How Ghosting Harms Queer Communities, According to a Philosopher
When I’m ghosted and when others like me are ghosted, it takes on an extra sting.
Anonymous Sex Toy Review: The Lovense Hyphy
“The toy comes in a hard plastic case with a clear lid for viewing that reminds me of the cryogenic sleeping pods in Alien.”
You Need Help: What Is Love?
The questions we get more frequently for this column than any other are about love, so we tried to answer: what is love?
Relationship “Green Flags” To Look For When Dating
Just like “red flags” can tell you a person might be toxic, overly controlling, or unavailable emotionally, looking for “green flags” can tell you if your partner is, generally, a pretty solid person worth continuing to invest in!
You Need Help: What Does “Going Slow” in a Lesbian Relationship Look Like?
I think what we’re trying to do here is enabling you to get comfortable judging the quality of your relationship not for your mutual willingness to prioritize emotional whims and romantic rapture over common sense but by the actual connection you feel to a person.
You Have Road Rage? That’s a Red Flag!
I never felt unsafe with her in the driver’s seat, even when she screamed at other cars. I didn’t feel scared. I felt drained.
Muffing 101
For trans women who experience genital dysphoria, being penetrated in the front can be really meaningful.
You Need Help: Your Girlfriend Has No Friends
Ultimately, you should remember that it’s up to your girlfriend to do the work of making friends, not you. I would encourage you to find a way to cheer her on from the sidelines in a way that feels good for both of you.
Ranking and Roasting Hinge’s New Gay Prompts
As all Hinge prompts do, these run the gamut of “vaguely cringe-inducing” to “absolutely mortifying,” and that’s before we even begin to consider whether they are, at their root, kind of pandering?
You Need Help: Your Future In-Laws Won’t Come to Your Wedding
It’s obvious you love your fiancé very much, and want to protect them from any agony the world wants to hurl at them. Unfortunately, you mostly can’t. But here’s what you can do instead.
You’re a Bad Tipper? That’s a Red Flag!
If someone has to serve you while you flirt relentlessly or converse stiffly, then they should be paid extra for that labor.
You Need Help: Can I Flirt With My Crushes Without Being Seen as Predatory?
I think this trope has held so many lesbians back from making moves and finding love with someone they’re interested in. You’re not gonna come off as predatory just by flirting with someone, trust me.
Anonymous Sex Toy Review: The Snail Vibe
The best part of using this toy was when I eventually tossed it on the floor and let myself orgasm all over my hot date’s fist instead.
Be the Queer Rom-Com Lead You Want To See in the World
Indulge in coziness, quirk it up, and create a soundtrack for your life. Here are some fool-proof tips for feeling like the star of your own personal rom-com.
Sex Tips for When You’re Stranded in the Canadian Wilderness Post-Plane Crash With No Rescue Team in Sight
Do you really want to be that person who survived a plane crash and then died from putting a literal stick up their ass? No, you don’t.
You Need Help: How Do I Get My Friend Out of Her Toxic Relationship?
It can be really hard to watch a friend in a relationship that doesn’t seem good for them. At the same time, this situation isn’t entirely yours to fix or even diagnose for that matter.
You Need Help: Will I Ever Grow Out Of The Messy Questioning Phase?
Accept the messy questioning phase. It’s the whole point of being alive.
Positions for Fat Sex in All of Its Holiness
In short, if you know, you know: fat sex is church. Here are some of the positions that have taken me there when I knew I needed to be lifted in prayer.
NSFW Sunday Is a Love Letter to Queer Sex
Today is the last-ever NSFW Sunday – and a love letter to building a life around queer sex.
“Wait, Is This a Date?” Podcast Special Episode: 2021 Mailbag
Happy holidays! And by “happy” I mean, things sure feel really bad right now?? But luckily our gift to you is a virtual one AKA our long-awaited mailbag episode!