Untethered: On Miss Havisham-Style Decision-Making
My ex and I worked out a separation agreement over the course of those months and signed it in August.
You Need Help: How Do I Overcome the Feeling I’ll Never Find Someone After a Breakup?
I think we all need to shift away from the idea that the sole definition of a successful relationship is one that lasts forever.
What Does It Mean to Be a “Bottom” or “Submissive” in Lesbian Sex?
What does it mean when to identify as a “bottom” or a “submissive” in queer sex? I come armed with data and some very vague answers.
Remembering Deborah Sundahl, Lesbian Porn Pioneer
Two months ago, we lost Deborah Sundahl — a fierce, compassionate, and prolific queer elder.
You Need Help: My Partner and I Aren’t Having Sex — How Can I Still Foster Intimacy?
Sometimes in long-term relationships, our needs shift and/or our capacity to fulfill someone’s needs shift.
Rules for Being the Gay in the Wedding Party
I’ve been that one single, queer friend in the bridal party countless times.
Going With the Flow: Red Flag or Hottest Quality?
Please just say how you feel!!!!
You Need Help: Am I Her Best Friend or Am I Being Emotionally Manipulated?
It’s possible your needs and views when it comes to intimacy are incompatible.
Endometriosis No Longer Keeps Me From My Best Queer Sex
For the first time I was able to experience, without pain, the feeling of having my partner’s fingers inside of me and we found a new level of intimacy and excitement… How did I spend an entire decade of my life letting the medical system tell me that constant pelvic pain was acceptable?
Untethered: In Pittsburgh Everyone Knows Everyone and I’m Sure I Do Too
But face-blindess is a bitch.
You Need Help: I’m Afraid of Feeling Like Less of a Trans Man for Not Dating Men
Cool people who will appreciate you as a whole person exist, and I believe you can find them.
You Need Help: When Is the Right Time To Talk About Being Exclusive in a Relationship?
And do I have to have the conversation in person when we’re long distance?
Service Tops, Bratty Bottoms and Pillow Princesses: Other Words You Use to Describe How You Have Sex
We’ve been talking about tops, bottoms and switches for a few weeks and today we’re doing a little glossary of the other words you use to describe how you have sex!
18 Really F*cking Cute and Gay True Stories About How You Met Your Partner
“In 2021, our parents ran into each other at Lowe’s and were basically like “Hey, my kid’s gay and mentally ill too!”
13 Reasons Women In Lesbian Relationships Aren’t Having (More) Sex
“Lesbian bed death” does happen, and many lesbians feel they’re not having enough sex. But it doesn’t happen for the reasons you think it does, and it’s not necessarily the problem you think it is.
You Need Help: I Miss the Social Intimacy of Church
How can I build meaningful and lasting friendships?
Untethered: After a Breakup, Spinning Out of Control (Literally)
For the first few days of the breakup, I was in shock. I hadn’t expected it, had watched myself from outside myself. Still, it was done.
Eight Things I’ve Learned While Dating at 28
I could not have taken on the past year of dating without my best friends.
You Need Help: Should I Go No Contact With My Ex?
Exes don’t HAVE to be friends but also don’t HAVE to be enemies.
5 Lube Dispensers for Your Next Queer Hookup — Because Presentation Is Everything
If you want to look extra put-together, it’s time to upgrade your lube dispenser.