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Sex

29 Pictures Of Lesbian Sex According To Stock Photography

Dressing up like nuns, tying our t-shirts together, braiding each other’s hair, making omelettes, wearing hats, wearing leg-warmers upside-down — the lesbian sex photography fun NEVER ENDS!

Riese February 2, 2024 4 Comments
Lesbian Weddings

Help Me Find a Hot Plus Size Queer Outfit for a Gay Wedding

As a plus sized baddie on a budget, I’ve listed these gay wedding outfit options from least expensive to most expensive. It’s hard to be gay and look cool and not be broke!

Em Win January 30, 2024 8 Comments
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Friendship

You Need Help: I’m Too ‘Old’ for This New Generation of Queers

I’m so sorry the people you’re around have made you feel unwelcome because you don’t follow their narrow definition of what being a queer woman looks like.

Sa'iyda Shabazz January 30, 2024 15 Comments
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Relationships

You Need Help: What If You Never Want To Move In Together?

“I asked her if there’s a world in which we always live separately but still spend most nights together, and she didn’t say no but she also said she was having a hard time imagining it.”

Riese January 23, 2024 10 Comments
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Relationships

Forget New Relationship Energy, Embrace Stable Relationship Energy

Rather than striving for New Relationship Energy within a relationship that isn’t new, why don’t we embrace Stable Relationship Energy?

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya January 19, 2024 5 Comments
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Lesbian Weddings

How To Make the Website for Your Lesbian Wedding

I put the date on my website homepage no less than three times because apparently GAYS CAN’T READ.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya January 18, 2024 9 Comments
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Breakups

You Need Help: I Was in a Relationship With Someone Who Didn’t Like Me

Does anybody have experience feeling angry with a person after the break up and the anger kind of growing?

Em Win January 16, 2024 2 Comments
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Relationships

Asking My Fiancée Questions I Don’t Know the Answers to a Month Before Our Wedding

“Have you ever called someone the wrong name during sex?”

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya January 10, 2024 13 Comments
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Lesbian Weddings

How To Set the Dress Code for Your Queer Wedding

We’re queering dress codes!

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya January 8, 2024 23 Comments
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Breakups

We Asked a Bunch of Queer People To Share Their Go-To Breakup Coping Mechanisms

“Applying to jobs in Antarctica. Not joking.”

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya January 5, 2024 6 Comments
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Sex

Things I Do To Feel Submissive Even Though My Partner Isn’t Super Dominant

There’s room for ‘incompatibilities’ if we find mutually supportive ways to manage them.

Summer Tao January 4, 2024 5 Comments
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Breakups

You Need Help: I’m Not Sure I Want To Be Friends With My Ex

Sometimes the hardest thing to do is to lean into your gut feeling.

Em Win January 2, 2024 6 Comments
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Dating

How To Support a Sex Partner With an Eating Disorder

I now have three years of recovery and a wonderful girlfriend by my side. I think I’m ready to talk about ways we can support our partners who have eating disorders.

Summer Tao December 28, 2023 3 Comments
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Sex

I’m a Trans Woman, and This Is What’s in My Sex Bag

I have the profound misfortune of being a germaphobe who is very into anal sex.

Summer Tao December 26, 2023 5 Comments
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Dating Pets & Animals

You Need Help: Wanting To Move In Together but Unsure About Sharing Bed With Dog

“My girlfriend has a super sweet lab mix who I love dearly, but I’m very new to the concept of sleeping with a dog in the bed. I thought they made dog beds for this exact reason?!”

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya December 19, 2023 7 Comments
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Breakups

Untethered: Ghosts of Friendships Past

I’m, famously, not a stranger to mixing ghosts and all things horror in with the holidays.

Nico December 14, 2023 3 Comments
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Breakups First Person

The Unexpected Loneliness of Getting Divorced

I wondered if my friends were afraid that the honesty it takes to face that a relationship needs to end might be contagious. If they stood too close to me, they might realize they wanted to take a closer look in that mirror too.

Jálynn Castleman December 14, 2023 13 Comments
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Dating Holigays

10 Budget Friendly Holigay Dates

We can’t all vacation to a ski chalet to drink hot cocoa and enter their gingerbread house contest for a weekend! Here are some cheaper alternatives to capture some romantic holiday magic.

Em Win December 13, 2023 3 Comments
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Dating

A Trans Guy’s Guide to Grindr

You don’t have to preemptively feel shame about your body parts. Do you know how many cis gay men hate their bodies? Why do you think Equinox exists?

Gabe Dunn December 6, 2023 30 Comments
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Pets & Animals Relationships

You Need Help: How Do I Make Myself Like My Girlfriend’s Cat?

You already did things right by talking about this before moving in together. Now it’s time to talk some more.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya December 5, 2023 23 Comments
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