You Need Help: You Fat-Shamed Your Beautiful Girlfriend
If your girlfriend wrote into this column with this story, I would tell her she should break up with you.
If your girlfriend wrote into this column with this story, I would tell her she should break up with you.
Living with chronic pain has taught me how to help myself and others achieve pleasure using accessible sex toys.
As a culture, we spend a lot of time talking about all of the ways that dating can suck; it becomes easy to forget how fun it can actually be!
Slick back your hair and cuff those sleeves — we’re heading back to the 1940s and ’50s.
I want you to start 2023 feeling like your own number-one pick. That way, when the right person comes along, you’ll be ready and confident to be her number-one pick, too.
2. I’m in not infrequent contact with a woman named Daphne who is renting me a Fancy Portable Toilet Trailer with air conditioning.
How can I grieve this and move on? I assumed it would just happen with time but a lot of time has passed and I’m still stuck.
My understanding of my queerness has evolved significantly since the first lesbian brides appeared on Say Yes to the Dress.
I love that this toy feels like a sleek, adult upgrade of my first vibrator.
We live in a world that doesn’t value people of color or women over thirty, so I understand why you feel like this. But you are lovable.
Have you ever heard of a Bridal Expo? I sure hadn’t! And did you know there are wedding-themed porta potties?!
There will come a time when you see someone at the grocery store or in class and think “oh wow, they’re cute!” And then you’ll know: the hard work has paid off.
I want to be treasured for my many wonderful qualities beneath the surface and held proudly by the person who chooses to date me.
Put on your lesbian hard hats — we’re about to enter dangerous territory.
I have behaviors I notice that spill into my relationship that stem from personal issues. I want to be a better person to myself, and my partner. I want to feel like my cup is full as I am, and then be able to use that to help fill our cup.
Because of the Iroha Plus Tori’s ambiguous shape, I wasn’t immediately clear on how to use it.
I want to try to hold space here for both: for your (and my, really) pain and for the possibility that you may not feel this way forever.
Your feelings are deeply understandable, even though your partner isn’t doing anything wrong. If you haven’t already, it’s time to seek trauma therapy.
When I eventually had one of the best orgasms of my life, I felt like something inside me had been rearranged.
I wish my doctor had mentioned the relationship between stress and chronic yeast infections.