Dykes on Dates: Tender Pork Tacos That Are Too Good To Be True
There’s probably a joke in here about being a bottom, but genuinely a lot of my favorite date night dinners involve, well, toppings.
Blush and Bashful: How To Save Money on Your Lesbian Wedding
There is no right or wrong way to host a wedding — but when you’re thinking about how to save money at your gay wedding, it’s a good idea to get really clear on what is and isn’t important to you, so you can spend and save accordingly.
10 Hot Things You Can Do to Boobs, Chests, and Nipples
It’s spring! Tits the season for appreciating boobs, chests, and nipples — so let’s do some chestploration and nipple stimulation!
You Need Help: Can I Date While Living With My Homophobic Parents?
Dating can be amazing and wonderful. But if you currently rely on homophobic parents for material support, it may be time to focus on planning the next stage of your life — one where you are less dependent on your parents, and have the space to fully be yourself.
Dykes on Dates: Here’s a Picnic Menu That Feels Fancy but Is Cheap and Easy
In which I forget a crucial part of our picnic at home but we still have a lovely time anyway.
You Need Help: My Partner Won’t Say “I Love You”
Is it silly to be hung up on this?
Thank You, Ex: For the Baseball Jersey I Wore Constantly as a Baby Gay
Not everyone was surprised when I came out as a lesbian, but a few people were. Most notably: my boyfriend at the time.
Blush and Bashful: Why Am I So Stressed About a Wedding Hashtag?
I learned some weird things about wedding hashtags while fixating on this.
You Need Help: On Dating During a Health Scare
I am sending you and your person all my love and wishes for competent and compassionate medical care, swift healing, and fruitful conversations in the future about your growing relationship.
How Black Queer and Trans Folks Can Get Involved in the Kink Community
In the hands of Black queer and trans folks, kink can be deeply healing and transformative.
Thank You, Ex: For the Practice of Making Monthly Playlists
Step One: You must unfollow her on Spotify to ensure that you cannot see what she’s listening to anymore.
The Eroscillator Top Deluxe Vibrator Is the MILF of the Sex Toy World
I expected to be blown away by the Eroscillator Top Deluxe Vibrator — and I was.
Dykes on Dates: Parents Weekend
We went on a bunch of double dates with my parents, and it made me realize our relationships are more similar than I thought.
You Need Help: Can I Open My Relationship and Have Casual Sex Without Relying On The Apps?
Sure, maybe some nights you’ll encounter a confident queer who makes a beeline for you and starts chatting, but you know how you can guarantee a confident queer is in the room chatting to new people? Be The Confident Queer You Want To See At The Bar!
How Polyamory Pushed Me to Prioritize My Pelvic Health
Communicating openly about sex and pelvic health with my partners helps me advocate for myself in medical settings.
Thank You, Ex: For Teaching Me To Save for Retirement
Bless my ex, and her bestie, because they both patiently explained why actually, there’s nothing punk rock about not taking care of your future self if you have the means to.
I Railed My Partner With a Neoprene Thigh Harness While Tribbing Fast Enough to Start a Fire
The main reason I’ve been wanting to try the Neoprene Thigh Harness is so that I can penetrate my partner while tribbing against her thigh.
Blush and Bashful: How to Elope
When you elope it’s fantastically freeing to only focus on yourselves.
Thank You, Ex: For (1) Set of Ghost Hands
I don’t like to think about the endings, which is probably why I’m always haunted, always clinging to things that return even when I should pretend I do not see them.
How to Finger Your Partner When You Have Chronic Pain in Your Hands
A few minor adjustments can make fingering easier, even when chronic pain is cramping your style.