5 Lube Dispensers for Your Next Queer Hookup — Because Presentation Is Everything
If you want to look extra put-together, it’s time to upgrade your lube dispenser.
You Need Help: Am I Being Unreasonable for Feeling Undesired by My Girlfriend?
I think the topic of Asian desire doesn’t get nuanced attention often enough.
7 Signs It’s Time for Couples Therapy, According to a Queer Relationship Therapist
You don’t have to wait for an extreme problem to seek out couples therapy.
Try These Exercises for Better Strap-On Sex
It’s pride month! Let’s get jacked for our favorite sex act with exercises for strap-on sex!
You Need Help: How Can I Make Long Distance More Bearable?
Long distance will always be challenging; here are the ways you can strengthen the way you navigate those challenges.
You Need Help: How Do I Convince My Girlfriend That I Care?
It sounds like she’s looking for something you just can’t give her, and that’s okay. Your life is very full at the moment. It’s not too full for the right relationship, but it may be too full for THIS relationship.
How to Have Sex With a Transmasculine Partner
Transmasc people have our own unique desires and boundaries in bed, just like everyone else.
The Vesper Is a Vibrator Doubling as a Necklace Doubling as the Wingman I Didn’t Know I Needed
The whole vibrator-as-necklace thing might seem gimmicky, but the Vesper genuinely looks like a decent piece of androgynous jewelry.
You Need Help: I’m Uncertain About Wanting Kids, So Should I Only Date People Who Are Uncertain Too?
I’ve changed my mind about wanting kids throughout life, and that’s okay.
7 Sex Toys for Fat, Queer Sex and Masturbation
As fat folks, we have to get creative in the bedroom. Fortunately, there are plenty of toys that can help you have your best fat, queer sex with yourself or with a partner.
You Need Help: How Can I Plan for a Bad Breakup?
A breakup is a huge loss, and sometimes that doesn’t even just mean losing a person but other parts of your life, too.
You Need Help: Should I Ask My Friend on a Date Even if I Think She’ll Say No?
I’m reading Michelle Elman’s book “The Selfish Romantic” and she talks about how we can never really know unless we ask. And I feel like this is low enough risk that I may as well ask?
How to Masturbate When You’re Sexually Repressed
Here’s how to masturbate when shame is getting in your way.
The Roslyn Bodysuit Harness and the B.Cush Made Me Feel Hot and Horny
I took the advice of wise strappers before me and wore the harness and b.cush around the house for a while.
Dykes on Dates: A Chill, Food-Filled Day on the Upper West Side
If you’ve never been to the American Museum of Natural History before, let me tell you about the whale.
You Need Help: Should I Invite My Friends’ Whole Polycule to My Wedding?
You can invite or not invite whoever you want to your wedding.
Meet the Proud Pervs Behind Bedroom Besties, a New Gender-Inclusive Sex Toy Company
Bedroom Besties saw a gap in sex toy marketing. “We realized we could fill that hole — pun fully intended.”
Blush and Bashful: How To Plan a Lesbian Wedding Ceremony
Somewhere in between thrifting 50 floral print hankies and meeting with the queer chef who is catering my wedding, I realized that I had to actually… figure out what I wanted my wedding ceremony to look like.
Shibari 101: Single- and Double-Column Ties
Single-column and double-column ties are the foundation for more complicated shibari ties, and they’re also fun on their own! Here’s how to get started.
Let It All Out: The Technique Helping Me Get Through My First Queer Breakup
I am one month post-breakup. My first queer breakup. Floating in the abyss of mutual no contact.