How To Please a Pillow Princess, by a Pillow Princess
The term pillow princess has its roots in 90s lesbian circles.
You Need Help: Am I Invisible to Other LGBTQIA People?
There isn’t a secret formula for attracting others, but confidence does go a long way.
I’ve Been Non-Monogamous for Eight Years — These Are My Mistakes and Lessons for Happier Loving
My experience of love has been marked by learning, mistakes, and lost relationships.
You Need Help: Dating Makes Me Sad
The best thing you can do for your dating life right now is to actually take a break from dating.
How To Send Your Best Post-Date Text
“There is one post-date texting practice the team universally despises.”
You Need Help: I Moved Closer to My Girlfriend but She’s Too Busy for Me
The person who moved shouldn’t be the only person experiencing change.
You Need Help: How Can I Date When I’m So Scared To?
Dating requires so much vulnerability, and a fear of rejection can be such a roadblock. So, what can we do to confront that roadblock?
You Need Help: How Do I Get Over the First Woman I Slept With?
Focusing your energy on moving on and healing rather than trying to reconnect is the best path forward — and not just for you, but for her, too.
You Need Help: Your Wife Doesn’t Want Sex, but There’s Something Deeper Here
You are telling me one thing, which is that your wife and you communicate well and she cares for you, and then I am seeing something different, which is that your needs are continuously deprioritized in the relationship, and that seems to be how things play out when it comes to your wife’s actions.
You Need Help: How Do I Stop Bringing Baggage From My Last Relationship Into My New One?
This is where it gets really scary: Growing together requires communication.
Lesbian Date Ideas Inspired By Stock Images
Out of hot queer date ideas? I’ve got you covered.
You Need Help: My Girlfriend Doesn’t Want To Have Sex
To me, both of these things are true: 1. People’s sex drives can change for any number of reasons, at any time and 2. If sex is important to you, that’s valid, too!
How To Make Planning Your Queer Wedding HOT
Wedding planning isn’t exactly known for being sexy, but we found a way to make it so.
The Cozy Under-The-Covers Sex You’re Having This Fall, According to Your Zodiac Sign
Wondering what kind of queer sex your sign’s going to be having this fall? I’m going to tell you, don’t worry.
All the Chaotic Gay Questions I’ve Asked on a First Date
“Do you have color-changing LED light bulbs and/or light strips?”
You Need Help: How Can I Help With Someone Else’s Fear of Dating?
Sometimes, people get on dating apps before they’re really ready to date.
Queer Audio Erotica Changed My Life, Helped Me Connect My Mind and Body
I was a late bloomer when it comes to all things sex and sexuality.
How To Find a Queer Wedding Photographer
A wedding photographer plays an intimate role, and having a queer one for your gay wedding can mean a lot.
You Need Help: My Girlfriend Struggles With Social Skills
Just because someone operates differently from you doesn’t mean they’re wrong, bad, or need help.
Untethered: On Miss Havisham-Style Decision-Making
My ex and I worked out a separation agreement over the course of those months and signed it in August.