaps the power bottom is in the eye of the be(hole)der.
“Wait, Is This a Date?” Podcast Episode 209: Bottoming with Chingy
Let’s make some noise for the bottoms in the house! (It’s me, the bottom in the house.)
You Need Help: I Can’t Get My Exes Out of My Head
We don’t need to be friends with our exes. One more time for emphasis. We don’t need to be friends with our exes.
“Wait, Is This a Date?” Podcast Episode 208: When Your Friends Don’t Like Your Partner
Bringing someone home to meet your parents is such a trope it’s become an entire genre of movie. But for many queer people there are two families to introduce to a partner: given and chosen. And sometimes the chosen family is scarier.
You Need Help: Do I Owe a Girl From My Past an Apology in the Present?
Treat people better than you did in your early twenties, and eventually you’ll realize that you have nothing to feel guilty about anymore.
“Wait, Is This a Date?” Podcast Special Episode: Mailbag Minisode #1
From how to have a first lesbian experience to how to be horny and demisexual! If you’re thinking hmm these queers seem to know what they’re talking about then go ahead and send in your own question!
You Need Help: Is Substance Use a Dealbreaker?
As someone who’s dealt with substance issues, my friends and my therapist told me to cut and run, so I did. And now I regret it.
The WaterSlyde Aquatic Stimulator Will Never, Ever Compare to My First Love — a Pool Jet
The water was carried a distance away from the faucet, yes, but that distance was…absolutely nowhere near my vulva.
“Wait, Is This a Date?” Podcast Episode 207: Hygiene
Ah, bodies. These sacks of meat, bones and skin that we must drag around until we come up with a better way to get through this thing called life. We knew we needed to dig into this and who better to do it with than the one and only Samantha Irby?
The Gay B C’s of Sex: L Is for Lesbian Bed Death
Why did the term “lesbian bed death” stick around in the queer imagination? Well, it’s catchy. And it’s scary!
8 Clit-Stimulating Sex Toys That Don’t Actually Look Like Sex Toys
Do you need a sex toy that looks like a starfish, a seashell or a duck? Browse this list and get inspired.
“Wait, Is This a Date?” Podcast Episode 206: Celebrity Crushes
Celebrity crushes mean more to queer people than they do to straight people. They can be our first expressions of queer desire or our first expressions of gender envy. They can be a safe place to try out urges that aren’t ready for the real world.
You Need Help: I Could Love Them, But They’re Leaving
Sometimes, someone comes along who starts to remind us what we want, what we deserve, just how sweet love can be, without being the person who has space to give those things to us long-term.
“Wait, Is This a Date?” Podcast Episode 205: Public Relationships
This week we’ve brought on someone in a gaymous power couple: Grace Lavery! But being in a public relationship isn’t just the joys of ambitious4ambitious. There’s also the matter of boundaries and privacy.
“Wait, Is This a Date?” Podcast Episode 204: Partner’s Pets
Animals, like people, have their own personalities and should be taken on a case-by-case basis. (AKA wherein Drew bravely says that snakes are maybe a bit sexy thanks to a certain pop star.)