You Need Help: How Can I Make Penetration Less Painful?
You shouldn’t have pain during sex. If you want to explore penetration, that has to be a choice you’re making for your own pleasure.
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Will Not Call Their Body A Temple
The body doesn’t have to be a temple, don’t hook up with your ex over the holidays, no really don’t do it, and more.
You Need Help: I Don’t Know How To Be a Casual Friend
It sounds like you want to be neutral with your former friend. That will take some work and some boundary-setting on your part, but it’s doable.
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is a Black Hole in Space
What happens when you orgasm, green flags in a relationship, exploring your bisexuality and more.
You Need Help: How Do I Pursue a Beautiful Woman Without Getting My Feelings Hurt?
The very short answer is you can’t — but it’s probably still worth it to give this situationship a chance!
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Has A Growth Mindset
Why a growth mindset is part of good relationships, why recommitment is sexier than commitment, emotional affairs, irritability and more.
Anonymous Sex Toy Review: The Manta
The Fun Factory Manta is a sex toy advertised “for men,” but what they really mean is “for people with penises.”
Holigay Gift Guide: Stocking Stuffers Under $20 for the Sweetheart Whose ‘Stocking’ You ‘Stuff’
Shops this list of toys and accessories that are under $20 and have yourself a hole-y night.
You Need Help: Trusting Yourself After Leaving an Abusive Relationship
The first thing I want to say is that I’m so sorry you had this experience with someone you loved, who you trusted. You deserve to be treated with respect and honor and grace. Remember that when you feel yourself doubting your heart and mind in the future.
I Used to ‘Compensate’ for My Blackness in the Dating World — Now I Embrace It
As a teen, my insecurities made me feel like my Blackness was something that dragged down my worth.
How To Plan a Cozy, Sexy Holiday Date Night
Gifts don’t have to be physical objects. Setting up a sweet, sexy date-night-in for your partner or polycule can be an incredibly meaningful experience, as well as a beautiful way to show your care and affection.
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Feeling Feelings
Having great sex when you don’t feel great and sexy, what it means to feel your feelings, the state of sex parties today and more.
You Need Help: I Feel Like a Bad Queer Because I’m Not Good at Being Friends After Breakups
When we’re friends after the breakup, it has felt confusing because everything feels the same to me intimacy and connection-wise, minus the fact that we’re no longer having sex.
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Paying for Porn with Crypto
A sex toy company won the right to advertise on the MTA, how to pay for your porn with crypto, how to travel with your partner and more.
Anonymous Sex Toy Review: The Sundaze
Trying the Sundaze gave me the opportunity to play around with masturbating in a way that I’m not usually inclined to.
You Need Help: What If My Mom Hates My Girlfriend?
Of course you’re being thoughtful about if, when and how you’ll introduce your girlfriend to your family — given your mom’s previous actions, there’s a chance she won’t grant you and your girlfriend the respect your relationship deserves.
8 Things to Have In Your Home Before You Hook Up With a Fat Babe
That cute, chubby hottie you’ve been dating is coming over! Let’s get your space prepped!
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is a Pre-Porn Retina Scan
When your girlfriend is your findom, what happens if your dog eats your sex toy, how to keep a shitty email from ruining your day and more.
We Love A Sex Drawer, But Sometimes A Strap Is A Work Of Art
Are your straps proudly on display or tucked away for a ::ahem:: rainy day?
Pick Your Own Adventure: Strap-On Edition
Very Realistic or Wildly Fictional, Which style strap is calling your name?