Our episode topic this week is Best Sex Ever so we are talking about… the best sex we’ve ever had! We’re joined by Autostraddle writer, poet, and journalist Dani Janae as we get into what makes good sex good.
Burlesque is my loving manifestation of what all my ancestors deserved—not simply tolerance, but unbridled celebration.
Being self-conscious was my entire personality back then, wondering who around me might find me unattractive and why. The port under my skin felt like an obvious answer.
Stop calling your person by their first initial, why the anti-porn people are coming for Twitter, what comet relationships are and more.
Within the brief eternity of our car makeout, in touching her body, I felt my shame begin to melt.
“Challenge. Sext in strictly second person.”
Of all the unexpected changes I encountered during my transition, the most surreal had to be transforming a part of my body.
Your feelings about her are a great big neon sign spelling out the word B R E A K U P.
To live out a love that is healthy, queer, non-mongamous has been a source of deep personal transformation.
How to orgasm using just your mind, why consent and pleasure are intertwined, how to split the bills with someone you’re dating and more.
I have to start by getting this out: “Fuck your ex. FUCK THEM.” You are not to blame.
I attended the Chicago Pride Parade, where safer sex advocates tossed dental dams in shiny squares of plastic from a float. Thrilled, I swept them up, put them in my bag and promptly put them to use.
What’s up with OnlyFans and MasterCard, why to turn on your read receipts, how to have boundaries if you’re starting to date again and more.
How do we find dignity in our bodies after it has been taken from us by an abusive partner?
“I can play with my chest and eat a peach while getting pounded.”
This episode is all about lesbian interconnectivity — hooking up with friends’ exes, friends hooking up with our exes, and the culture created by all that drama. Come for the gossip, stay for the emotional processing.
When I tell people that I wrote myself a sexual body, I don’t know if they believe me. But our bodies are stories as much as they’re anything else.
What your sex dreams mean and what to do (or not do) about them, how to take care of leather, why to talk to strangers and more.
An exploration of summer, desire, and the senses through the lens of tarot and trans womanhood.
“I’m really hoping throughout this podcast, you start dating like crazy, and maybe I settle down? Who knows what could happen?”