How Ghosting Harms Queer Communities, According to a Philosopher
When I’m ghosted and when others like me are ghosted, it takes on an extra sting.
When I’m ghosted and when others like me are ghosted, it takes on an extra sting.
“The toy comes in a hard plastic case with a clear lid for viewing that reminds me of the cryogenic sleeping pods in Alien.”
The questions we get more frequently for this column than any other are about love, so we tried to answer: what is love?
Just like “red flags” can tell you a person might be toxic, overly controlling, or unavailable emotionally, looking for “green flags” can tell you if your partner is, generally, a pretty solid person worth continuing to invest in!
I think what we’re trying to do here is enabling you to get comfortable judging the quality of your relationship not for your mutual willingness to prioritize emotional whims and romantic rapture over common sense but by the actual connection you feel to a person.
I never felt unsafe with her in the driver’s seat, even when she screamed at other cars. I didn’t feel scared. I felt drained.
For trans women who experience genital dysphoria, being penetrated in the front can be really meaningful.
Ultimately, you should remember that it’s up to your girlfriend to do the work of making friends, not you. I would encourage you to find a way to cheer her on from the sidelines in a way that feels good for both of you.
As all Hinge prompts do, these run the gamut of “vaguely cringe-inducing” to “absolutely mortifying,” and that’s before we even begin to consider whether they are, at their root, kind of pandering?
It’s obvious you love your fiancé very much, and want to protect them from any agony the world wants to hurl at them. Unfortunately, you mostly can’t. But here’s what you can do instead.
If someone has to serve you while you flirt relentlessly or converse stiffly, then they should be paid extra for that labor.
I think this trope has held so many lesbians back from making moves and finding love with someone they’re interested in. You’re not gonna come off as predatory just by flirting with someone, trust me.
The best part of using this toy was when I eventually tossed it on the floor and let myself orgasm all over my hot date’s fist instead.
Indulge in coziness, quirk it up, and create a soundtrack for your life. Here are some fool-proof tips for feeling like the star of your own personal rom-com.
Do you really want to be that person who survived a plane crash and then died from putting a literal stick up their ass? No, you don’t.
It can be really hard to watch a friend in a relationship that doesn’t seem good for them. At the same time, this situation isn’t entirely yours to fix or even diagnose for that matter.
Accept the messy questioning phase. It’s the whole point of being alive.
In short, if you know, you know: fat sex is church. Here are some of the positions that have taken me there when I knew I needed to be lifted in prayer.
Today is the last-ever NSFW Sunday – and a love letter to building a life around queer sex.
Happy holidays! And by “happy” I mean, things sure feel really bad right now?? But luckily our gift to you is a virtual one AKA our long-awaited mailbag episode!